I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

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So... how do you think this story will go on, from this point on?

Amber is basically a barely pubescent girl in the body of a woman with cancer: she has never taken care of herself in any way, always let others find solutions for her (she found her job at the nursing home and at the call center because of Destiny, and a therapist because of Becky, completely ignoring all the other issues she couldn't let other people handle for her).

She doesn't have the brain nor mental preparation to go out and find an oncologist, manage all the hospital visits, manage all the meds that she'll most likely have to take.

I honestly see this going very badly for her.
 
Hoooookay. I go out to do things for other people to make them healthier, and this shit just continues to grow apace. As always, apologies in advance for length.

What happens when you eat chemo-unsafe foods on chemo?

Since your immune system goes straight to hell, any bug that in a food - especially unpasteurized - could just off you before the cancer does. Plus, cancer treatment generally causes rapid weight loss for many people, and that in turn causes your gallbladder to get full of stones. When it isn't working properly to process fat, greasy, fried shit can cause significant gastro pain. Chemo also has, for some people, the horrible side effect of constant, unabated nausea that can't even be controlled with phenergan or Zofran. I can't even imagine basically being seasick, nonstop, for months.

I wonder if she's ever going to realize that she doesn't actually have any clue what works for her and she should listen to medical professionals. It's great that she now realizes that not going to the gyno was a mistake, but this isn't the only medical issue she has her head up her ass about.

Doubtful.

If, by some insane miracle she survives this, I think this is the 1 event that could convince her to change the death fat lifestyle. I wish her luck, unlike a lot of other cows featured here she's not an evil person, just really sad and weak.

Also doubtful.

Amber has clung to her lack of gynocological care as the cause of this. She still won't admit that her weight, lifestyle that led to her weight, her doctor shopping and her dismissal of all advice are more to blame. The gyno would have found it earlier, perhaps, but she could have prevented this.

Nothing is ever her fault or her responsibility.

Also, I think it is foolish to put any trust in an offhand comment by Dana's supposed best friend. Too much telephone going on for that to be credible. I doubt there could be any staging at this point unless Amber has been to appointments we don't know about.

Agreed. If she'd had biopsies or scans, we all know she'd have filmed something about it and uploaded it.

A lot of people underestimate the role development plays in the person you become.

All of Amber's behaviours—her eating, her manipulating, her lying—are likely things she employed during childhood as a way to survive and cope and they've stuck. Yes, Amber should have sought therapy a long time ago. I'm not sure why she hasn't, but I'm reluctant to believe it's solely laziness. It's painful shit. The idea of finding a magic pill that will make it all better seems a lot more appealing. There was child there once, though. A child who could have turned out much, much differently had they not experienced the childhood Amber did. What happened to that child wasn't their fault and that child grew up to be Amber.

This is the kind of bullshit used to justify shitty behavior. She is lazy, we know this just by watching her. And she refuses to help herself AT ALL. No, fuck this "My parents were terrible" crap. Lots of people grow up in an unstable environment. They don't eat themselves to 600 pounds and film it for the world to see while blowing huge chunks of money on shit they'll never use or wear and constantly lying about things easily checked. She just doesn't want to change, because it landed her in a cushy fucking job with no work and a big paycheck.

When she cried that she wanted her mum, it broke my heart. It's a bit rich to fuck your child up for life and then decide the behaviour that is a result of your actions is too much for you.

Whatever. She could have contacted her mother at any time. Like when her own other had cancer. That would have been a good time to start building that relationship back up. But nope.

With that in mind, how do we know she's even telling the truth about this? How many other conditions has she claimed to have for asspats and attention?

I think there's something there. Whether she just ran right with cancer and they said precancerous cells is unknown. She looked almost gleeful at the prospect of having some serious disorder to compete with Norma in that "Finally someone cares" bullshit video.

That's such a bullshit excuse, though.
She brought most of it upon herself, plain and simple. Doesn't mean that she deserves cancer, but it doesn't make the dumb ass choices she made any less dumb. And it doesn't make her any less of a horrible person.

Rock on. Exactly this.

On a positive note, Amber has reclaimed her title as topfat. Her income per video and total views are the highest they've ever been.

And they'll continue to be as she continue to attention whore her health.
Oh wow. This is why you go to the gyno every year, ladies. Also never become 600 lbs.

Now thinking about it, the signs have been there for atleast 6 months. She has complained lower back pain, her skin has looked sickly for a while and a sudden weight loss. Missing periods for years is a huge fucking warning sign with neon lights. She had severe bleeding, it's not really looking good in terms of what stage it is. It could have spread, lowering the survival rate. Almost feel bad for her, but she could've avoided this so easily. Yearly gyno, don't abuse your body, take care of your body when you have symptoms, these things won't protect you from it completely, but lower the chances and help catching it earlier. She has made the risks unneccessarily high, all voluntarily.

