Im very lonely

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Midwest Midwit

Midwest Midwit

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14 de Feb, 2024
I have a very people-orientated job. I regularly give talks to large rooms of people. I make everyone laugh. People say nice things to me, but then its home time. They're not my friends. They liked me because I made a boring seminar funny. They have their own lives to go to.

I go back to my apartment, read the farms and eat my goyslop. My male colleagues would rather stay in and play video games or occassionally meet girls off tinder. Women are repulsed by me.

Im the living embodiment of the doomer meme.
 
sometimes when i dont feel so great i watch this video and feel better!
whenever youre feeling gay or lonely whichever one it was remember this lil penguin
im sure its not so bad, youre probably just dooming and overthinking everything
 
Go to the gym you'll make gymbro friends have an outlet for stress and get in shape for yourself and the ladies.
 
The best thing you can do is get out of your own head, because nothing is more unattractive than desperation or self-pity when trying to meet people. Try new things that interest you and are productive be they rock climbing, fencing, blacksmithing, a language, whatever, just don't sit inside all day wasting away playing video games and snacking. Join some local orgs that align with your interests; many areas have groups about spirituality, culture or heritage that are always looking for volunteers. Take the initiative and ask other people to do stuff, more than just asking women out but any group of friends for happy hour drinks or anything else, because a lot of people are happy to be asked and even if they can't the first time, it opens the door. In short, consciously choose to make things happen in your own life instead of waiting for things to happen to you, because no one is going to save you from yourself.

If women really are repulsed by you, work on basic hygiene, grooming and your attitude/confidence. It sounds trite but they make a huge difference in how you are perceived.

ETA: also, say yes to opportunities to do stuff even if you aren't sure if you'll like it. A big chunk of success is just being the person that shows up consistently. Add any form of exercise to your day to develop the habit and discipline, even a 10 minute walk and build up from there.
 
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People probably figure you’re too cool to hang with them and will be honored if you ask them. You have to take the initiative. Often people who are very good at interacting with strangers struggle to make closer connections. It’s a thing
 
Midwest Midwit dijo:
I go back to my apartment, read the farms and eat my goyslop. My male colleagues would rather stay in and play video games or occassionally meet girls off tinder. Women are repulsed by me.
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- don't go back to apartment
- don't eat your goyslop
- read the farms only for your enjoyment, not because it's your only activity
- refuse to use tinder
- go out and face the sun, the heat, the rain and start working out like mad, you'll understand later why
 
This loneliness of your just saddens me. Allow me to goon to your profile so that you're not alone.
Edit: I am unable to goon to this horse monster on your pfp. Sorry bud you're on your own.
 
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