I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

[Ginger Piglet]

All of Amber's behaviours—her eating, her manipulating, her lying—are likely things she employed during childhood as a way to survive and cope and they've stuck.

With that in mind, how do we know she's even telling the truth about this? How many other conditions has she claimed to have for asspats and attention?

 

[Kikomobi]

Pardon??? She CAN'T go to the gyno because she's too fucking obese. She is dying and still can't admit that the cause is her shoveling tons of shitty food in her mouth hole for her entire life.
If CANCER didn't make her more responsible, nothing will. If she miraculously survives, you bet your ass something else will put her down in the next few years.
You guys should start grieving, there is absolutely no chance she'll live.

 

[Moonpie]

If, by some insane miracle she survives this, I think this is the 1 event that could convince her to change the death fat lifestyle. I wish her luck, unlike a lot of other cows featured here she's not an evil person, just really sad and weak.

May sound harsh of me but I don't see her changing.
I'm not forgetting what a shit person she is and all the manipulation she's pulled. That diagnosis is stemming from her extreme gluttony and narcissism for many, many years. That's why her family has nothing to do with her.
She is an evil person to an extent.
I'm saving my good thoughts and luck for the truly deserving. Like the decent people who aren't narcissistic and manipulative who haven't gorged themselves to 600lbs and find out they have a terrible illness.
I don't think she has it in her to change.

 

[Mad Asshatter]

I read the whole thread, so here is my opinion:

I don't see much hope for her. Not because of the cancer, but because she has multiple complicating issues.

She's extremely fat. Most people say that Chantel had a hysterectomy and came out fine, but Chantel also doesn't weigh as much as her. Chantel also is by default a beneficiary of a national health care plan that can pay for this type of surgery. She is likely to have complications on the operating table or in recovery, and some surgeons might not even dare to touch her because the risk of death is so high.

Amber does not elect to pay her medical bills. I don't know if hospitals can reject you if you have bills that are in danger of collections, but will a hospital even go through with her needed treatment if she looks like she could skip out on these bills too?

She has piss poor coping skills. Her major 'cope' whenever things go south or she's stressed is to eat. What is going to happen if she needs radiation therapy/chemo and she can't eat because she's always nauseous and throwing up?

She doesn't like to listen to 'authority figures.' She never liked anyone trying to put her on a diet or control her food, she's repeatedly ignored and poo-poohed people warning her about not having insurance, and even when there were nurses who commented on her videos about what she is risking by not losing weight, she was like 'Thanks for caring, tee hee!' before taking another big bite of her burger. So with her history, will she still want to comply with treatment once she's done it a few times and it starts to take it's mental and physical toll as it causes her hair to fall out?

I never would wish cancer on her, and I really hope this is the major kick in the pants to make her take her health seriously, along with a major perspective and personality overhaul, but I am not willing to bet the farm on it.

 

[Turd Fergusson]

May sound harsh of me but I don't see her changing.
I'm not forgetting what a shit person she is and all the manipulation she's pulled. That diagnosis is stemming from her extreme gluttony and narcissism for many, many years. That's why her family has nothing to do with her.
She is an evil person to an extent.
I'm saving my good thoughts and luck for the truly deserving. Like the decent people who aren't narcissistic and manipulative who haven't gorged themselves to 600lbs and find out they have a terrible illness.
I don't think she has it in her to change.

I think the next videos will tell be interesting. If she starts the “ I know what works for me “, “meh mentalz”, “I know my body better than anyone else” charades, we’ll know that she has no intention to change even in the face of cancer. She is her worst enemy.

 

[QUEEN OF DENIAL]

Should we start taking bets when she'll bite the dust or is that too grim?

EDIT: wheeewwps

 

[dorinda]

I'm not sure if she knows obesity is a big risk factor for uterine cancer.

Yeah, morbid obesity causes a fucking ASTRONOMICAL increase in the risk for endometrial (aka uterine) cancer.

Especially in pre-menopausal women.

Here is a link to a little tl;dr about it :

Addressing the Role of Obesity in Endometrial Cancer Risk, Prevention, and Treatment

"In a meta-analysis of 26 studies by the American Institute for Cancer Research, for every increase of five BMI units, there was a 50% increase in the risk of developing endometrial cancer"

And Big Al's BMI is what? 100-ish?

When she said, "it's my fault," she wasn't kidding. Although I don't think she really realizes how true that is.

 

[Chickenpox]

Becky has to choose now. Being there for her mother who has cancer or Amber...

 

[Turd Fergusson]

Amber does not elect to pay her medical bills. I don't know if hospitals can reject you if you have bills that are in danger of collections, but will a hospital even go through with her needed treatment if she looks like she could skip out on these bills too?

