I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

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With that in mind, how do we know she's even telling the truth about this? How many other conditions has she claimed to have for asspats and attention?

Her telling the truth makes more sense than her lying.

She's looked increasingly unhealthy for months. She's talked about her problems with her menstrual cycle for a long time. She was at a higher risk for uterine cancer. We know the ER visit happened. We know she wasn't lying about that. Becky takes her everywhere and I doubt Becky would agree to be in on it, given what's happening with her mum.

If she is lying, she's been playing one hell of a long game and she needs an Oscar for that video.

Anyone can get cancer. It's not unbelievable that she's telling the truth.

As far as changing...a leopard doesn't change its spots.

Call me :optimistic:, but this leopard could. Neuroplasticity is a thing. The issue is she needs a psychologist, not a psychiatrist. Medication can be great, but it isn't going to do shit when it comes to unlearning all of the unhealthy behaviours and cognitions she learned during childhood and replacing them with healthy ones.
 
Been reading the whole thing this past hour.

While I agree ALR is dumb as a rock and could have mistaken "precancerous cells" or anything of that kind for cancer, her body doesn't really lie. Every health-related problems that she had over the past few months have been detailed on the 39 pages of this thread, so I won't repeat them, but after adding everything up I would be very surprise if it turns out she has something as mild as Stage I uterine cancer (that is easily treatable with an hysterectomy, and no radiation and chemo).

The weight loss and non-stop UIs are the biggest givers. Her body is in full fight mode, and while I wouldn't say the UIs are caused by metastasis cancer spreading to the bladder, it seems obvious to me that she has a ton of inflammation ongoing in her body.

I, too, wouldn't wish cancer on Amberlynn. But I'm not very surprised that it's happening.

May the odds ever be in her favor.
 
finally she will be able to use her "CANCER daily planner" to write in. :) I told ya she wasn't a hoarder guise!
 
Medical intervention: AL will get it and live to smirk out of her smug considerably thinner face and call her repulsive gullible audience more nasty names.
 
Of course she leaves her weight out of this, fuck it, skinny people get cancer too.
Why would her weight be a problem ??2? eeeeevery doctor she's seen never ever mentioned it.

Yes, Amber should have sought therapy a long time ago. I'm not sure why she hasn't, but I'm reluctant to believe it's solely laziness. It's painful shit. The idea of finding a magic pill that will make it all better seems a lot more appealing.
That's the thing though. Therapy is hard, it's painful, it's constant efforts, and it takes a lot of time before any significant change happens. And it doesn't just happen ; you make it happen. There are people who had it worse than her and acted as adults and got their shit together. Amber doesn't want to get better, she wants excuses. The only reason she went to therapy a psychiatrist is to get a bipolar diagnosis and use it as her mentulz shield.

She's a big bitch, so is karma.
 
This is common sense, but when shit starts happening with your body that’s weird or hasn’t happened before, tell your doctor. Everybody I’ve known in my life who ended up dying of cancer have ALL said “I knew something was wrong for a while but I just didn’t go to the doctor.” And all of the doctors told them if it could have been caught early, it could have been helped. And if you’re a woman, see a gyno at least every once in a while. That’s just good hygiene if anything.
 
I have been thinking... It has been mentioned that one of the risks for endometrial cancer is obesity. And that the higher the BMI, the greater the risk.

Think about it. She has been obese and morbidly obese for just about her entire life. Including her childhood and teens. Her body has had carcinogenic levels of hormones for years. Can you imagine? No wonder she got cancer before the age of thirty.

Now the most awful thing is knowing that today, there are now tons of overweight/obese children and that they are essentially bathing in these same excessive hormones who will turn into obese adults bathing in these same excessive hormones. Kind of grim if you think about it.
 
Of course she'd be smart to take a responsible adult with her to appointments to write stuff down, ask questions & keep her grounded in reality but that has never been her forte.
If we're being honest, she doesn't have a responsible adult in her life to take with her.
 
Can't decide whether or not I think she's going to die. Uterine cancer isn't shit for a normal person, and even if it's the same for her who the fuck knows if they've caught it in time? I don't really think its up to her to translate her own fucking medical records. I'm pretty sure she was told straight up "you have cancer" so I don't get why people are thinking she misunderstood something or is lying. Fuck if I know, though.
 
