TundranVoltaire / sea-chart - The Kiwis' Benedict Arnold

[NanoBlockEnthusiast]

Holy shit Dex. I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. Thank you for sharing it though, really, I appreciate it a lot.

 

[Totenkopf]

The thought of dating one of these crazies who then goes on to tell everyone you know and publicly shame you as an "abuser" for absolutely no fault of your own scares the shit out of me. Like, jesus.

 

[Meowthkip]

There was to be no Charles in the group and no rape jokes and no straight relationship stuff and nothing that didn't cater to Volts' interest.

I think the part I bolded should have been a big red flag. It'd be one thing to have a Skype group filled entirely with LGBT people, but to forbid the discussion of anything heterosexual is just like "wait, what?"

What we DIDN'T want, was Volts constantly making fake "tucute" blogs to follow and stalk Vade. This moron even let things get so bad that they added someone who claimed to be a victim of Vade's harassment into our group, who turned out to be Tankurin. And Tankurin at the time still spoke with Vade, and Volts was just too stupid to do a simple background check. All of Volts' plans to harrass Vade futher went straight out of our mouths and into Vade's ears, and when that happened, most of us decided to stop attacking Vade.

HA HA HA HA HA OH WOW.

So Volts went ween before becoming exactly what she claimed to hate so much. How fitting.

This would just fuel more and more "anti-SJW" behavior in them, which eventually just kinda went so politically right-wing that it looped around and became extremely left-wing, which is why this thread is here now.

I don't think Volts went right-wing so much as contrarian and then somehow looped back into being a brown-noser. Very little of what I saw of her was anywhere near remotely right-wing. I think it'd be more accurate that she rebelled against the authoritarian nature of Tumblr's SJ culture so hard that she became authoritarian herself, all while still on the left. See this chart.

Even though Volts isn't popular in any fandom, no matter how many they try to pander to, I had to defend my reputation. As it is anywhere on Tumblr, it's easy to get shunned with one little lie, ESPECIALLY if you're a white straight man. It's VERY easy to chalk up a straight white male on Tumblr as an abuser because we're the reason that genocide happened, all of us of course.

How people don't catch onto the fact that there are slimy motherfuckers like Volts who will utilize this narrative to their advantage escapes me. How many times do these people need to be fooled before they start catching on?

 

[Jaimas]

I was hoping to not discuss this because I don't have any physical evidence. Most of this happened years back.



Isolation
Volts' first move when I got with them was breaking off my friendships by lying. Of course this happened years ago. The drama Volts brewed up was that there was this person in our friend circle was was brash, let's just call him Charles to avoid a namedrop. Charles made lewd jokes a lot, the ones that bothered Volts were rape jokes. I learned to brush them off. Volts however, tried ousting him in a circle of people who had no qualms with him, especially since he didn't mean half of the things he said. When we didn't do what they wanted (kicking him out of the skype group we were in), they got pissed and began to raise the tension in the group, either by angrily talking about Charles while he was present or just outright being passive aggressive to everyone. Volts would continuously talk to me about how "I need to get out of that group" because of Charles and how "Your friends are bad for condoning this". Volts was eventually told to back the fuck up and stop causing tension and drama over something so damn stupid. I eventually got fed up and left the group. Volts stayed in there for god knows why, apparently the drama and negative attention is something they fed off of. The week after in that group was constant fighting, Volts trying to get Charles banned from the group and whatnot. By the end of the week, Volts was banned from that skype group and blocked. I blocked them as well because my girlfriend was hurt.

Had this been someone else I wouldn't have reacted this way. But they'd cry on mic, they'd play themselves to be the victim so damn much. "Charles hurt me!" and "I didn't do anything" and "You're a bad boyfriend because they're yelling at me and you're doing nothing!"

And I continued to do nothing.

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Manipulation
After the drama slightly subsided, Volts went off to create their own skype group with the people they liked in it. Of course, they were admin and they made the rules. There was to be no Charles in the group and no rape jokes and no straight relationship stuff and nothing that didn't cater to Volts' interest. After a bit since for some reason I was allowed to break the "rules", I decided to put down a rule of thumb for the group: If the people running the group had to stop and interaction, the person who began the fight got 1 strike. After 3 strikes, the person would be kicked. This rule worked amazingly well for about a year. But then the Vade fiasco hit, and it seemed that no matter what I tried to say or tell people from posting or doing, I wasn't being listened to. Now what I should have done, was sit Volts down and stop the Vade-Volts fight in its tracks. What I did do, was absolutely nothing and let Volts drag on the drama until late March of 2015.

