Why do people deny the existence of femcels? - ???????

[GOY MENACE]

Have you tried vitamin E lotion? I've heard of people getting good results with that.

Nothing works.

I've seen people use extreme microneedleing but their marks are significantly smaller and less prevalent.

 

[Brap God]

Besides that plenty of incels never even let themselves get fat but still end up sexless despite their best efforts.

I'm sure their best efforts far surpass those of regular people on average, they definitely don't tell themselves that it's hopeless and just leave it at that before even trying or only after making a handful of measly attempts.

I was fat till 13 and i have these disgusting stretchemarks covering my entire upper body.
Ever since 13(now im 18 ) I've maintain an ideal (almost anorexic) body weight but these disgusting scars will continue to plague me.

I don't wanna downplay it but, while definitely an issue, it's not the end of the world. People with all sorts of flaws manage just fine.

I have nobody to introduce me to women and going out is prohibitively expensive and time consuming for something that has never showed the slightest signs of working, so I am held back by social and financial status.

By your own logic, it should be utterly inconceivable for people in poverty to have sex, marry or have kids. Yet somehow there are more poor people reproducing than wealthy ones. Really makes you think, doesn't it?

Really? Because I've been told that I should be content with my pathetic loveless life because 80% of men historically never were able to reproduce or whatever.

Over 60% of men today successfully reproduce. You'd actually be in the minority if you do not have at least one kid during your lifetime.

The elephant man died a true incel, alone, in his dungeon that he specifically requested not have any mirrors.

The mule faced woman managed to have a son after a drunken encounter at a bar.

To say that these are extreme outliers would be a massive understatement.

 

[GOY MENACE]

I don't wanna downplay it but, while definitely an issue, it's not the end of the world. People with all sorts of flaws manage just fine.

They are the worst.

I have both heigh stretchmarks(im 6'5) and weight stechmarks.

It looks something like that





But with height stretchmarks making it worse







They look extremely strange

I kinda look like this baby grown





Otherwise im very attractive.

I've think i (to some degree) conversion therapyed myself to date girls (boys are much less forgiving).

 

[Brap God]

They are the worst.

I have both heigh stretchmarks(im 6'5) and weight stechmarks.

It looks something like that
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But with height stretchmarks making it worse
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They look extremely strange

I kinda look like this baby grown
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Otherwise im very attractive.


I've think i (to some degree) conversion therapyed myself to date girls (boys are much less forgiving).

Like I said, I don't mean to downplay how bad stretchmarks can be. I applaud you for losing the weight. It's a shame that you can't enjoy being at a healthy weight without a nasty reminder.

 

[General Patton]

So she felt helpless and hopeless, which were feelings exasperated by already existing depression. Not being able to be dicked down (remember: fucking randos wasn't nearly as socially or self acceptable back then for women) was a contributing factor, but it wasn't really the main factor.

This is why I think it was more of a severe depression problem than femcel.

 

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To say that these are extreme outliers would be a massive understatement.

Yeah, you are definitely very very very smart and special for pointing that out. But don't you think it says something that the ugliest man ever died a virgin while the ugliest woman not only managed to lose her virginity, but also had a kid and successfully passed her genes to the next generation? The elephant man got hard filtered by evolution but the mule woman did not.

 

[Brap God]

Yeah, you are definitely very very very smart and special for pointing that out. But don't you think it says something that the ugliest man ever died a virgin while the ugliest woman not only managed to lose her virginity, but also had a kid and successfully passed her genes to the next generation? The elephant man got hard filtered by evolution but the mule woman did not.

You're right. I guess because donkey woman passed on her genes and elephant man didn't we should just genocide all ugly dudes since they're cooked by default.

 

[The_Cowcel]

I think I'm seeing the layers to your problem. Correct me if I got something wrong here: You are depressed, because of this you have anhedonia, so you don't have interests or hobbies, which means that basically your entire personality is centered around finding a woman or your frustrations with not getting one.

I stand by my previous suggestion that you are really not in a good state to try with women at this point, I think attempts at dating right now will likely only frustrate you further. You should really work on yourself, find some way to treat your depression, be it medically or with changes to your lifestyle. Find things you enjoy doing purely for your own happiness and not just to meet women.

This is probably the most important thing for you to understand concerning friends and family: if you want to have a friend, you need to be a friend. If 90% of a person's interactions with you is just you complaining about your problems, begging for help, begging to get introduced to women, etc. Naturally, they're going to find you miserable to be with and distance themselves from you. Relationships are built upon mutual interest in each other's company, its not all about you and your problems, you need to be an enjoyable person for other people to want to be friends with you.

Acknowledged, but that's all easier said than done, I've tried to develop hobbies and I am seeking treatment for my depression but neither of those have done much to help me fulfil my social needs which is the thing that I feel like my life is most lacking.

.... because celibacy means not having sex

And involuntary means it's not a choice, if you admit women have easy access to sex then you also must admit that it would take truly exceptional circumstances for a woman to be a femcel.

By your own logic, it should be utterly inconceivable for people in poverty to have sex, marry or have kids. Yet somehow there are more poor people reproducing than wealthy ones. Really makes you think, doesn't it?

A lot of them made connections earlier in life and were socially successful enough to maintain those connections. I struggled to make connections with anyone and people always end up getting fed up with my stagnation in life and inability to deal with my own problems.

 

[Brap God]

A lot of them made connections earlier in life and were socially successful enough to maintain those connections.

How do you know? Some of them might've had to overcome worse adversity than what you're faced with, for all that we know.