Eh, back pain I can see just from weight. Some of her other symptoms, diabeetus. When you get a super morbidly obese patient with multiple issues, it's really hard to track down what it is. Then again, most people just go to the goddamned doctor like adults instead of waving around their degree from WebMD and saying they know what works for them.

Due to her weight the usual first line of action, a hysterectomy, is impossible. Her chances of dying on the table are probably higher than surviving cancer without removal of the uterus. Being super morbidly obese will mess with chemo, fat cells in the body produce enzymes which make some chemo drugs less effective. She would need extremely high doses, raising all risks of chemo, and make her very sick. Atleast she has a shot at reaching normal body weight with throwing up 24/7.

I wouldn't term it impossible, but I also don't see a surgeon being willing to take on the challenge until she lost weight, like whats her name on that family by the ton ep.

If she had taken any kind of care of her body, truly attempted therapy and losing weight, I would feel bad for her. Feels so shitty to say but this could've been catched earlier, if not avoided completely had she taken basic care of her body. Her panic seems genuine, and she should be scared, her chances are shitty. If she survives this, she should be fucking grateful and change her whole life.

It's sad, in the sense that having a terrible disease is sad, but I don't feel much sympathy for her. I doubt we'll be seeing muh of a change in her shitty attitude and behavior once she gets by this.

As someone asked previously in this thread...IS Albert's mom currently on probation?

Why does she never come see her, seeing's how Big Al is too embarrassed to buy 3 airline seats to travel to her?

Will she come now? (No.) But Al could absolutely pay to have her fly out.

If there's no travel restrictions on mama, how much of a shithead is she?

Baby's got blood chunks. Come here, mother.

WTF doesn't Big Al call her mother? People act like this is a one way road.

Now she faces that horrible period where you know something is drastically wrong but not to what degree or what can be done about it... also known as: "Scare yourself to death reading awful stuff online" phase. She shouldn't bother right now; she won't be able to retain any useful information.

When has she ever?

All this of course, assumes she does in fact have cancer & didn't misinterpret something - we shall see.

She's going to need to max out her YT earnings if I understand your system at all. I have one question - may have been answered but this thread blew up very quickly & my mind is a blur. Is it possible she'd be refused treatment or even some further testing because of her finances; if a doc or hospital deems she may not have enough?

Most docs and hospitals are willing to work with patients. They doe not have to take her on - only the ER cannot refuse to treat - but the medicos have to be willing to know they're not getting paid all in one big old chunk.


Lord only knows what the coming weeks will bring from her.

Pplenty of emotional vids from a cash cow.

I wonder if you can hire a paid advocate? Doesn't sound like a bad idea - somebody who doesn't know you & thus can remain objective & who can condense difficult information into bite sized chunks Amber could easily digest? Maybe not - that "job" would be fraught with legal peril.

Many hospitals have patient advocates to walk them through stuff. But they're not the patient's full time, let me do everything for you, advocate. The patient and their families are supposed to use the information provided by the advocate to get through their treatment plan. If she has to go through chemo and/or radiation, patient advocates or coordinators can see if she's qualified to participate in any studies the hospital may be doing, which can reduce or remove entirely the cost for procedures.

I wonder if she herself realised that the recent 75lbs she lost was not due to her incredible intuitive eating as she so strongly believed but most likely because of cancer. It is a little weird, that it seems she didn't really lie this time about how she lost it as she did indeed not follow any diet and ate intuitively...

She lost - according to her - but them maintained her weight right around 500. So, was she wildly compensating for weight loss that goes with cancer, or did she just start stuffing her face again with pizza, DQ, and Chinese food? I'd be inclined to think that a stage one cancer would be easier to compensate for, but who knows WTF is actually going on there. It isn't like there's a single reliable person in that house to give a proper update.

I thought she claimed the weight loss started when she used Freshly, and she did say that it started in October last year. But it actually slowed in recent months, and she is gaining again. Cancer weight loss doesn't do that from what I have read. Her bs about intuitive eating is a very recent thing, and she has been claiming that even as her weight loss plateaued. Thoughts?

Yeah, I'm not sure about this whole thing. If the cancer is bad, even with as much as she eats, she'd have a hard time maintaining.

rewatching this, i wonder if the cancer has been there for a while and had spread to her bladder, which is what caused this ‘incurable bladder infection’..?

I was thinking of this same thing. If she'd actually gone to the urologist for that third opinion, it's possible they would have ordered up some scans (somehow) and found this earlier. Nope, instead we get bullshit about how their office was "closed for the holidays" so she could have a reason not to go then, and of course after that, she'd already moved on.
 