A few members came to me, complaining of Volts' behavior, who was told to not bring up Vade in that group under any circumstances. We understood Vade is an awful human being who milked the suicide of a loved one for their personal gain. We got that. What we DIDN'T want, was Volts constantly making fake "tucute" blogs to follow and stalk Vade. This moron even let things get so bad that they added someone who claimed to be a victim of Vade's harassment into our group, who turned out to be Tankurin. And Tankurin at the time still spoke with Vade, and Volts was just too stupid to do a simple background check. All of Volts' plans to harrass Vade futher went straight out of our mouths and into Vade's ears, and when that happened, most of us decided to stop attacking Vade. We were done.

And that's where the story should have ended, right? Well shit. Our little prank got uncovered before his happened, shit happens. But Volts, of course, of course, still has to continue to talk to Vade or follow her on fake blogs. All of those blogs got debunked by Vade, by the way. It got to the point that Vade began to sort of destroy Volts' and my relationship.

Of course though, Volts would continue to cry on mic so I wouldn't be able to tune them out unless if I muted Skype. So after that, being told that I should be defending her from Vade, I began to go after people in the group who'd insist that we needed to leave Vade the fuck alone, because Vade was "hurting my precious little baby". I shouldn't have. I should have just kicked Volts out.

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Final Straw
The final straw with me was that when Volts went off to college, it gave me some alone time (finally!). I would draw for hours, just sort of reflecting on things, and it dawned on me just what had happened. I had turned on people I knew for years just because some person I fell for had a personal problem with them. Volts had changed a lot in college, and I don't know why. The otherkin thing came up more and more often. Volts eventually came to the conclusion as a supposed transman, that all transwomen were shit and needed to step aside so that transmen could be appreciated more by society. I only slightly understood this revelation, being an actual transman myself. I'm told constantly on tumblr about how I'm oppressing women by deciding to be man. I would love for these people to step aside and let me be who I want to but that's not going to make me say that transwomen are awful people. Because they aren't. They're in the same boat as me. They also began to grow more and more irritated at Christians and God, saying that God was an awful being for not stopping what happened to them and that all Christians were bigoted and hateful. It grew tiring, fast.

But being the absolute tool I am, I would pretend to agree. This would just fuel more and more "anti-SJW" behavior in them, which eventually just kinda went so politically right-wing that it looped around and became extremely left-wing, which is why this thread is here now.

Volts eventually went off on @Spartykins for a multitude of reasons. One of them was that Sparty felt Volts needed professional help and needed to leave the house they were in. All of us except Volts thought that. On top of that, Sparty is a Christian (a very casual one), but that still angered Volts that Sparty was following a "corrupted and completely evil" religion. I, of course, was pulled into this drama by Volts, telling me to leave Sparty because he's a Christian who thinks Volts needs help. I refused to leave Sparty because he's been my friend for 3 years and counting. I trust the guy, and the way Volts was making him out was not the truth. They were trying to play Sparty off as this guy out to get Volts locked up in a mental asylum, and maybe that'd be for the best at this point. Either way, I was done. I decided to tell Volts to back off and not talk to me about the drama anymore. I'll attach logs of what ensued after that.

After 3 days of pleading them to leave me alone constantly, I broke up with them. I screamed at them about how they'd torn me away from all my friends, how everyone had left because of her. She was turning me on other people for years and I was through. They tried to keep me there by begging continuously for one more chance, to which I argued I gave them 3 entire days of chances when they kept talking to me after I told them to give me space. They chose to end the conversation with "I love you" as one last attempt to get me back. It just drove home what they'd been doing. They'd been trying to isolate me from everyone, and the reason why is still unknown to me this day. Maybe it's from what happened to them, who knows. Maybe they're just a sociopath. Maybe it's borderline. Maybe it's not a disorder at all and I literally dated an asshole for 3 years.

