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You forgot Bob, or as he is also known too good to live.Rewatching from season 1 and noticed something.
Literally all of the father figures in the show are either awful, abusive, absent or apathetic.
Like, ALL of them.
Ever notice that?
The only nice and caring father figure who seemed genuinely good was killed off.
- Mike and Nancy: apathetic schlub who doesn't notice anything and is asleep standing up.
- Dustin: absent.
- Will and Jonathan: absent and awful (maybe abusive).
- Lucas: apathetic; the only scene I remember of him he's more interested in the newspaper than the big questions his son is asking.
- Max and Billy: abusive
- Eleven: well, that one's easy. But when Hopper comes in, he's awful (yelling, too strict, controlling etc...).
This kind of bugs me.
Hopper is a tricky one. As you say he is controlling and strict but that's kind of understandable since in Season 2 that was the best he could do to protect Eleven. It was not great but for a small town sheriff with limited influence vs. the US government and far more shady sorts he did the best he could.
Season 3 is more awkward because it's less about the wider forces and more about setting boundaries. Hopper cannot control Eleven the way most parents can their children because she has super powers. So when he imposes rules about behaviour around her boyfriend like most parents do Eleven can ignore those because she could crush him like a beer can and she does ignore those rules. I don't think the way he reacts is meant to be seen as good or appropriate but it's also relatable. He can't force her to obey his rules so he forces her boyfriend to instead.
It's fair to say he handled it wrong. But I think that's part of the point, he handled it in a manner that led to conflict but he did not have alternative ways to deal with a child with abilities that completely shatter the power dynamic. It's sort of realistic and fits with the story being told.