Tips and tricks for training your manservant - Men are dogs jaaaaaaaaaaa

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Some queen figured out her bf is like dog and decided to use some dog training tricks on him and apparently they worked .

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What are your tips and tricks to train your manservant girlies?
 
Honka Honka Burning Love dijo:
>Guys like Free Food and Dessert
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it's only free if you're a good little human! incels and rapeapes get NO treats! 😦 oh my gosh! no treats?! men better be good if they want treat! good moid get treat! 🤗
Justa Grata Honoria dijo:
Some queen figured out her bf is like dog and decided to use some dog training tricks on him and apparently they worked .
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more women need to be doing this. if they want to be disgusting animals with no self-control they need to be wrangled as such.
 
I did a background check on my bf and I randomly drop details he hasn't told me to make him think I'm psychic and we have a deeper connection. Also try "coincidentally" running into them they love this and will think you're always watching so they can't act up.
 
I mean I guess if you want to call being observant and empathetic to your date's emotional and mental state 'training them like a dog' go for it but apart from the language used to describe what she's doing it sounds like she's just trying to be helpful and supportive.
 
Huh, I think my husband has been doing this with me. When I act out, he offers food or asks me if talking a walk will help
calm me down. If I continue snapping at him and frothing at the mouth, he suggests I go to the room to read and have some alone time.

These techniques work on women too.
 
Woman finds out that men responds to food and treats. Fascinating.

And yes, it's literally that easy.
 
I started writing an essay that kinda went on about modern dating but I feel like that's out of scope so I'll just drop some bullet points from my personal endeavors. Honestly, training people is a lot like training children, but each sex has different approaches because of socialization.
  • Immediately correct actions that you do not like. Men are afraid of women laughing or looking at them grossly, so if a man does something you don't like, make a face and say "ew that's so gross". Be quick with it; don't think and just do it. If he pushes back, keep doing it and explain why it's gross. If he digs his heels, say "I dont care, people who do x are gross and I told you why" and end the conversation. This is more effective if there's another woman with you that agrees with you. I've trained a couple male roommates into doing chores by mutually shaming the bad behavior with other female roommates.
  • Timeouts work. Unlike children, you won't be able to physically put a grown man in timeout. But you can time him out from your life. If he keeps acting up, reduce contact and grey rock. And explain why you are doing it. Say "im not engaging with you because you do x when I asked you not to". This tip is more for men who you can't just cut out easily like a family member, coworker, or roommate. If I feel like I have to time out a man I'm seeing I'm going to break up with him instead.
  • Disappointment is more impactful than anger. This can vary depending on the person but I've found that acting sad gets a man to act right faster than getting wound up.
  • Reward good behavior on a sliding scale. Bonus points is the reward is something new. A guy I'm currently seeing likes to do whatever I want to make me happy. I asked him to wash my sheets while I went to run an errand. While I was out I had gone overtime, and I decided to take a gamble. I bought interesting pastries that I know he'll like as a reward depending on what he did. If he did just as I'd ask, I'll give him a thank you and and a kiss. Id say the pastries are for a friend who asked me to pick it up for her. If he did more than I asked, then I'd give him the pastries as a reward. When I came back I saw that he did the laundry, then did the dishes, swept, cleaned and organized the kitchen. Because he went above and beyond, he got a bigger reward.
  • If a guy is into you and you are too, don't have sex (oral, vaginal) until month 2-3. The trads are kinda right here. String him along a bit. Set the precedent that to get closer he has to behave. Sex is the biggest motivator for a lot of men and if you introduce sex too soon you have played your trump card too early. This depends on how hard of a coomer he is as if he jerks off or is a manwhore it's probably not going to work. However if he's a coomer you don't want to date him.
I've also found that its easier to mulligan into a new man than train one you've been dating for a year, because with the latter it's harder to break the relationships precedent that has been set from time together.
People are books, then puzzles, and then pawns. Learn how to read them, then solve them, and then use them.
 
This works for either sex, but if you're trying to get someone to do something they don't do normally, gaslighting works very well. My dad and I used to do this with my mother, where we would bring her on a hike, then when she started complaining we'd tell her she's "Almost there, just around the corner.". By the end we managed to push her way past what she thought was her limit.

Basically hiding the amount of actual work, while encouraging them by telling them they're almost done.
 
1440p Curved Monitor dijo:
Reward good behavior on a sliding scale. Bonus points is the reward is something new. A guy I'm currently seeing likes to do whatever I want to make me happy. I asked him to wash my sheets while I went to run an errand. While I was out I had gone overtime, and I decided to take a gamble. I bought interesting pastries that I know he'll like as a reward depending on what he did. If he did just as I'd ask, I'll give him a thank you and and a kiss. Id say the pastries are for a friend who asked me to pick it up for her. If he did more than I asked, then I'd give him the pastries as a reward. When I came back I saw that he did the laundry, then did the dishes, swept, cleaned and organized the kitchen. Because he went above and beyond, he got a bigger reward.
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No reward/a small reward every time with a bigger reward occasionally for the same behavior is a very effective tool for children's behavior but it works on moids too. If they know they'll get the big reward every time they do x, they stop thinking of new ways to impress you. Whereas if it's occasional they'll keep going above and beyond to try to get that reward again.
 
If this is "training a man like a dog" then woof woof.

This woman is learning her man and then doing nice things for him based on what she learned.
That's called being a good partner.
That's what I always do when I have a GF, that's what you're supposed to do.
 
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If this is "training a man like a dog" then woof woof.

This woman is learning her man and then doing nice things for him based on what she learned.
That's called being a good partner.
That's what I always do when I have a GF, that's what you're supposed to do.
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It's weird that the lady in OP is framing it like training a dog, that could be considered dehumanizing, but the behaviour itself isn't bad. So she gives her boyfriend a treat to try and cheer him up, so what? My wife gets me ice cream when I have a bad day. Does that make me a dog? Maybe, but I'm a happy dog with ice cream.
 
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