Volts insisted that they wanted to leave me alone and they wished me the best of luck. It was probably to make me apologize for what I had done. They also kept telling their followers "He still loves me. It was just a break, or I'm gonna break." I think I have a cap for that. If so I'll attach that as well. But I publicly said I no longer loved Volts. I was angry at them, I was repulsed at the thought of even dating them anymore, especially once as it became clear to me Volts was using me to attack others. Of course, I was a fucking idiot for stating that! It was like I awakened some Cthulhu-like creature inside of them. They began to vague post a lot about me, calling me "abusive" and "awful" and accusing me of sending death threats to them even though the thought of contacting them just outright sickened me. It's like they forgot I have friends who didn't like what they did. Even though Volts isn't popular in any fandom, no matter how many they try to pander to, I had to defend my reputation. As it is anywhere on Tumblr, it's easy to get shunned with one little lie, ESPECIALLY if you're a white straight man. It's VERY easy to chalk up a straight white male on Tumblr as an abuser because we're the reason that genocide happened, all of us of course. And their lies did work on a few people, the cycle will continue.

Luckily it seems to be that most people are taking my side on the story, that Volts is trying to knock me down because I left them and they want revenge. Anyone can see that, it's real fucking easy. But they're taking it out of control, obviously. That's why we're all here.

They've ruined their life in the process, though. They almost failed multiple courses in college, not because they struggled with the subject, but because they just outright refused to go to class. They refuse to get a starter job like in retail or something, which would be a lost cause now if this stalking case goes on their record. Hell, the only job they COULD get then would be a place that can't afford to do a background check, and that would be minimum wage-paying jobs. So I'm just sitting here, hoping that they get a felony for stalking on their record. Maybe they'll learn something. Shame it has to be the hard way.

----

So there's the details of what went down. There's other, smaller events that came up during our relationship but those 3 were the main ones.

First: My condolences for all the bullshit you put up with, TGS. You deserved better.

Second: Tanukurin this actually confirms what Tanku confided in me some time ago. You might not be aware of it, and take this knowledge with a grain of salt, but Tanku seems to have done the right thing and left team Vade well behind (and Tumblr with it). My last correspondance with her indicated that not only was Volts up to some heinous shit, but that Volt was instrumental in the Vade self-flags that happened. I had mostly thought that those were the result of Woody, who did similar, but knowing this puts things in an interesting new light.

Third: Can I get a run-down on your own experiences with the cult of Vade? Were all of them like this, or are the likes of Volt and friends outliers? I know a lot of them are genderspecials.

 

[Rascal Hawk]

How people don't catch onto the fact that there are slimy motherfuckers like Volts who will utilize this narrative to their advantage escapes me. How many times do these people need to be fooled before they start catching on?

Unfortunately, I suspect the bystanders most vulnerable to this kind of shit are also the ones who are most deeply entrenched in tumblr's belief economy, with no outside support to help pull them outta the shitter. Or are hangers on who have their own agendas. I don't really fully grasp it either, honestly, though this and the Vade thread have been an... education.

Spoiler: Slight digression

Second: Tanukurin this actually confirms what Tanku confided in me some time ago. You might not be aware of it, and take this knowledge with a grain of salt, but Tanku seems to have done the right thing and left team Vade well behind (and Tumblr with it). My last correspondance with her indicated that not only was Volts up to some heinous shit, but that Volt was instrumental in the Vade self-flags that happened. I had mostly thought that those were the result of Woody, who did similar, but knowing this puts things in an interesting new light.

1.) All the roads of TumblrHell lead to Vade 2.) I really hope Tanku did finally ditch FennecFucker. 3.) Volts is a dumbfuck.

 

[Logia_Peter]

Saying I love you, manipulating feelings and hearts, playing on similarities, trying to drag others into that kind of drama...oh yeah, seems we've got a bit of sociopath vs. sociopath action here between Volts and Vade. I almost feel left out of the fun (I joke, nobody could want to be a part of this).

Of course Volts was unbelievably stupid in not ditching the plan when it was compromised. Ultimately they are the architect of their own misfortune.

Volts is up to some heinous shit it seems, and I doubt they're finished.

 

[AnOminous]

The thought of dating one of these crazies who then goes on to tell everyone you know and publicly shame you as an "abuser" for absolutely no fault of your own scares the shit out of me. Like, jesus.

Before getting involved, ask them what their tumblr is. If they have one, punch them in the face and run, fast.

 

[Meowthkip]

Second: Tanukurin this actually confirms what Tanku confided in me some time ago. You might not be aware of it, and take this knowledge with a grain of salt, but Tanku seems to have done the right thing and left team Vade well behind (and Tumblr with it).

