Why aren’t men going to see Little Women?

(Yeah, yeah, I know this is an old story, but I went searching for the legendary reeeeefest about men not wanting to watch Little Women on this forum and nothing came up, so you must have missed it. Prepare yourself for some grade A succulent butthurt.)


Why aren’t men going to see Little Women?
Johanna Schneller

Whatever it is that keeps men away, this not-caring about women’s stories becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, with economic as well as cultural ramifications.



Guys, guys, why aren’t you going to the film Little Women? The update of the Louisa May Alcott classic, one of the most beloved books in literature, scores 91 on Metacritic, 95 per cent on Rotten Tomatoes, 8.3/10 on IMDb and A- on CinemaScore – strong ratings all. Written and directed by Greta Gerwig, it stars Saoirse Ronan, Laura Dern, Florence Pugh from Midsommar and Meryl flipping Streep. It’s about ambition, money and art – things men care about. It surpassed its – admittedly low, which I’ll come back to – opening box office estimate of US$17-million, and instead pulled in nearly US$44- million in its first week (Dec. 25 to 31). But only 30 per cent of its audience is male.

Why is that? Why don’t men turn up when women are the stars of the story? In a Dec. 30 tweet, Taffy Brodesser-Akner, the New York Times Magazine staff writer and author of the hit novel Fleishman is in Trouble, expressed the frustration that many female film lovers feel: “You know what?” she wrote to her 64,000 followers, “Screw Field of Dreams. I watched it with my kids last night and cannot tell you how much unfettered father/son romance [crap] I was subjected to as a girl. The wife as accessory for his middle-aged ambivalence. Meanwhile, no one wants to watch Little Women.”

Two-point-seven thousand likes later, she added, “I feel like I’ve not been made important in [my sons’] eyes through the world of film or TV.”

Let’s unpack this. She’s not picking on Field of Dreams per se, she’s angered by the same thing that angers me: Women happily, eagerly go to movies written, directed by and/or about men. We are curious about you. We agree that your stories, your feelings, are important. You are half of humankind, and we want to understand you.

In 2019, we ran to see you in Once Upon a Time… in Hollywood. We felt your pain in Joker, cheered you on in Ford v Ferrari, wept at your father/son struggles in Ad Astra and The Lion King and A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood.

Aren’t you equally curious about us? How we think, what we feel, how we came to be? Maybe you never read Little Women, fine. But if every woman you know read it 14 times and passionately proclaims that she’s Jo, don’t you want a glimpse into what that’s about?

Women chortled along with the foul-mouthed nerdy dudes in Good Boys, to the tune of US$83-million in North American earnings. But it is an understatement to say that men did not turn up for Booksmart, an equally funny, equally raunchy coming of age story for girls. It was one of the best-reviewed films of the year, but only 39 per cent of its audience was male, and it earned only US$24.8-million – worldwide.

Boys and men did go to some films with female protagonists this year. They’re okay with the ice princesses in Frozen II, the spandex- and space-heroines in Captain Marvel and Star Wars Part IX, the evil sorceress in Maleficent and the malevolent Ma.

But when a story is about a real woman, a real life, men are not socialized to care. Not about women’s creative awakenings, à la Little Women or Booksmart, and not about women’s lives in general. Harriett Tubman’s exploits were as daring as any superhero’s, but Harriet was only the 64th most popular film of 2019. Judy Garland was one of the greatest entertainers ever to have lived, but Judy was No. 92. Ruth Bader Ginsburg is a crucial figure in the United States, both historically and right this minute, but her biopic, On the Basis of Sex, came in at No. 95. The only real women’s story that men turned out to see in 2019 was Hustlers, about strippers turned con artists.

Here we are in #MeToo, paternity leave, gender fluid 2020, when family attendance drives the box office, yet many men don’t think that a so-called women’s picture could possibly be for them. I don’t believe that playground rules (no girls allowed) apply in men’s imaginations. I don’t believe that birth and families, romance and loss don’t matter to them. But I’m wondering why they only matter when they’re happening to male leads? Has the world become so divided, so territorial, that men are supportive of our little stories in our little corner, of course they are – they just don’t want any part of them? Or does a film about women’s money, women’s power, women’s art, women’s ambition and independence, somehow feel … threatening?

Whatever it is that keeps men away, this not-caring about women’s stories becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy, with economic as well as cultural ramifications. On Jan. 2, the University of Southern California Annenberg Inclusion Initiative released the results of its 13-year study on women directors. There was good news: 10.6 per cent – 12 out of 2019’s top 100 movies – were directed by women, the highest percentage in the years studied.

There, however, the good news ends. Over all across the 13 years, 1,448 male directors made films, but only 70 female directors. That’s nuts. For women of colour, the numbers were far worse.

Moreover, while women directed 34.5 per cent of independent films in the last two years, and 31 per cent of episodic TV shows, and 20 per cent of Netflix offerings, over the past 13 years, they directed only 4.8 per cent of top-grossing theatrical films.

The study also looked at directors who were nominated for Golden Globe, Oscar, Directors Guild and Critics’ Choice awards. Only four – four! – were women: Gerwig, Kathryn Bigelow, Ava DuVernay and Angelina Jolie. Only Bigelow has ever won. Anything.

Given that women directors tend to make films with women protagonists – although certainly not exclusively – what does this mean? It means that we as a society are comfortable with women heroes in little indie films, or on discrete TV episodes, but not in our blockbusters. It’s why Little Women was given that paltry US$17-million opening weekend estimate.