No, she surely doesn't & it's never been more vital for her ability to survive than right now. Becky has enough on her plate with her mother dying - if all those reports are factual & no reason not to be believe so, Ricky has a full time job & Eric? A week's worth of steady bitch slaps couldn't pull him out of the Swamp of Continuous Anxiety he chooses to live in; although I wouldn't be surprised to hear of him recommending a few essential oils to cure what ails her. Dusty & Dana? Hell no - both grifters.

I'm assuming her mother can't leave whatever state she currently lives in & if she's maintaining sobriety - this is the last thing she needs to be faced with. Amber would automatically be pulling all her guilt strings & it would get ugly. I don't know how social services of any description work in Kentucky & don't know where they'd start in trying to untangle any of Amber's fiscal messes.

I wonder if you can hire a paid advocate? Doesn't sound like a bad idea - somebody who doesn't know you & thus can remain objective & who can condense difficult information into bite sized chunks Amber could easily digest? Maybe not - that "job" would be fraught with legal peril.

Whatever happens from here on in, this mess is going to make Toxic Lake look like a high class spa pool.
 
Yeah, she said "i'm so mad at myself, because i knew something was wrong for so long but i didn't go to the gyno"
So it's just been festering in there for god only knows how long, until it got bad enough that she had to see a doctor.
I don't know anything about the situation, but five bucks says she's pissing blood at this point. Also she's fat.
 
I wonder if she herself realised that the recent 75lbs she lost was not due to her incredible intuitive eating as she so strongly believed but most likely because of cancer. It is a little weird, that it seems she didn't really lie this time about how she lost it as she did indeed not follow any diet and ate intuitively...
 
Im not, you know, GLAD this happened (Im not that sick and demented, I dont wish cancer even on my worst enemy...well, besides Soros) but Im not surprised either, going fat is a dangerous route that makes it not a matter of "if" but "when"...there is a reason you dont see fatties reach their 80's. I hope that there is hope for her recovery, both physical and mental (best case scenario, she recovers and "sees the light" and seeks self improvement). But we just arent sure when dealing with things like these, especially in the conditions she put her body in. I wish her the best in the end.
 
I wonder if she herself realised that the recent 75lbs she lost was not due to her incredible intuitive eating as she so strongly believed but most likely because of cancer. It is a little weird, that it seems she didn't really lie this time about how she lost it as she did indeed not follow any diet and ate intuitively...

Well, at least Cancer is the one that that "works" for Amber losing weight. Hey, she's finally achieved her dream of being able to continue eating slop buckets all day while the pounds just wither away!
 
I wonder if she herself realised that the recent 75lbs she lost was not due to her incredible intuitive eating as she so strongly believed but most likely because of cancer. It is a little weird, that it seems she didn't really lie this time about how she lost it as she did indeed not follow any diet and ate intuitively...
She is a pathological liar. I don't believe the weight loss at all. Unless she is in a doctors office and filmed on camera everything she says is a lie.

I am doubting this cancer bullshit at the moment too but wishful thinking she's being honest and her cancer ridden pussy is going to eat her from the inside out. We can only pray.
 
I want to feel sorry for her but this lecturing about women's health and proselytizing about systemic racism she's done since the reveal is aggravating.

It's almost like she wanted a cancer diagnosis and she had a plan in mind for it. I know everyone reacts differently to traumatizing situations in life but, come on.
 
Well, at least Cancer is the one that that "works" for Amber losing weight. Hey, she's finally achieved her dream of being able to continue eating slop buckets all day while the pounds just wither away!
Could've gotten a tapeworm long time ago for that lol
She is a pathological liar. I don't believe the weight loss at all. Unless she is in a doctors office and filmed on camera everything she says is a lie.

I am doubting this cancer bullshit at the moment too but wishful thinking she's being honest and her cancer ridden pussy is going to eat her from the inside out. We can only pray.
There were weigh-ins showing she is 500 (a few time slightly below it) so she did lose weight. We didn't see how fast etc. but she did lose.
 
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