Nope, Tanku's still on Tumblr, is now fictionkin with Hiro from Big Hero 6 and is casually talking about suicide to visit her fictional brother in another universe... I mean, get buttpats.

Tanku just keeps falling off the wagon. It's like trying to rehabilitate a crack addict. You pour your heart out to them and they act like they care about you back until they need more crack and they break into your house to steal your TV so they can pawn it off for more crack.

Apparently Tanku and Volts are still in contact, though.

 

[NanoBlockEnthusiast]

Apparently Tanku and Volts are still in contact, though.

I'd say this is probably true given that Tanku was following me up until I unfollowed Volts the other day (I didn't realize that was even Tanku.)

 

[Sunny-D]

Figured now would be a good time to mention that volts also claimed that just seeing Dex's url made her feel sick. Claiming him as being the abuser and once again that she was the "victim". What a faker. Of course I called that shit out. I'm not a fucking idiot.

She also claimed she was afraid of Dex hurting her, even tho she had no evidence to even have that as a theory, not to mention the distance between them.... I learned exactly how to handle Dex when he's angry within a few weeks of hanging out. Seriously it's not rocket science to ask what someone wants when they're angry.

and is it just me or does "This person's "ANGER" made me so afraid that I gave up all of my hopes and dreams and aspirations JUST FOR THEM" sound a hell of a lot less like being a victim of emotional abuse and more like trying to control the "ANGRY" person's emotions, herself. People get pissed, it's normal, sometimes it's justified.

 

[2Spoopy]

I was hoping to not discuss this because I don't have any physical evidence. Most of this happened years back.



Isolation
Volts' first move when I got with them was breaking off my friendships by lying. Of course this happened years ago. The drama Volts brewed up was that there was this person in our friend circle was was brash, let's just call him Charles to avoid a namedrop. Charles made lewd jokes a lot, the ones that bothered Volts were rape jokes. I learned to brush them off. Volts however, tried ousting him in a circle of people who had no qualms with him, especially since he didn't mean half of the things he said. When we didn't do what they wanted (kicking him out of the skype group we were in), they got pissed and began to raise the tension in the group, either by angrily talking about Charles while he was present or just outright being passive aggressive to everyone. Volts would continuously talk to me about how "I need to get out of that group" because of Charles and how "Your friends are bad for condoning this". Volts was eventually told to back the fuck up and stop causing tension and drama over something so damn stupid. I eventually got fed up and left the group. Volts stayed in there for god knows why, apparently the drama and negative attention is something they fed off of. The week after in that group was constant fighting, Volts trying to get Charles banned from the group and whatnot. By the end of the week, Volts was banned from that skype group and blocked. I blocked them as well because my girlfriend was hurt.

Had this been someone else I wouldn't have reacted this way. But they'd cry on mic, they'd play themselves to be the victim so damn much. "Charles hurt me!" and "I didn't do anything" and "You're a bad boyfriend because they're yelling at me and you're doing nothing!"

And I continued to do nothing.

----

Manipulation
After the drama slightly subsided, Volts went off to create their own skype group with the people they liked in it. Of course, they were admin and they made the rules. There was to be no Charles in the group and no rape jokes and no straight relationship stuff and nothing that didn't cater to Volts' interest. After a bit since for some reason I was allowed to break the "rules", I decided to put down a rule of thumb for the group: If the people running the group had to stop and interaction, the person who began the fight got 1 strike. After 3 strikes, the person would be kicked. This rule worked amazingly well for about a year. But then the Vade fiasco hit, and it seemed that no matter what I tried to say or tell people from posting or doing, I wasn't being listened to. Now what I should have done, was sit Volts down and stop the Vade-Volts fight in its tracks. What I did do, was absolutely nothing and let Volts drag on the drama until late March of 2015.

A few members came to me, complaining of Volts' behavior, who was told to not bring up Vade in that group under any circumstances. We understood Vade is an awful human being who milked the suicide of a loved one for their personal gain. We got that. What we DIDN'T want, was Volts constantly making fake "tucute" blogs to follow and stalk Vade. This moron even let things get so bad that they added someone who claimed to be a victim of Vade's harassment into our group, who turned out to be Tankurin. And Tankurin at the time still spoke with Vade, and Volts was just too stupid to do a simple background check. All of Volts' plans to harrass Vade futher went straight out of our mouths and into Vade's ears, and when that happened, most of us decided to stop attacking Vade. We were done.

