What do you do when life has hit a wall

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Without specific details. All I can offer is these words I am paraphrasing from a source I can't remember because I sell fish for a living: Do not think of life as a goal. Don't think of life as a mountain to be climbed. Think of it as a river and youare a part of the current. Flow around this wall the best you can. You are a unique perception of reality. Do something, whatever it maybe that gets yourself out of your mind to not think. "Before enlightenment Get money, fuck bitches. After enlightenment get money, fuck bitches." -Old Buddhist Proverb
If that is too cheesy for you remember.... red-green-the-red-green-show.gif
 
Doing the right things every day always helps me. Good routine is important, and I can at least take solace in the fact that I'm doing the right things. Eat right, exercise, work, keep a tidy living space, pray, read books, etc.

I know all those things are good for me and if I'm doing good things, I must be on the right track.
 
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I don't know your situation but you need to acknowledge the problem, take time to either grieve or figure out a solution, and then move on. Wallowing in misery and being a crybaby is faggot behavior. Everyone has problems. Deal with them or learn to live with them and move on.
 
@Kahlz ,

I forgot to mention an idea. This one depends on your situation/location. If you are in the U.S. and don't live in a small town where everyone knows everyone else bushiness find a support group. I would stay away from anything too specific like a substance/booze/vice abuse meeting or anything requiring or giving you a medical knowledge a normal person wouldn't know about like how Chemo therapy feels . They are supposed to be anonymous, non confrontational if someone does not want to discuss details of why you are there. Don't do this especially if this is a small group less than 25-30 people. Try to be the fly on the wall nobody notices and be respectful for the love of God. Considering you are there under false pretenses and those rooms do save peoples lives don't taint that. People dump all kinds of personal shit and maybe that's what you need somewhere you can dump your personal shit too in a safe controlled environment. As far as "exit plan" you're on your own on that. I haven't the slightest idea to break contact or come clean you didn't actually lose your parents in the house fire or some shit. Some support groups are extremely tight knit and some people will actually go to your home and check to see if you are ok if you stop answering your cell. If there is a group that applies to you or you situation it's worth looking into. If you actually find relief and people you want to keep up conversations with as I said I haven't the slightest idea how you explain you aren't dealing with whatever the purpose of the group is.
 
I was going to say: over, around, or through. Different situations require different moves.

Other options include under, or just lying down in front of it and waiting for a door magically to appear. But the first of those is hard, slow, dirty, and painful, and the second has a very low success rate and means you're giving up any influence on how fast or slow it goes, and you might not even fit through the door even if it does appear.
 
Breaking out of your routine. Time away from screens. Time away from your phone. I know that sounds boomer of me, but there is no way we are meant to handle all the data / ads that we are fed on a regular basis. It's small, but go to a coffee shop / pastry shop / whatever that you have never tried before and enjoy the experience. Bring a book you want to read and tune the world out.
 
Money is the only thing that will open new doors and create an exit path out of your current depressing situation. I won't tell you how to make it. What I will tell you is that it's surprisingly easy to do and get away with if you're careful.
 
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