Debate user The_Cowcel about incels.

[AMHOLIO]

My advice is that you should get disability because you're too autistic to function.

My advice is for him to stop posting on Kiwi Farms if he's accomplishing fuck all by aruging with others.

 

[General Patton]

My advice is for him to stop posting on Kiwi Farms if he's accomplishing fuck all by aruging with others.

It's not helping him. In all honesty, it's too much autism.

 

[Zev Bellringer]

Do you fucking know what it's like to spend most of your life obsessing over a goal

Maybe stop doing that, then. Get different goals.

 

[draggs]

What is there for me to learn? I know how to drive, I'm just bad at it, besides that I had no choice in the vehicle I drive. I'm not hampered by a lack of knowledge, but a lack of ability.

Being "bad" at driving to the nature and degree you are has three possible causes:

1. Lack of experience
2. Bad habits: NOT PAYING ATTENTION. PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN, DON'T SLACK-JAWED STARE AT YOUR RADIO/OTHER CONTROLS, KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE ROAD RETARD
3. Physical factors: (Much) lower than average hand-eye coordination, spatial awareness, depth perception, etc. Which can also be caused by lack of experience

Just like your social life, your bad driving is almost certainly caused by a combination of these three factors. Which will only change with proper amounts of time devoted to correct efforts

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

It's not helping him. In all honesty, it's too much autism.

Fair point. You'd think from 5 years on this site I'd know that autism, depending on variety, often contains an impenetrable, fixed stubbornness. But I have a non-autistic stubbornness that has a deep rose-colored tint.

 

[draggs]

But that's not even what incels are, we are trying to ACHIEVE societal norms all the while society is preventing us from reaching said goals.

What is so special about you that society, whatever that is, decided, however that happened, to prevent you from reaching your goals? What about the 99.9999% of other people that society didn't decide to prevent from reaching their goals of having relationships, both platonic and romantic?

But if life is miserable and work is suffering then why even live? If we are suffering for reasons that are outside of our control and in the control of others then why should we be the only ones to die?

Some of you are cool, don't go to school tomorrow energy

The ability to get a woman it crucial to the ability to be fulfilled in life and without it we are socially crippled and looked down on everywhere we go, we can't even hide that we're incels because our desperation consumes everything else about us. We are tortured for the crime of being sexually unwanted by women who have nothing forcing them to settle. Women can't relate because even when they are single they aren't cut out of the gene pool because there's always a man willing to fuck them, the same can't be said for an incel who has spent most of his life focused on getting a woman and who has been alienated from his friends and family due to that desperation.

Here's a little tip: no one is looking down on you. No one is torturing you. BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW AND DON'T CARE. You are perpetually stuck in high school, and even there MOST PEOPLE DO NOT CARE IF TOMMY FROM ART CLASS IS A VIRGIN

You're blaming your anti-social behavior on anti-social results. Cart is before the horse again. If you act like an unpleasant weirdo because you've never got pussy and people don't like you after experiencing your unpleasant weird behavior, they don't dislike you because you've never got pussy. You don't have to be an unpleasant weirdo because you've never got pussy. Ever consider that? Learn ways to pleasantly behave, and then behave pleasantly regardless of how you feel inside. Fake it til you make it really works here because changing the way you behave isn't about changing you inside by itself, it's about garnering positive reaction from others. That positive reaction is what changes you inside

It's also worth noting the differences in the types of jobs men and women work, men work in fields with uncomfortable conditions, high work loads, and risks of injury and death, women get easy jobs where they basically just have to look pretty and do easy shit in an airconditioned buiding all the while making as much or more than men risking our lives which means that these sluts have no reason to settle for anything but the men they think they deserve because women aren't desperate for sex because they know they can get it if they just lower their standards.

Women like men who work hard at difficult jobs. Such men are usually in shape even if the job is not physically difficult per se, such men have a determination and force of character that women find attractive. I know you have never had a difficult (physically or otherwise) job you have worked hard the way you complain about them

We're only "creepy" because we're sexually unwanted and can't get a woman. It's nothing to do with our behavior, our behavior is caused by sexual selection. Do you fucking know what it's like to spend most of your life obsessing over a goal that everyone around you seems to have achieved effortlessly yet which you can make no progress in? Do you know what it's like to be abandoned by all of your friends and cast out by your family just because you've had the audacity to beg for help and advice achieving this goal that everyone one of them had succeeded effortlessly? No you haven't.

So long as you put the cart before the horse you will never succeed. Try putting the horse in front to haul your cart for once

Being successful with the opposite sex is not effortless, or even easy, for anyone. You know how many 10/10 Chads and Stacys have had 100% fairy tale relationships filled with nothing but butterflies and endless orgasms? How many have had endless casual sex that satisfied their every emotional need for companionship? Had no fights with their boyfriend or girlfriend or husband or wife, no self-doubt, no funks, no bad days (or weeks or months or even years), no self-loathing ever? Zero people have had that life. Everyone who is not an incel has had crushes on people who did not reciprocate, has had relationships that were almost nothing but one fight after another, has had relationships that crashed and burned, has had relationships that simply didn't work out, has been down on themselves. They bore down and took care of their business anyway. You don't. If you never will, just kill yourself

 

[General Patton]

Fair point. You'd think from 5 years on this site I'd know that autism, depending on variety, often contains an impenetrable, fixed stubbornness. But I have a non-autistic stubbornness that has a deep rose-colored tint.

The longer I stay on here, the more I realize that certain people here are way too autistic to the point that I wonder how they even function daily.