She says a lot of stuff here that in hindsight is rather yikes, but I embedded the video and timestamped it where shs starts talking about her ovaries and shit. This was back in December dude, jfc
I agree, but her complaints are kinda what one expects to hear from someone her size. And the fact that there are many videos where she talks about problems like this and the ones about the utis and kidneys. We already know that she moves as little as possible, doesn't drink enough water, and has abominable hygeine. I was expecting a major infection, blood clot, or a fall that leads to one of those two things. It just seemed more likely (to me) than full on cancer. But someone who isn't a doctor or a former deathfat with the experience wouldn't think like that.

She has talked a lot about disturbing medical issues, but telling the world for views and dollars doesn't do shit. Seeking care only in emergencies doesn't do shit. A doctor who knows your history could have pieced these hints together. No one who watches Amber is responsible for understanding her symptoms. Several of her fans with medical education and experience tried to get her to bet help. I will never forget her mocking Christina, that nurse who gave her very dire warnings, while eating BK and talking about her dietitian who later blocked her. We only have hindsight and research after learning the dx.
 
If nothing else, this should serve as a glaring example of how much tougher it is to assess, test & treat many serious illnesses if you have to factor in morbid or super-morbid obesity.

In a past video of hers she spoke about pain. Her almost exact wording was: "Pain - I'm married to it." It's one of the few things she's said I've unequivocally believed. You don't cart around almost 600 lbs. & not have pain. I suppose you get used to it but a certain level of pain in 1 area of the body can mask a lesser, nearby pain.

Who knows how long she's had pain "down there". How would she differentiate it from lower back pain? She's complained about what she called 'kidney pain' a lot in the last several months & it really makes me wonder.

I know bugger all about endometrial or any form of cancer - a quick Google search doesn't bring the depth of knowledge I'd love to have right now but no matter, I'm not the one with that diagnosis. The Canadian Cancer Society's page on endometrial cancer says you're looking at stage 4 by the time it's in the bladder.

It lists a bunch of factors that help determine prognosis. Her youth is an advantage, her weight is a huge disadvantage. If nothing else, it is really going to complicate diagnostic testing & treatments. Even a "simple" hysterectomy is going to be anything but simple for her. THOSE I know a fair bit about.

She'll need a ton of layers of stitches & even if she barely moves for many, many days after, at her size, there's a high risk of stitches letting go, very high risk of infection - fatty tissue doesn't heal... "nicely", hernias, ruptures - Lord, I wouldn't want to face any type of serious abdominal surgery at her size. And there is just no way Becky & the boys, even with the help of Dusty & Dana could move her as needed without half killing themselves & potentially doing her a good deal of harm. She'll need to arrange for home nursing or a nursing home & at her size, my choice would be a nursing home. There at least, the risks of infection would be minimized.

At home, her room would have to be thoroughly cleaned & disinfected & I don't even want to think about the mattress. No pets in that room until the stitches have thoroughly healed. And yes, there are ways to eat that promote healing - unfortunately, fast food & take out aren't included.

If what's to come over the next several months isn't a kick in the ass to any morbidly obese people who follow her, I don't know what it would take. It will take incredible nursing/support skill & more luck than I think she has left, to avoid at least 1 complication.
 
She says a lot of stuff here that in hindsight is rather yikes, but I embedded the video and timestamped it where shs starts talking about her ovaries and shit. This was back in December dude, jfc
How did she know she had cysts on her ovaries? Would that be something an ultrasound would show? I don't see how a doctor could actually feel them through all the fat she has.
 
Anybody know about how long ago it was that she told of bleeding heavily in E&R's shower? It sounded a lot like this recent episode and I'm just working out a mental timeline....
 
Anybody know about how long ago it was that she told of bleeding heavily in E&R's shower? It sounded a lot like this recent episode and I'm just working out a mental timeline....

i’d been over a year.. i want to say she first mentioned it two/three years ago..?
i don’t think she’s ever had a normal period. she was 300lbs at age eleven.
 
Lord almighty, this is just the beginning of our gorl becoming a hero and leader for all women in the universe. She will become an authority on Cancer and anything else that fits into the #survivor / #powerful victim category.

However smug, arrogant and intolerable Amber has been in the past...we haven't seen shit yet. The next few weeks she will thrive off her new found attention like never before. Virtue signalling fuckwits will stroke her ego and tell her how strong and brave she is whilst others will send monetary donations. Amber will smack her lips in insidious excitement and rush off to Walmart to buy garbage she doesn't need to put with the rest of her garbage to "sooth her pain you guise."

