Im very lonely

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become schizophrenic

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Stop eating slop and maybe I'll consider being your gf
 
I go back to my apartment, read the farms and eat my goyslop.
Stop eating garbage and get some proper exercise. You'll feel better. After that you can try to find something productive to do with the rest of your time.

Worrying about women should be last on your list. Unfuck yourself first and women will naturally want to fuck you (at least more than otherwise).

Worrying about what other men are doing should not even be on your list.
 
Get a dog women love cute dogs, more likely to meet a normal person if you have a little fella plus they are a friend for life.

Also definitely post your penis, can confirm women love this.
 
You need to get out of this situation as soon as possible. idc what you do, but you need to get out of it. Join a local archery club, gun club, sailing club, take a fucking baking class, or a candle making class. these kinds of things are always available if you live in a city. you'll meet people even if you don't like them,

i used to be similar, and you develop 'copes' to make yourself comfortable - 'i dont need people anyway', 'im a lone wolf', its borderline sick if you look at it objectively. and it's a hell of a time trying to get yourself out of that hole if you get sucked in.

you are a social animal, please make the effort to socialize.
 
try volunteering at a hospital, soup kitchen or nursing home. if you're able bodied, then there's no excuse and you're not actually as lonely as you think.
 
Dont read Dostoyevsky. Maybe read some Tolstoy eventually. Its a MATI meme now but i think you should read, or at least try to read the Myth of Sisyphus by Camus. It literally starts off saying you got two options, either neck yourself or find some meaning in life every day. I think its a decent way to frame suffering as a necessary and not always bad part of life, but also that wallowing or rotting away your days is basically just killing yourself, but slower and dumber.

I dont think you should go buck on signing up for a bunch of random underwater basket weaving type shit just to get out of the house. I went through phases like that where I "never said no to anything!" when I moved to a new place and I did end up making friends and having some fun, but most of it sucked and was draining.

I also think the "GO LIFT BRO" advice isnt that great either. Because, if youre a fat slob you will prob end up hurting yourself and/or wasting a bunch of time if you just start throwing weights around at a gym or even with some other retard you know. Also women can smell the desperation of a guy who just started lifting weights and is really proud of himself. its comes off as pathetic. If you do lift, dont ever talk about it in front of women. You dont want to hear about a woman's grooming rituals and women are not impressed with or interested in any lifting anecdotes or achievements. They find this chatter repellent. Just remember that improving your appearance and health are important, but they can only enhance your life/attractiveness/happiness so much, so dont try to find self actualization through lifting weights, you will only find narcissism.

If you have disposable income, maybe try to dip your toes into something physical but fun that you can spend some money on up front, do by yourself, and then if it works, parlay that into a way to meet people who have the same real, deep interest. buy some old piece of shit motorcycle and fix it up? you dont even have to ride it, the fixing is easy and can be done cheaply, and you'll meet other dudes who wanna jaw about bikes. theres lots of avenues to go, from king of the hill standing in dude's garages, which is low pressure socializing and easy to just kind of hang out casually without a lot of fuss about making plans, to literal bike centric social clubs and events. Bike people love shows, rallies, parties etc all centered on motorcycle shit.

i actually think motorcycles is a good way for men to kind of find out what kind of dudes they like to hang out with, fit in with, etc. Theres a whole spectrum of nerds, handymen, hooligans, old farts, engineers, adrenaline junkies, rich cunts, rednecks, and harley faggots to choose from. And you dont have to choose just one. You dont need to be good at anything, just the ongoing project of fixing up a bike and ripping around on it once in awhile or selling it will be an interesting puzzle to solve, open up natural opportunities to easily socialize with people, and it might be fun. But remember buying a big/fast motorcycle to ride in order to be cooler never works.

Loneliness is something that everyone deals with, and it hits at different times, in different ways. Its better to feel lonely and friendless when you are literally alone and friendless, compared to the loneliness that can occur when you have a ton of friends, spouse, social engagement. You know where you stand and what you want, conceptually, versus someone who has everything on paper but still feels disconnected. Make sure that you dont push too hard to rack up the friend count, the body count, the rep count just to get the numbers, because thats how you end feeling lonely despite having all those things.

Last is that when you meet people, dont assume that they are laughing because you are funny. it could be out of politeness. Dont treat conversations with new potential friends as an elevator pitch for your personality. listen more than you talk, but know that a lot of people who seem boring are actually cool, but sometimes they need to be prompted by someone who is taking a genuine interest in them.
 
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