[–]Training_Drummer_905
Why? Because I grew a dick outside the womb instead of in it like you? I can show you my full dick soon if you want a bunch of pictures. We can call it 'border-line incest photos' and I can pose in the bath tub like a baby. (Note: I am on the crude side.)
[–]1Misterman1
If said from a male member- tell them 'How would you know?'
[–]Scared-Advisor-1650
Just laugh and say "I'm more of a man than you'll ever be"
[–]worthless_rose
"you've never had to prove to be one, but I did" "this is because I'm already a man and I cannot change it that I am transitioning"
[–]Berko1572
Don't pick up the rope in the tug of war game he is trying to pull you into. 1) It's not worth it. 2) It's what he wants.
Don't engage. Just blandly say, "Okay." And don't react.
[–]iwillchangeiwill
As I replied to another comment, if I do not react he persists until it can and has gotten physically violent. If this worked why would I not be doing it?
[–]Not_Dead_Yet_Samwell
"Ah."
End of.
[–]warmhealer
It’s always useless arguing with someone with an entirely different set of beliefs and moral guidelines than oneself, and insults are bound to come out during convos with an individual like that.
Just let them flow freely as they come to you.
My favorite is always reminding them I’ll never have an issue satisfying partners- at least I can choose my size

dick insults on these dudes cut deep for some reason.
[–]jim-b0
since he’s younger i would just make some shit up about his childhood and drop a lie bomb on him
[–]Senior_Diet8621
If he’s fat, tell him he has bigger tits than you. Then when he tries to say “it’s cuz of my weight” or make any justification for it, just repeat his words back to him in a mocking tone like an annoying toddler. Always works on my best friend’s severely obese and bigoted little brother.
HE IS FAT, LOVE THIS ONE THANK YOU SO MUCH
[–]JackBinimbul
"You sound really insecure there, little buddy".
[–]dekuskach
I’m going to give you the non PC answer everyone is avoiding:
insult his dick size
say you’re more of a man than he will ever be
Insult his height
His hairline
His weight
Every insecurity you know he has, target that, make that the reason HES not a man.
Fuck taking the high road. Say the worst things possible, if he’s as mentally ill as you say then those things will sit with him and eventually when you’re gone, they won’t go away.
Ignore all these other corny ass replies trying to take the high road and make you be forced to be the nice one. You don’t owe anybody kindness.
If he has man boobs make fun of his estrogen levels, that always pissed my bro off

Not saying people can just go around saying shit they want whenever they want but I’d rather handleIt with actually backing my shit up with facts and statements
And this is why you’ll always be a cornball and never be taken serious by the men who are degrading you like this. The only way to win with these guys is to stoop to their level
Okay ableism and abuse nice
Yeah cause I'm totally not being abused by a physically violent 6'5" man. There is no fairness in survival
This is what I was looking for, thank you.
Truly baffled by the amount of people suggesting to take the high road btw. Or implying they know better than me how to deal with my sibling who I raised on my own due to neglectful parents

Seconding all this. Play dirty. Just don’t fall in the mud while smearing his face in it.
[–]JuniorKing9
“Neither will you” lmao
[–]anakinmcfly
“noted.”
[–]haha_grateful_man
okay, and your point is? Yeah, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
I would just walk away and let him think whatever he wants.
[–]buffandstealthy
What worked to shut up a guy who was trying to bother me in this way when I was younger, was turning to him after he said something like your example, looking him in the eye, and firmly saying: "how you view me is your problem, I know who I am, and what you think won't change that."
He shut up after that and actually became quite respectful literally immediately. He was still a douchebag as a person and I think he just used whatever he could to tease people (like with no real belief of his own behind it), but at least the teasing on this completely stopped after that.
I think emphasizing that it's his problem is what really helped. Then you essentially say: it's up to you if you want to obsess over this and waste your time on stupid shit, I don't care what you say.
[–]graphitetongue
Have you gotten laid more than him? Honestly, I've gotten laid and bedded more women (and men) than most of my friends or peers, plus I have six pack abs, so I usually just remind them of those or say shit like "I don't listen to anyone without six pack abs" or "I don't listen to anyone who doesn't fuck"
As someone without six pack abs who has never gotten laid, I don’t think that is something that should define who deserves to get listened to.
no one said it did. this is specifically to dig at antagonizing assholes, not a reflection of genuine beliefs. don't be so quick to take it serious
You're 100% correct.
This is unfortunately what has worked best for me when dealing with certain personalities because it's what they value. I'm communicating to them that their opinion is irrelevant and that, according to their own bs status rankings, I'm technically above them.
[–]Ok-Bed5119
"Can you stop projecting? I'm already more of a man than you'll ever be

