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- 8 de Mar, 2024
At what age do you think you will get these things?What older generations don't understand, particularly boomers and parts of Gen X who sit in front of cable news all day, is that we don't want to work to be miserable. We're trying to build something for ourselves that we can be proud of. A savings account, a decent investment portfolio, acquiring some worth while items that make us happy and improve our living, maybe being able to have a couple small trips, being home at reasonable hours, benefits*, not being micromanaged into insanity. I remember seeing some posts on how welding shops are having problems finding welders, and then the follow-up is that McDonald's is paying more and has benefits. I'm sorry, a skilled trade paying less over a teenager job is not right, and you can bet your ass it's because the retarded boomer who owns the shop bought himself the new pickup truck top trim package and now has an auto loan at $2,200/mo. I've had this argument with my mother as well at times (luckily she understands now), and would occasionally pull the "Oh well we had to do it the hard way so how is it fair that you shouldn't." They'll completely miss the point, like do you not understand we don't want it to be the hard way? Yeah, hard days do happen, but the idea that we have to be working hard every day is what we're arguing against.
I had shitty parents and no drive. Spent most of my twenties working off the books for a rich boomer for peanuts. Decided I couldn't live like this and did two years of school for a job that had a good starting salary but a pretty low ceiling. Had a shitty rental that ate most of my paycheck but saved for buying a condo/house. Had a kid so I had to get a car which ate up part of my savings. Then the house market went fucking nuts so I had to get a condo. Had to loan a shitload of money at about the same time the rates went nuts but I made sure I had some headroom but went negative cash flow for a few months. Was above water and could pay down the loan heavily for a few years until the next kid and now we're living hand to mouth again until we both start working. With normal expenses we should have about a $200 surplus each month but then of course the car breaks and incurs $1500 repair costs. But life is good. We have food, we have heat and we are dry. I will start to be able to pay down the loans and invest money in about a year and I'm in my forties. I started about a decade late so this is what you can expect your thirties to be like.
What I'm hearing from hiring managers is that young people just starting out are asking for starting salaries on par with someone with 10-20 years of experience and they had to make checklists to visually show the kids that to get that kind of money you need to have experience in all these different areas. Then when they show up late and leave early and you put then on PIP then they quit or get fired.
Boomers had it fucking easy and could buy a car with a summer job and a modest house with three years of savings in a job that only required high school with the hiring process being a firm handshake and eye contact.
Shits fucked but younger zoomers still have completely fucked up expectations. Life is struggle, it always was.