Then you'd be the first kiwi to care in some form about a stranger that you want them to better themselves. You have to admit that that is highly unlikely, or rather, not the case. The focus of a kiwi farmer is to point and laugh and not to care and be kind.
Perhaps I'm too stupid for this but you can't tell me she has no choices left. As awful as it is, she still can visit and see her son. He will spend the rest of his life behind bars but it's not the end. If he was dead it really would have been the end. She can talk with him and still care about him and his needs, even if it's just talking and listening to what he wants to say. She could join self-help groups for parents with troubled kids (yes I'm aware her son killed people, but not all parents will cuss her out for it and she can perhaps learn something new or hear that she's not the only one with a troubled kid). But coming to a drama forum full with people who start salivating when they have a new person to milk is not going to help her in any way. It will just get her addicted to the adrenaline rush of having to justify herself, defend and explain her actions, and to the pleasure of the feeling that revealing everything here around drama addicts is a form of punishment and pain relief. But what is left once she is done telling every single thing? The same broken person as before but now it's online forever on a site that is closely monitored by terminally ill people who just need another good reason to start another DropKiwifarms campaign.