My understanding is that they can’t refuse you treatment if you visit an Emergency Department. This is why she got a D&C, got stabilized and sent home. However, treatment cancer do not have to accept you if you can’t pay. I am not sure if the hospital has programmes to help pay for treatment for underinsured individuals. Unfortunately, her last year income was pretty high and she chose to spend it in food, restaurants, ghastly clothing and trinkets.

 

[Nef Anyo]

My understanding is that they can’t refuse you treatment if you visit an Emergency Department. This is why she got a D&C, got stabilized and sent home. However, treatment cancer do not have to accept you if you can’t pay. I am not sure if the hospital has programmes to help pay for treatment for underinsured individuals. Unfortunately, her last year income was pretty high and she chose to spend it in food, restaurants, ghastly clothing and trinkets.

Most hospitals, at least here in America, will often have payment programs for hospital bills. How much you pay each month and for how long is determined by income bracket.

Now, whether or not Amber has done taxes (lol right) and/or knows what her gross annual income is... is anyone's guess.

 

[Niggernerd]

Does this mean we all lost the dead pool?

 

[Fuzzy Bathrobes]

All of Amber's behaviours—her eating, her manipulating, her lying—are likely things she employed during childhood as a way to survive and cope and they've stuck. Yes, Amber should have sought therapy a long time ago. I'm not sure why she hasn't, but I'm reluctant to believe it's solely laziness. It's painful shit. The idea of finding a magic pill that will make it all better seems a lot more appealing. There was child there once, though. A child who could have turned out much, much differently had they not experienced the childhood Amber did. What happened to that child wasn't their fault and that child grew up to be Amber.

That's such a bullshit excuse, though. My situation was very similar to Amber's. I used to be a horrible person not too long ago. But at one point, us abuse victims come at a fork in the road; one that leads to bettering yourself, and the other leads to a fucking cliff where you fall into a hole of self-pity where you never learn to take accountability and thus never crawl out of. I, along with lots of people like us, went one way, she went the other. We're also the exact same age. Just 2 months off. Being an abuse survivor isn't an excuse for anything and implying that it does is like spitting in the face of the people who did put in the work and who did better themselves. Difference is that I had to do it myself. I didn't get ten grand in my bank account a month that could have been spent on therapy, education, and self-betterment.
She brought most of it upon herself, plain and simple. Doesn't mean that she deserves cancer, but it doesn't make the dumb ass choices she made any less dumb. And it doesn't make her any less of a horrible person.

 

[Cast Away]

She brought most of it upon herself, plain and simple. Doesn't mean that she deserves cancer, but it doesn't make the dumb ass choices she made any less dumb. And it doesn't make her any less of a horrible person.

let her be a warning to all the other tub of lards shoveling bacon cheeseburgers and greasy chicken fingers into their pudgy mouths

 

[Thistle]

Wow. I honestly did not expect she would have cancer before age 30.

Archive:
20200604 I don’t know what to say [360p].mp4

Chalk it up to bad lifestyle, bad habits, and probably bad genes.

 

[I raped a dog 2day]

Are we going to start a Hamberlynn deadpool and take bets on when she dies? Won’t be long now.

 

[hotcheetospuffs]

On a positive note, Amber has reclaimed her title as topfat. Her income per video and total views are the highest they've ever been.

 

[realhorrorshow]

Becky has to choose now. Being there for her mother who has cancer or Amber...

You know that Amber will make Becky choose.
"You have to work out where your loyalties lah babe"

Poor Becky, I feel bad for her now her mother AND her girlfriend is dealing with cancer. Part of me wishes Amber well, but part of me thinks "Nah, you literally ignored your doctor, stuffed yourself with food and didn't see a gyno. This is what happens"

 

[crawl]

Given Empathlynn’s prejudices, piss poor coping skills, and known history with medical bills, I think she might just take one for the team and ride this bitch out.
If she DID get surgery, the complications alone will kill her, assuming she doesn’t croak on the table from her fat crushing her lungs. Her body can’t heal a cat scratch, how the hell can it heal from a hysterectomy?
She’s said in previous ~raw~ videos that she fears how her death will affect her furbabies and those around her. She is aware the bills will be astronomical, and that when she dies It’ll all fall on them.
I don’t see her being a Cancer Warrior. I see her doing exactly what she has shown time and time again: putting blinders on and numbing the pain.

edit.. forgot an ‘and’..

 

[Twinkie]

Does this mean we all lost the dead pool?

Are we going to start a Hamberlynn deadpool and take bets on when she dies? Won’t be long now.

Deathfat Dead Pool

Amberlynn Reid Dead Pool

Neither are new, fwiw

 

[Pathogenic Solution]

Quite ironic.

All these years in which she was a toxic homunculus, trying to lose weight, being an asshole through and through, she finally got something that will guarantee her to lose weight and humble her.

My thoughts go with her, a cancer diagnosis is nothing short of horrible. I'm just hoping that she has both the money and the mental fortitude to go through all of this.