Why aren’t men going to see Little Women?

(Yeah, yeah, I know this is an old story, but I went searching for the legendary reeeeefest about men not wanting to watch Little Women on this forum and nothing came up, so you must have missed it. Prepare yourself for some grade A succulent butthurt.)


Why aren’t men going to see Little Women?
Johanna Schneller

Whatever it is that keeps men away, this not-caring about women’s stories becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, with economic as well as cultural ramifications.



Guys, guys, why aren’t you going to the film Little Women? The update of the Louisa May Alcott classic, one of the most beloved books in literature, scores 91 on Metacritic, 95 per cent on Rotten Tomatoes, 8.3/10 on IMDb and A- on CinemaScore – strong ratings all. Written and directed by Greta Gerwig, it stars Saoirse Ronan, Laura Dern, Florence Pugh from Midsommar and Meryl flipping Streep. It’s about ambition, money and art – things men care about. It surpassed its – admittedly low, which I’ll come back to – opening box office estimate of US$17-million, and instead pulled in nearly US$44- million in its first week (Dec. 25 to 31). But only 30 per cent of its audience is male.

Why is that? Why don’t men turn up when women are the stars of the story? In a Dec. 30 tweet, Taffy Brodesser-Akner, the New York Times Magazine staff writer and author of the hit novel Fleishman is in Trouble, expressed the frustration that many female film lovers feel: “You know what?” she wrote to her 64,000 followers, “Screw Field of Dreams. I watched it with my kids last night and cannot tell you how much unfettered father/son romance [crap] I was subjected to as a girl. The wife as accessory for his middle-aged ambivalence. Meanwhile, no one wants to watch Little Women.”

Two-point-seven thousand likes later, she added, “I feel like I’ve not been made important in [my sons’] eyes through the world of film or TV.”

Let’s unpack this. She’s not picking on Field of Dreams per se, she’s angered by the same thing that angers me: Women happily, eagerly go to movies written, directed by and/or about men. We are curious about you. We agree that your stories, your feelings, are important. You are half of humankind, and we want to understand you.

In 2019, we ran to see you in Once Upon a Time… in Hollywood. We felt your pain in Joker, cheered you on in Ford v Ferrari, wept at your father/son struggles in Ad Astra and The Lion King and A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood.

Aren’t you equally curious about us? How we think, what we feel, how we came to be? Maybe you never read Little Women, fine. But if every woman you know read it 14 times and passionately proclaims that she’s Jo, don’t you want a glimpse into what that’s about?

Women chortled along with the foul-mouthed nerdy dudes in Good Boys, to the tune of US$83-million in North American earnings. But it is an understatement to say that men did not turn up for Booksmart, an equally funny, equally raunchy coming of age story for girls. It was one of the best-reviewed films of the year, but only 39 per cent of its audience was male, and it earned only US$24.8-million – worldwide.

Boys and men did go to some films with female protagonists this year. They’re okay with the ice princesses in Frozen II, the spandex- and space-heroines in Captain Marvel and Star Wars Part IX, the evil sorceress in Maleficent and the malevolent Ma.

But when a story is about a real woman, a real life, men are not socialized to care. Not about women’s creative awakenings, à la Little Women or Booksmart, and not about women’s lives in general. Harriett Tubman’s exploits were as daring as any superhero’s, but Harriet was only the 64th most popular film of 2019. Judy Garland was one of the greatest entertainers ever to have lived, but Judy was No. 92. Ruth Bader Ginsburg is a crucial figure in the United States, both historically and right this minute, but her biopic, On the Basis of Sex, came in at No. 95. The only real women’s story that men turned out to see in 2019 was Hustlers, about strippers turned con artists.

Here we are in #MeToo, paternity leave, gender fluid 2020, when family attendance drives the box office, yet many men don’t think that a so-called women’s picture could possibly be for them. I don’t believe that playground rules (no girls allowed) apply in men’s imaginations. I don’t believe that birth and families, romance and loss don’t matter to them. But I’m wondering why they only matter when they’re happening to male leads? Has the world become so divided, so territorial, that men are supportive of our little stories in our little corner, of course they are – they just don’t want any part of them? Or does a film about women’s money, women’s power, women’s art, women’s ambition and independence, somehow feel … threatening?

Whatever it is that keeps men away, this not-caring about women’s stories becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, with economic as well as cultural ramifications. On Jan. 2, the University of Southern California Annenberg Inclusion Initiative released the results of its 13-year study on women directors. There was good news: 10.6 per cent – 12 out of 2019’s top 100 movies – were directed by women, the highest percentage in the years studied.

There, however, the good news ends. Over all across the 13 years, 1,448 male directors made films, but only 70 female directors. That’s nuts. For women of colour, the numbers were far worse.

Moreover, while women directed 34.5 per cent of independent films in the last two years, and 31 per cent of episodic TV shows, and 20 per cent of Netflix offerings, over the past 13 years, they directed only 4.8 per cent of top-grossing theatrical films.

The study also looked at directors who were nominated for Golden Globe, Oscar, Directors Guild and Critics’ Choice awards. Only four – four! – were women: Gerwig, Kathryn Bigelow, Ava DuVernay and Angelina Jolie. Only Bigelow has ever won. Anything.

Given that women directors tend to make films with women protagonists – although certainly not exclusively – what does this mean? It means that we as a society are comfortable with women heroes in little indie films, or on discrete TV episodes, but not in our blockbusters. It’s why Little Women was given that paltry US$17-million opening weekend estimate.

It means that to the bestowers of awards, most of whom are still white men, stories about women aren’t as worthy. Which is why neither Booksmart nor Little Women are appearing much in this year’s best-of and awards lists.