It means that to the bestowers of awards, most of whom are still white men, stories about women aren’t as worthy. Which is why neither Booksmart nor Little Women are appearing much in this year’s best-of and awards lists.

And awards matter. They tell us what the people in the entertainment business care about in any given year. Which influences what gets made in subsequent years. Which is why, although 2019 was the “best year ever” for women directors, there were still 8.4 men for every woman working.

Last time I looked, there were not eight times more men than women on Earth. And their stories weren’t eight times more important. But you can see how we’ve been conditioned to think they are.

So please, men, go to Little Women. Don’t be put off because the girls’ progressive mother, played by Dern, says this line: “I’m angry nearly every day of my life.” That might sound like something Gerwig came up with, but no – Alcott wrote it herself, in the novel. As she wrote this line, said by Amy: “The world is hard on ambitious girls.” Go buy a ticket and see why.
 
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Obligatory "old story."

Other than that, I mean the movie didn't flop. 200+ million against a 40 million budget. One might call it a moderate success. You can't really expect more than that with this kind of movie.
 
Because we're not interested in females hemming and hawing over stupid bullshit for two hours. Put Red Sonja back in theaters and I'll go see that.
 
Awh, poor wamen. Blow it out your ass, journocunt. Men didn't go to see it because they know it doesn't matter-they'll still be relentlessly berated and demonized by the likes of you.
 
Let’s unpack this. She’s not picking on Field of Dreams per se, she’s angered by the same thing that angers me: Women happily, eagerly go to movies written, directed by and/or about men. We are curious about you. We agree that your stories, your feelings, are important. You are half of humankind, and we want to understand you.

Rumor has it the pants of the person who wrote this excerpt, as well as those of the editor who gave the OK on it, immediately combusted and instantaneously immolated them.

In 2019, we ran to see you in Once Upon a Time… in Hollywood. We felt your pain in Joker,

...and then they inexplicably combusted again even though all combustible material had certainly been outright sublimated in the previous conflagration.
 
I love movies with female leads, Terminator 2 and Aliens are among my all time favourites. Show us Jo and Amy blowing up the borg queen and then we'll talk.
 
You know, I actually broke high A&N law and decided to read this article even more, and I realized that for all the butthurt about men not filling the seat of theaters for this movie I just heard of... there's literally no discussion about what this movie is.
 
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I'm getting the same vibes from when my female co-workers got mad at me about not knowing who Betty White was and not watching Golden Girls.

"Why would I want to watch a tv show about a bunch of geriatric women?"

They just stared at me like I'm a fucking alien or something.
 
Hm. Interesting how you bitch and whine about diversity and representation mattering, then get confused when the movie that does not represent a male audience does not draw a male audience.
 
Because men hate watching women sit around and complain and never actually try to solve anything. They just bitch until it's changed for them. They bitch and complain and whisper and whine to each other until someone else fixes the problem that could have been fixed in ten minutes if they were interested in actually solving it instead of just having it to bitch about.

Nothing is more aggravating to a man than watching some dipshit who could solve their fucking problem just stand around whining about it. That's why a lot of men hate modern TV and cinema, because even the men just sit there complaining and whining and never try to solve or fix anything, because if they do, then the problem is over and the show ends.

Show the women actually having self-determination, solving the problem instead of snivelling about it, and actually being the self-actualized independent woman they're TELLING us they are, and maybe we'll watch it.

Otherwise, it's just two hours of women bitching.

Just like outside the theater.
 
I didn't even know there was a new one. Didn't they just remake it awhile back? I love the one with Katharine Hepburn. The one with Elizabeth Taylor was pretty good too. Maybe men would enjoy the older ones? They are fun and touching at the same time without the fear of some modern #woke interjected into them.
 
>make a movie
>complain that those who are not your target audience aren't seeing it

If you are so crestfallen that I am ignoring you, then you deserve it.
 
I would have told you to die mad about it then, Johanna, and I would say it again today.
 
I'm getting the same vibes from when my female co-workers got mad at me about not knowing who Betty White was and not watching Golden Girls.

"Why would I want to watch a tv show about a bunch of geriatric women?"

They just stared at me like I'm a fucking alien or something.

TBF Betty White was pretty based for an old lady, also Golden Girls isn't bad... Yes it surprises me I'm saying that, the show is good tho.

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Rose is a slut btw, a good girl, but a total whore.
 
Because it's another "modernized take" and it likely lacks the fucking HOTEL MARIO THEME, DUMBASS.
NOBODY'S GONNA SEE THAT TRASH IF IT DOESNT HAVE THAT FUCKING SONG.
 
TBF Betty White was pretty based for an old lady, also Golden Girls isn't bad... Yes it surprises me I'm saying that, the show is good tho.
Didn't watch a lot of tv growing up, and practically outgrew it in high-school. This alone gets me grief in the real world; but back before she died when there countless articles about her turning 100 soon. So they try to bring me into the conversation.

"Don't know who she is."

"She's an actress! She was in Golden Girls."

"Never watched it, what's it about?"

"It's four old ladies living together and..."

"Why would I want to watch a tv show about a bunch of geriatric women?"

I figure part of the problem is my autism and not understanding why so many people try to live vicariously through actors and athletes; but a bad description really doesn't do any favors for it. Again, autism, but when people get crazy about some sort of media, I feel obligated to avoid it.
 
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