And that's where the story should have ended, right? Well shit. Our little prank got uncovered before his happened, shit happens. But Volts, of course, of course, still has to continue to talk to Vade or follow her on fake blogs. All of those blogs got debunked by Vade, by the way. It got to the point that Vade began to sort of destroy Volts' and my relationship.

Of course though, Volts would continue to cry on mic so I wouldn't be able to tune them out unless if I muted Skype. So after that, being told that I should be defending her from Vade, I began to go after people in the group who'd insist that we needed to leave Vade the fuck alone, because Vade was "hurting my precious little baby". I shouldn't have. I should have just kicked Volts out.

---

Final Straw
The final straw with me was that when Volts went off to college, it gave me some alone time (finally!). I would draw for hours, just sort of reflecting on things, and it dawned on me just what had happened. I had turned on people I knew for years just because some person I fell for had a personal problem with them. Volts had changed a lot in college, and I don't know why. The otherkin thing came up more and more often. Volts eventually came to the conclusion as a supposed transman, that all transwomen were shit and needed to step aside so that transmen could be appreciated more by society. I only slightly understood this revelation, being an actual transman myself. I'm told constantly on tumblr about how I'm oppressing women by deciding to be man. I would love for these people to step aside and let me be who I want to but that's not going to make me say that transwomen are awful people. Because they aren't. They're in the same boat as me. They also began to grow more and more irritated at Christians and God, saying that God was an awful being for not stopping what happened to them and that all Christians were bigoted and hateful. It grew tiring, fast.

But being the absolute tool I am, I would pretend to agree. This would just fuel more and more "anti-SJW" behavior in them, which eventually just kinda went so politically right-wing that it looped around and became extremely left-wing, which is why this thread is here now.

Volts eventually went off on @Spartykins for a multitude of reasons. One of them was that Sparty felt Volts needed professional help and needed to leave the house they were in. All of us except Volts thought that. On top of that, Sparty is a Christian (a very casual one), but that still angered Volts that Sparty was following a "corrupted and completely evil" religion. I, of course, was pulled into this drama by Volts, telling me to leave Sparty because he's a Christian who thinks Volts needs help. I refused to leave Sparty because he's been my friend for 3 years and counting. I trust the guy, and the way Volts was making him out was not the truth. They were trying to play Sparty off as this guy out to get Volts locked up in a mental asylum, and maybe that'd be for the best at this point. Either way, I was done. I decided to tell Volts to back off and not talk to me about the drama anymore. I'll attach logs of what ensued after that.

After 3 days of pleading them to leave me alone constantly, I broke up with them. I screamed at them about how they'd torn me away from all my friends, how everyone had left because of her. She was turning me on other people for years and I was through. They tried to keep me there by begging continuously for one more chance, to which I argued I gave them 3 entire days of chances when they kept talking to me after I told them to give me space. They chose to end the conversation with "I love you" as one last attempt to get me back. It just drove home what they'd been doing. They'd been trying to isolate me from everyone, and the reason why is still unknown to me this day. Maybe it's from what happened to them, who knows. Maybe they're just a sociopath. Maybe it's borderline. Maybe it's not a disorder at all and I literally dated an asshole for 3 years.

Volts insisted that they wanted to leave me alone and they wished me the best of luck. It was probably to make me apologize for what I had done. They also kept telling their followers "He still loves me. It was just a break, or I'm gonna break." I think I have a cap for that. If so I'll attach that as well. But I publicly said I no longer loved Volts. I was angry at them, I was repulsed at the thought of even dating them anymore, especially once as it became clear to me Volts was using me to attack others. Of course, I was a fucking idiot for stating that! It was like I awakened some Cthulhu-like creature inside of them. They began to vague post a lot about me, calling me "abusive" and "awful" and accusing me of sending death threats to them even though the thought of contacting them just outright sickened me. It's like they forgot I have friends who didn't like what they did. Even though Volts isn't popular in any fandom, no matter how many they try to pander to, I had to defend my reputation. As it is anywhere on Tumblr, it's easy to get shunned with one little lie, ESPECIALLY if you're a white straight man. It's VERY easy to chalk up a straight white male on Tumblr as an abuser because we're the reason that genocide happened, all of us of course. And their lies did work on a few people, the cycle will continue.