And awards matter. They tell us what the people in the entertainment business care about in any given year. Which influences what gets made in subsequent years. Which is why, although 2019 was the “best year ever” for women directors, there were still 8.4 men for every woman working.

Last time I looked, there were not eight times more men than women on Earth. And their stories weren’t eight times more important. But you can see how we’ve been conditioned to think they are.

So please, men, go to Little Women. Don’t be put off because the girls’ progressive mother, played by Dern, says this line: “I’m angry nearly every day of my life.” That might sound like something Gerwig came up with, but no – Alcott wrote it herself, in the novel. As she wrote this line, said by Amy: “The world is hard on ambitious girls.” Go buy a ticket and see why.
 
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I was satisfied with the one in the 90s. If any aspect of that was lacking, apparently there were like a gazillion more made before the 90s one. Why the fuck would I financially reward Hollywood for not only shitting out a remake, but an (apparently) lackluster one?
 
>make a movie
>complain that those who are not your target audience aren't seeing it

If you are so crestfallen that I am ignoring you, then you deserve it.

If people want to watch it they will watch it. These articles are so stupid. It's a good story. But it's aimed at girls and you are better off writing articles that encourage them to watch it.
 
Dear Alien,

People like what they like. Their likes are not dictated by a central directive.

Yours truly,

Human
 
Unless whats her face is pummeling some white girl on a giant destroyed mech near the end with butt rock blasting out at full volume, Im not gonna care about some women doing nothing for 2-2 1/2 hours. If I wanted that I would sit and watch keeping up with the Kardahians with my parents
 
Unless whats her face is pummeling some white girl on a giant destroyed mech near the end with butt rock blasting out at full volume, Im not gonna care about some women doing nothing for 2-2 1/2 hours. If I wanted that I would sit and watch keeping up with the Kardahians with my parents
What gets me about people like the author is how they all fucking sound the EXACT FUCKING SAME, like every other teenage girl that never fucking grew out of whining at dad to give them things. I swear to fucking god there's a factory out there somewhere that just churns these people out like Beanie Babies from a Guatemalan sweatshop because holy shit.

"We find you interesting, men."

Not enough to recognize that 1. we're not a fucking monolith in any fashion, or 2. to respect the fact that a number of us aren't going to sit through a chickflick without a DAMNED good reason. You find us interesting, except those pesky things called individual opinion and taste not informed by some greater thing than ourselves.

You don't find us interesting, lady. You find us vexing and perplexing. You look at us as dogs that need trainers. You don't want to understand us, you want to understand this idea you have in your head of what we should be, all of us, like some gestalt-consciousness of "proper manhood".
 
"We felt your pain in Joker"

No, you didn't. You labelled the lonely mentally ill man who was abandoned by society an incel and you called any man who liked the movie an incel too. You wrote hundreds of articles predicting an incel was going to shoot up a cinema showing it, for fucks sake.
 
You know, I actually committed broke high A&N law and decided to read this article even more, and I realized that for all the butthurt about men not filling the seat of theaters for this movie I just heard of... there's literally no discussion about what this movie is.

What gets me about people like the author is how they all fucking sound the EXACT FUCKING SAME, like every other teenage girl that never fucking grew out of whining at dad to give them things. I swear to fucking god there's a factory out there somewhere that just churns these people out like Beanie Babies from a Guatemalan sweatshop because holy shit.

"We find you interesting, men."

Not enough to recognize that 1. we're not a fucking monolith in any fashion, or 2. to respect the fact that a number of us aren't going to sit through a chickflick without a DAMNED good reason. You find us interesting, except those pesky things called individual opinion and taste not informed by some greater thing than ourselves.

You don't find us interesting, lady. You find us vexing and perplexing. You look at us as dogs that need trainers. You don't want to understand us, you want to understand this idea you have in your head of what we should be, all of us, like some gestalt-consciousness of "proper manhood".
The funny thing is that the author never even gave a reason as to why a guy should have went out to go see Pretty Women if you wanted men to see Pretty Women that badly actually try to convince them because from the trailer snippets it looked like nothing was going on.
"We felt your pain in Joker"

No, you didn't. You labelled the lonely mentally ill man who was abandoned by society an incel and you called any man who liked the movie an incel too. You wrote hundreds of articles predicting an incel was going to shoot up a cinema showing it, for fucks sake.
I smuckled a bit about her whining about the RGB biopic, bitch she was astroturfed to hell and back when the child sacrifices couldn't keep up with the cryptkeepers age. Virtually no one but diehard lefties and the Elites cared about her before and after she finally croaked.
 
Because women are boring. Their interests are boring,their opinions are boring,their takes are boring, the things they like are boring. They are boring.

The only reason I pretend to find anything a woman says to not be a complete and total chore is when I think I can get something from it. Every conversation I have ever ever had with a woman has been a chore. Why would I pay to sit through the boring shit they care about, when I could just reread the Martian, or watch a Franco-Prussian watdocumentary?
 
Because women are boring. Their interests are boring,their opinions are boring,their takes are boring, the things they like are boring. They are boring.
Even when they appear to have a common interest with me (cooking/cuisine etc. as one example), a way to genuinely capture my interest... they usually manage to turn it into something insipid and banal. Just smother all the fucking magic right out of the subject in 50 words or less.
 
This movie made $108 million in the US alone, and $216 million worldwide with a budget of only $40 million. It doesn't matter if men didn't watch it, clearly they weren't a crucial element to its success anyway. And so what if only women cared about it? There's nothing wrong with a movie being aimed specifically at women, and men aren't duty-bound to watch just to balance the scales.
 
The funny thing is that the author never even gave a reason as to why a guy should have went out to go see Pretty Women if you wanted men to see Pretty Women that badly actually try to convince them because from the trailer snippets it looked like nothing was going on.
The reason is simple: because she wanted them to. That was good enough for her daddy.
 
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