 

[GOY MENACE]

Acknowledged, but that's all easier said than done, I've tried to develop hobbies and I am seeking treatment for my depression but neither of those have done much to help me fulfil my social needs which is the thing that I feel like my life is most lacking.

How was your childhood?
Didn't you have hobbies and things you enjoyed as a kid?

I recommend you try yoga nidra it is extremely useful for having the state of mind for learning.

A lot of them made connections earlier in life and were socially successful enough to maintain those connections. I struggled to make connections with anyone and people always end up getting fed up with my stagnation in life and inability to deal with my own problems.

Have you ever tried taking a break?

shabbat like day or days where you just relax and do things you enjoy (food you enjoy, music you enjoy or whatever).

No internet or anything that might induce anxiety or worry

I know that's easier said than done but i think you need a break form the constant anxiety.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

which is the thing that I feel like my life is most lacking.

Your certainty that you have all the answers is a barrier to your ability to improve,

Also, @goy menace is making some good points and identifying dome very concrete things you could do that, if perhaps not an immediate cure-all for a ll that ails, will improve your life. Are you going to take his suggestions, or continue to double down on how it's impossible and doesn't solve the one and only root cause of all your suffering?

 

[Hey Johnny Bravo]

He was an incel
She was a femcel
Can I make it any more obvious?
He was a gooner
She liked fujo anime
What more can I say?
He wanted total nigger death
She had alcohol on her breath
Secretly, she also did meth
She had no friends
Snorted xanax up her nose
I don't know where else to go with this prose

 

[The_Cowcel]

How was your childhood?

Uneventful, I had seperation anxiety which lead to me being homeschooled. I still had some friends I met because they were children of my mom's friends though

Didn't you have hobbies and things you enjoyed as a kid?

Mostly just gaming, but back then things seemed so much more fresh and I had groups to talk about things with, Now I just feel like I'm trying to relive my childhood without the satisfaction I used to get.

Have you ever tried taking a break?

shabbat like day or days where you just relax and do things you enjoy (food you enjoy, music you enjoy or whatever).

No internet or anything that might induce anxiety or worry

I already do, but there's no escape from the stress of stagnation and time, without something to distract me I just dwell on the passing of time and my inability to progress in life.

Your certainty that you have all the answers is a barrier to your ability to improve,

I don't think it's that much of a revelation that a lonely depressed man with no social life might be lonely and depressed because of his lack of social life especially considering the social isolation correlated with the increase of such feelings.
That's not having all the answers, that's one step above realizing that I can eat to stop being hungry.

Also, @goy menace is making some good points and identifying dome very concrete things you could do that, if perhaps not an immediate cure-all for a ll that ails, will improve your life. Are you going to take his suggestions, or continue to double down on how it's impossible and doesn't solve the one and only root cause of all your suffering?

From the sounds of it I already am taking his suggestions or at least am not all that far off.

He was an incel
She was a femcel
Can I make it any more obvious?
He was a gooner
She liked fujo anime
What more can I say?
He wanted total nigger death
She had alcohol on her breath
Secretly, she also did meth
She had no friends
Snorted xanax up her nose
I don't know where else to go with this prose

I could fix her <3 (not really, I'm dumb and desperate enough to stick my dick in crazy, not enough to stick around for it though)

 

[Chiang Kai-shek]

Really? Because I've been told that I should be content with my pathetic loveless life because 80% of men historically never were able to reproduce or whatever

Ethan Ralph has 2.5 kids, despite being a broke, fat, drug addicted, retard. If you don’t like your life, find the smallest thing you can fix and fix it. It gets the ball rolling.

 

[GOY MENACE]

Mostly just gaming, but back then things seemed so much more fresh and I had groups to talk about things with, Now I just feel like I'm trying to relive my childhood without the satisfaction I used to get.

I already do, but there's no escape from the stress of stagnation and time, without something to distract me I just dwell on the passing of time and my inability to progress in life.

This is why i recommend yoga nidra (its make your mind fresh in some sense).

Or even drugs like ketamine might help.


The soul of your problem is mental and you should focus on fixing that.

All your other problems like getting woman and stagnation are symptoms of the mental problem.

 

[crazedaze]

if you admit women have easy access to sex then you also must admit that it would take truly exceptional circumstances for a woman to be a femcel.

My original premise was that femcels don't exist, why argue if you didn't bother to read

 

[General Patton]

Ethan Ralph has 2.5 kids, despite being a broke, fat, drug addicted, retard. If you don’t like your life, find the smallest thing you can fix and fix it. It gets the ball rolling.

He's also boring as hell. Even with his lolcow status, he's so damn boring that I can't even follow his retardation.

 

[Paper Machete]

He's also boring as hell. Even with his lolcow status, he's so damn boring that I can't even follow his retardation.

He's also a fat manlet with a disgusting physique. If he wasn't retarded and mentally unwell his relationships could've possibly worked out. If it could've possibly worked out for him it could for anyone. Most relationship issues with anybody from the super ugly to the super attractive are down to personal issues and personal choices. Most -cels are very mentally unwell rather than too unattractive visually or materially.

 

[General Patton]

He's also a fat manlet with a disgusting physique. If he wasn't retarded and mentally unwell his relationships could've possibly worked out. If it could've possibly worked out for him it could for anyone. Most relationship issues with anybody from the super ugly to the super attractive are down to personal issues and personal choices. Most -cels are very mentally unwell rather than too unattractive visually or materially.

I never got his entertainment appeal. His videos are a chore to sit through.