Luckily it seems to be that most people are taking my side on the story, that Volts is trying to knock me down because I left them and they want revenge. Anyone can see that, it's real fucking easy. But they're taking it out of control, obviously. That's why we're all here.

They've ruined their life in the process, though. They almost failed multiple courses in college, not because they struggled with the subject, but because they just outright refused to go to class. They refuse to get a starter job like in retail or something, which would be a lost cause now if this stalking case goes on their record. Hell, the only job they COULD get then would be a place that can't afford to do a background check, and that would be minimum wage-paying jobs. So I'm just sitting here, hoping that they get a felony for stalking on their record. Maybe they'll learn something. Shame it has to be the hard way.

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So there's the details of what went down. There's other, smaller events that came up during our relationship but those 3 were the main ones.

Damn, dude. That's awful. Abusive relationships can be fucking impossible to get out of sometimes. Glad you made it out, and I hope you never go back to it.

The STR8 H8 is hilarious. I almost laughed out loud when I read that. It fills in a nice piece of the puzzle as to why they were so jumpy to claim to be trans.

You consider yourself, rightfully, a straight male, which differentiates you from 99.9999% of Tumblr (kudos for not being some kind of demiboy polyqueer assclown). And if Volts wanted to not be transphobic, she would have to admit to being in a straight relationship. She was willing to pretend to be a trans guy just to keep those gay oppression points.

I just can't believe she's keeping the act going now that you guys are split.

 

[Bork Laser]

https://kiwifarms.net/attachments/told-yall-png.34173/

@Holden

Yes/No? As proven by this thread she's single and ready to mingle.

 

[JEMcG]

Nope, Tanku's still on Tumblr, is now fictionkin with Hiro from Big Hero 6 and is casually talking about suicide to visit her fictional brother in another universe... I mean, get buttpats.

Tanku just keeps falling off the wagon. It's like trying to rehabilitate a crack addict. You pour your heart out to them and they act like they care about you back until they need more crack and they break into your house to steal your TV so they can pawn it off for more crack.

Apparently Tanku and Volts are still in contact, though.

Awww look at that, the bitch still thinks I'm harassing mentally ill folks... Ain't that ADORABLE?!
(haven't been active here in some time. missed out on a bunch of shit and yet I'm still villain enough to mention )

People go down the gutter pretty quickly, don't they?

 

[fishercat]

Wow... I can't believe we all used to support Volts. I mean, we had no way of knowing, but still this is so fucked up.

 

[Meowthkip]

Damn, dude. That's awful. Abusive relationships can be fucking impossible to get out of sometimes. Glad you made it out, and I hope you never go back to it.

The STR8 H8 is hilarious. I almost laughed out loud when I read that. It fills in a nice piece of the puzzle as to why they were so jumpy to claim to be trans.

You consider yourself, rightfully, a straight male, which differentiates you from 99.9999% of Tumblr (kudos for not being some kind of demiboy polyqueer assclown). And if Volts wanted to not be transphobic, she would have to admit to being in a straight relationship. She was willing to pretend to be a trans guy just to keep those gay oppression points.

I just can't believe she's keeping the act going now that you guys are split.

I guess for her it's like "shit, I already told a bunch of people I'm actually a dude on the inside, if I don't keep it up, they'll know I'm a big liar!"

Which is ironic because it only cements the fact that she's a big liar because she keeps covering up the lies with more lies.

 

[Rin]

https://kiwifarms.net/attachments/told-yall-png.34173/

@Holden

Yes/No? As proven by this thread she's single and ready to mingle.

He confessed to being willing to go for one of the Slaton sisters. I don't think Holden understands the meaning of the word "standards."

 

[Meowthkip]

He confessed to being willing to go for one of the Slaton sisters. I don't think Holden understands the meaning of the word "standards."

Holden doesn't understand the meaning of a lot of words.

 

[figpan]

heres another question, Volts mentions being poly and having partners? Does this mean she had another partner in addition to Dex?

 

[DN 420]

heres another question, Volts mentions being poly and having partners? Does this mean she had another partner in addition to Dex?

it means she tried hard to be a slut and failed.

 

[JEMcG]

The link to her current tumblr is dead btw. So she must've renamed, or moved blogs.