What do women see in men?

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It's a vague question, so it's hard to answer. But I guess you are wanting to learn what kind of a man you should be for a woman to be into you, and that will depend on the woman you ask.

Personally, what I see in guys I like is this: A companion that I jive well with (we have the same sense of humor, same set of values), and adds to my life (we might have similar life goals, or he has skills/goals that I do not but that can improve my life), and to whom I can add to as well (same as previous, just me giving value to him). If I "like" a guy (as more than a friend) then he just makes me happy to be around. I can tell he cares for me, and values me as a person and a human, not just a woman. He gives me the "he would pick you in a room full of women" feeling. Maybe he makes me feel giddy and silly and makes my heart skip a beat. Makes it easy to see a future together.

Lookwise, he just isn't unkept or totally mishapen. Looking back, I don't seem to have a visual type, more so a personality type.
 
Very good looking men or rich ones lmao :lit: a pretty boy or rich guy is useless, pretty boys are too far up their own ass to think they even need to be a man. Pretty is a feminine trait. Rich guys are entitled degenerates who think women should be fighting over them. Very unmasculine behavior.
A man needs to be ambitious and hard-working because he wants to be a winner at life, and wear a shirt and tie to work 😍. He needs to work physically in his spare time, digging, building, fixing shit. He needs to not spend lots of time on the internet obsessing over incel theory or porn; if you've done this, you've ruined your capacity for love and it's truly over for you.
 
Men are amazing at moving heavy furniture. Many pieces of furniture in this world would not be moved if not for men. Thank you men for your furniture moving expertise:)
 
Humor, consistency, and intelligence. I think if you want a relationship to last and be successful then you have to have moral integrity, financial security, and foresight, but I think just sheer attraction alone just depends on those first three things.
 
crazedaze dijo:
Very good looking men or rich ones lmao :lit: a pretty boy or rich guy is useless, pretty boys are too far up their own ass to think they even need to be a man. Pretty is a feminine trait. Rich guys are entitled degenerates who think women should be fighting over them. Very unmasculine behavior.
A man needs to be ambitious and hard-working because he wants to be a winner at life, and wear a shirt and tie to work 😍. He needs to work physically in his spare time, digging, building, fixing shit. He needs to not spend lots of time on the internet obsessing over incel theory or porn; if you've done this, you've ruined your capacity for love and it's truly over for you.
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Is this entire thread a larp or did a facebook mom's group link to KF again?
 
“What do women see in men?”
I still don’t get it. I’m a fucking troglodyte.
 
They're fun to hang out with, and we usually have similar interests. That's not to say that women aren't and don't, but you asked what I see in men.
 
isalaide dijo:
This isn't going to reflect well on me, but it is honest:

I knew husband slightly when we were at school. Different schools, but lots of crossover in the social circles. So I knew who he was and I'd see him in the usual crowds at big parties, out at clubs etc. I think we said hi a few times. But he was really pretty shy, and I... didn't talk to boys because of my parents, so that was that.

We go to uni, the same crowds tend to mix together a bit more, but obviously there are less of us and we have more time to socialise. So I go with some folks I know to a party, and the old school crowd are there.

And he had had a final growth spurt in the preceding six months. And was now six three, and most of it legs. And he'd got a haircut. A glorious haircut. The sort of haircut that adorns the front of the NME. I still have old photos of that haircut.

And I guess my brain just went "Yes. That one. Get."

I was sufficiently fortified by Absolut Citron to go forth and seize my destiny, and the rest went quite smoothly from there. (This is a lie. His version of events is that I appeared next to him, advised forcefully that "this is a shite party, wall to wall wankers, take me for food" and this is how we spent the evening arguing over the Celtic defence whilst eating chips in his mother's 3 Series. From such great cringe is love born.)
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From all this talk your relationship seems pretty magical so I dont know what made it end up at marriage counselling. Hope things turn out good for both of you though.
 
Georgio Cocklord dijo:
From all this talk your relationship seems pretty magical so I dont know what made it end up at marriage counselling. Hope things turn out good for both of you though.
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The answer is: my mother, my family, his good intentions in a crisis for me having a terrible execution.

We went for like five or six sessions, I refused to go any more, we sorted it in a session with my therapist.

All is well. He is my everything. Always has been. He is my rock and my shelter and my sunshine.

I know how lucky I am, and I work every day to be worthy of it.
 
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