This entire thing is going to give our dainty Queen leverage on a scale we have never witnessed before. She will milk it for everything it's worth. Morons from all over the globe will subscribe to be a part of her remarkable journey because there is nothing more virtuous than supporting a mentally handicapped, obese, cancer victim.

Her cancer will eventually fizzle out like everything else in Amber's life, but at least she will have gained thousands more subscribers to help fund her orange chicken expeditions.

I've watched enough of her videos to know she lies continuously, has no integrity, no respect for her subscribers, no intention of losing weight and no self-respect. She will say anything to cause an emotional outpour so that people flood her comment section with superficial messages declaring their allegiance to her in the form of love and compasssion.

Not me. As far as I'm concerned she can get fucked. Mark my words, within a few weeks she will be as right as rain, as though nothing ever happened. Unlike Becky's Mum who will be long gone and 6 feet under.
 
Lord almighty, this is just the beginning of our gorl becoming a hero and leader for all women in the universe. She will become an authority on Cancer and anything else that fits into the #survivor / #powerful victim category.

However smug, arrogant and intolerable Amber has been in the past...we haven't seen shit yet. The next few weeks she will thrive off her new found attention like never before. Virtue signalling fuckwits will stroke her ego and tell her how strong and brave she is whilst others will send monetary donations. Amber will smack her lips in insidious excitement and rush off to Walmart to buy garbage she doesn't need to put with the rest of her garbage to "sooth her pain you guise."

This entire thing is going to give our dainty Queen leverage on a scale we have never witnessed before. She will milk it for everything it's worth. Morons from all over the globe will subscribe to be a part of her remarkable journey because there is nothing more virtuous than supporting a mentally handicapped, obese, cancer victim.

Her cancer will eventually fizzle out like everything else in Amber's life, but at least she will have gained thousands more subscribers to help fund her orange chicken expeditions.

I've watched enough of her videos to know she lies continuously, has no integrity, no respect for her subscribers, no intention of losing weight and no self-respect. She will say anything to cause an emotional outpour so that people flood her comment section with superficial messages declaring their allegiance to her in the form of love and compasssion.

Not me. As far as I'm concerned she can get fucked. Mark my words, within a few weeks she will be as right as rain, as though nothing ever happened. Unlike Becky's Mum who will be long gone and 6 feet under.

100%!! She's going to be insufferable, I'm already anticipating off the charts raging cuntness and I don't think I'll be watching. At least it'll be amusing to see the haydurs try to figure out how to reconcile having virtuously announced they'd no longer be watching or commenting, only to have it come out weeks later the hambeast's 'diagnosis' is a grey area and she'd be perfectly fine
 
I thought she claimed the weight loss started when she used Freshly, and she did say that it started in October last year. But it actually slowed in recent months, and she is gaining again. Cancer weight loss doesn't do that from what I have read. Her bs about intuitive eating is a very recent thing, and she has been claiming that even as her weight loss plateaued. Thoughts?
Freshly was another one of those things she inexplicably abandoned eve when it seemed to be working for her.

it's the same here. for people like AL, who cares because she just blows her money on torrid and journals but for seniors, it's sad stuff they have to kiss their life savings goodbye, insurance, I think they can only keep a small amount for burial expenses. then they die and Medicaid can take their house and shit so their kids get nothing.
At least in my state, Medicaid is based on your monthly income. Your other assests don't come into play unless you're applying for long term
care like a nursing home.
 
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While I'm very sadden about her prognosis (wouldn't wish Cancer on even the worst kinds of people), I am a bit...annoyed by what all this attention will do for Amber.

She's always had a smug attitude, whether its about her weight or how she takes care of her pets, Amberlynn default behavior whenever things are supposedly going her way is to act super smug.

Most of us knew she likes to over embellish her medical issues and now that she has the big C, she can lord over everybody's head and tell them that they cann't bully her since she has cancer.

Just means all the haters and the haydur nation are going to be sucking up to Amber and kissing her feet for forgiveness.

Basically, expect to see more smuglynn videos in the near future.
 
While I'm very sadden about her prognosis (wouldn't wish Cancer on even the worst kinds of people), I am a bit...annoyed by what all this attention will do for Amber.

She's always had a smug attitude, whether its about her weight or how she takes care of her pets, Amberlynn default behavior whenever things are supposedly going her way is to act super smug.

Most of us knew she likes to over embellish her medical issues and now that she has the big C, she can lord over everybody's head and tell them that they cann't bully her since she has cancer.

Just means all the haters and the haydur nation are going to be sucking up to Amber and kissing her feet for forgiveness.

Basically, expect to see more smuglynn videos in the near future.
Yep how fortunate for her, if it's true, she happen to get the one with a relatively high survival rate. Maybe the medical bills will bitch slap that cunt smirk off her face
 
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