" but at the same time, I tend to just cut them out of my life if they hound me about anything of the sort. I'm an adult, I can make my own choices now, and I choose to be me, as much as it can suck sometimes, it's everything to finally be taking the steps to grow into myself. It is not my job to coddle their feelings about something that makes me happy that doesn't even involve them. Nor is it a requirement for me to explain myself and my choices to a party not involved at the end of the day. I am who I am, live with it or move on, because your words and actions haven't changed me and will not change me.
[–]Mediocre-Evidence-15
Personal classic comes from sailor moon abridged
“If I wanted to get into a dick measuring contest id whip out a ruler and win”
[–]_LanceBro
If he has insecurities, you can insult them
My little brother fears going bald so when he's being absolutely insufferable, I'll call him bald and he stops
[–]vwaaaat
"Why are you so obsessed with my genitals, you creepy fuck"
[–]ehhhchimatsu
Literally just "okay". Nothing pisses people off more than a neutral, one word "okay".
[–]wavybattery
Not giving a fuck usually worked for me.
I promise you'd give a fuck if you were followed around the house by a mentally ill teenager repeatedly chanting any phrase no matter what it was
Do it back, I remember some video of when 67 became a thing of an uncle annoying their nephew with it since he'd been doing it all day.
He's doing it to get the reaction out of you. If you stop reacting he'll grow disinterested and it'll happen less frequently. The more you react the more he will do it. Acting like it doesn't bother you and that you don't care won't give him the satisfaction he is seeking
Sure, a lot of the time people does shitty things to get a reaction. Some people also just does shitty things. Not reacting might work eventually, but biting back might be better for your own mental health. My brother was super weird about my old name, kept using it to get a reaction, and at that point in my life I wasn't a person that could get angry. The second I got super angry, shouting and cursing ar him, he shut up. My best guess is that it shocked him into silence to see me get angry enough to shout indoors and slam a door which I'd never done before.
If you stop reacting he'll grow disinterested and it'll happen less frequentl
Quite literally the opposite. He doesn't stop until I say something sufficiently evil to make him shut up and leave
I was followed around the house by a mom with early Alzheimer’s, ignored whatever she said about my transexuality, and kept it going vehemently until I moved out. And she accepted things how they are.
[–]kingr8
Showing him that your unbothered is only the first step. He's being so openly disrespectful, I honestly do think it's appropriate to find ammunition and clap back.
Find a thing that he did one time, even if it was when he was younger, that he's really embarrassed about and bring it up every time he says something like that. Maybe say it loudly or threaten to tell other people, including his friends.
It might help to know that when he says "you'll never be a real man", on some level he's really talking to himself. That's 100% the kind of thing that neonazis struggle with.
Edit: Alternatively, if you're at all bigger and/or stronger than him, just give him a quick little slap to the face every time he says it. If he flinches to protect himself, you don't actually need to connect, just pull back and say "that's what I thought". This only works if you're confident that he won't escalate. But among men, "talk shit get hit" is a real thing sometimes, and he's being a fucking turd. Even other neonazis would probably approve of you doing it, which is why it will get under his skin so much.
[–]Ripley-8
"You won't be for much longer if you dont watch your tone, lil bro." And just smile at him LOL
[–]BrosXDecapentaplegic
What I would probably say irl: "Ok. I'm not debating that one. Agree to disagree."
What actually fits my belief system: "I am."
What would be a snarky response: "I'll leave that to you but at least (
with an emphasis on I)
I look like one."
[–]Creature_Feature69
Already am, or make silly faces at them until they get pissed and give up
[–]ironbrigade225
okay this might get me down voted but you should convince him he was born intersex. like you should ask to speak to him, and act really serious and tell him you found out when he was born but no one is supposed to tell him - and that you're telling him because you're leaving soon. OR you can use it as a comeback ie "neither will you, you are medically intersex" (look up the real medical term to be more convincing) and then gasp and act shocked and THEN sit him down later.
absolutely all my respects to intersex people but it might really freak him out to suggest he's "one of us". I wouldn't suggest this to anyone but you are willing to stoop low and mess him up a bit so go for it, I have no sympathy for transphobes

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Absolutely this. After all the abuse transphobes put us through, it’s high-time we score back. I am all for intentionally gaslighting these POS into thinking they’re part of the people they’ve been bullying.

this is like convincing your little sibling that theyre actually adopted but for transphobes lmao
I'm dying at this. I would love to smoke with you so bad
[–]no1really123
If you really wanna go down that way. Poke fun of his features or what he does. Make him self conscious of everything hes doing (unrelated to you being trans). How he speaks, moves, smiles, frowns etc. Gaslight him. Say something that gets him mad and pretend like he is crazy and you never said any of it. Act concerned and ask if he needs help or a doctor, if he calls you out, brush it off and keep asking in an unreasonably calm manner if you need to call the er for him
[–]Good_Matter7529
it will be extremely irritating to him if you just act completely unbothered.
if no one cares, that’s even more humiliating.
congrats on immigrating, man.
He actually follows me around saying fucked up things until I retort so it's the opposite situation. He is not mentally healthy and has nothing better to do. Also thank you, I am so excited for my new life!!
He does it because he eventually gets a reaction.
Wow how long have you lived with him?
I work in mental health with teenagers. This is extremely typical behavior for terminally online bullies.
His behavior is not typical and he is not a "terminally online bully", he is a deeply disturbed child whose patterns I know due to raising him myself. The chanting will go on until he is physically removed from the room or humiliated enough to leave it. Trying to ignore him has led to me being physically assaulted. The act (or lack thereof) of ignoring someone is so easy that if it worked that's all I'd do. It is unfortunately not that simple.
oh wow, OP. the usual tactics will not work with someone like that- i’m sorry for misunderstanding the situation.
the escalation to physical violence is something entirely different. i assume you’re already locking him out of rooms where you are whenever possible. I don’t have any advice besides leaving, and you’re already doing that. hang in there, man.
Locking him out is kind of pointless as he's 6'5", very strong and has broken down doors to get to me before but I have memorized his attack pattern so he can't cause damage to me. And thank you, I can't wait to escape and never have him around ever again. I even told my parents to either divide the inheritance explicitly or give it all to him because I'd rather have nothing than fight him in court years later when they die.
[–]NautiNeptune
I just repeat "yOu'Ll NeVeR bE a MaN" in a mocking voice lol
Ooh I'll add that to the arsenal, mockery upsets his nazi ass
Use it for everything. Mock everything he says to you. Especially in higher and more effeminate voices. Or if you prefer, say it like Goofy, or other silly voices.
Literally the best response. Don’t engage with debate, don’t try to be the bigger person, just belittle and drive him up a wall by giving a retort that allows no comeback.