No of course it is pure fantasy, there's too much shit for him to sort out for him to even be able to see Xander, nevermind girl Xander. He owes so much in child support already and the divorce will only ruin him further. But in a world where he is able to get rid of the lawsuits involving both sets of inlaws, pay off his debts, continue to pay his obligations, and somehow be able to afford plane tickets, hotels, etc. then it is hilarious he has to travel within a giant triangle for a few hours of visits a month.