Im very lonely

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You're on kiwifarms so that means you're probably kinda cool and we are automatically friends :)
 
Ffs you’re not being held at gunpoint being forced to live as a socially isolated weirdo who eats junk food, has poor hygiene, and uses Tinder to get your dick wet once in a blue moon. Utilize your good sense of humor with groups of people who share interests with you. Women like funny men. Eat better. Exercise. Join a club. If you feel like you’re struggling with depression seek a counselor or a Doctor. Gtfo of your own head and live.
 
Midwest Midwit dijo:
I regularly give talks to large rooms of people. I make everyone laugh. People say nice things to me, but then its home time. They're not my friends. They liked me because I made a boring seminar funny. They have their own lives to go to.
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Next time you do that, finish off with "Anyone want to go for a pint?" At least a couple of them will be willing.

For the next two hours it'll be working out where to go, how to get there, who likes what, a person will drop out and two more will join in, meaning the whole negotiation thing starts again and at the end you will swear to yourself you're never doing that again.

Win win either way.
 
dick brain dijo:
Sorry buddy but "Don't lift because women will think less of you for it, buy a motorcycle instead" might be some of the worst advice I've ever heard in my entire life.
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sorry buddy but if you think women want to hear you talk about working out and dont just want a well rounded in shape guy who knows that nobody wants to hear about his lifting routine, you might might be an incel who also reads pretty straightforward advice of "buy a shitty bike to learn how to do fix something and make male friends but dont buy one to ride /impress women" as "buy a motorcycle but dont lift".
 
mister fireworks dijo:
sorry buddy but if you think women want to hear you talk about working out and dont just want a well rounded in shape guy who knows that nobody wants to hear about his lifting routine, you might might be an incel who also reads pretty straightforward advice of "buy a shitty bike to learn how to do fix something and make male friends but dont buy one to ride /impress women" as "buy a motorcycle but dont lift".
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>basing your decisions around what women think
>abstaining from an act of self-betterment because of what women think
>buying a fucking motorcycle to make friends

I don't save reaction images but moments like this make me wish I did.
 
dick brain dijo:
>basing your decisions around what women think
>abstaining from an act of self-betterment because of what women think
>buying a fucking motorcycle to make friends

I don't save reaction images but moments like this make me wish I did.
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not caring about how women think is a great way to be a lonely loser for the rest of your life. do you even have friends?
 
Here’s a funny cat for you, OP. Try to keep your head up.
 

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I feel you. I was born with Skeletonitis, which means severe Pain in my bones at all times. It really hurts to live.
 
This has been up for a month. I'd like to hear what op has done in that time (and obviously giving my 2 cents).

Altruism. Support someone you meet. Doesn't have to be for the purpose of getting some. Helping other people's development has helped my mindset more than all the decorating/night classes and marathon training I did in the last year. Start with one person and build on that.

It takes me 40 minutes to go the nearest corner shop these days because I'm always chatting/catching up with neighbours. When I had your mindset I talked to no-one.
Life can easily change to the point where you're trying to find "me time" and when you're there and feeling down those people will help pull you back up.
 
Sucks that club culture here is under the age of 15 and above the age of 50. Only ones outside that age bracket who partake in club shit is cause they grew up with it, had their first job teaching there etc. Sure as shit reflects in the prices too. Tennis, pensioner vibes? Only during work hours and the monthly fee is like $80.

The whole "down the corner" thought just doesn't apply anymore. Cities are too big, people only go out to shop, and it's practically impossible to find people who are competent and capable "Just out and about". I'm in my late 20s, sure I could go to the park. But what kind of late 20s person just goes to the park? Open to conversation? Not one with friends, family and plans. That's why clubs just about socializing only attract those who have no one else. Why I find it more appealing to volunteer to meet people. Everyone volunteer, and more often than not, those who have a bigger heart than wallet; the kind of people you wanna hang out with.

Sadly, not much such shittery here. Only cat shelters and.. yea, sports.
 
I was thinking maybe we could play video games and then maybe nab a few beers. If you don't like video games, we can play one of my hoary old European board games.
 
I am content with being lonely as I cope and despair with that fact, as the alternative would be scrapping the bottom of the barrel by hanging out with spics or entering Tinder or other rat races.
And that is simply not worth my time, emotions or sanity.

Just keep on going this desperate struggle and DO your best, or fake it til you make it. What else do you have to lose?
 
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