I swear, women, especially SSA women, seriously need to hate SSA men more.
I’ve just recently had a very weird experience on lolcow.farm (yes, I know I talked shit about it in the past, I am still guilty of going on there sometimes) where there was some arguing or whatever going on over gay moids in a thread and quite a few nonnas on there were very on the defense about them, the whataboutism with straight men, and how apparently disliking gay men and thinking that they’re gross is on par with being lesbophobic. Yes, I am serious. Also that “reeing about the gays”, as one person put it, is apparently only a “OSA thing”.
I cannot tell if these are just trolls, gay moids themselves, or actual lesbians and feminists, but this whole defending gay men only because they’re gay shit is truly getting annoying and exhausting, and I’m sorry to say this but even especially so when it comes from women and feminists. It honestly reeks of handmaidenry, it’s literally not that much different from being a handmaiden for troons, except it’s faghags this time. Also why does it seem like it’s often lesbians? I know it might be because they share same sex attraction and thus express allyship over it, but that’s literally only it, gay men and lesbians are pretty damn different otherwise and often express their sexuality differently, only an uneducated retard would think “they’re actually completely the same!” when the real life evidence against it is abundant and so obvious. You do not see lesbians having sex with random women in park or gas station restrooms and contracting STDs like they’re being given out as free candy. You do not see lesbians having sex with hundreds of other women every week. And not to mention the absolute sheer amount of misogyny that is extremely common and prevalent among fags as well as lesbophobia. I came across a screenshot someone posted of a news article which was about a gay male couple that murdered and dismembered a lesbian. Also wasn’t there conflict and a lot of tension going on between lesbians and gay men back in like the 70s or something concerning women’s issues?
I think even homophobia is expressed differently when it comes to gay men and lesbians. People are often homophobic towards gay men because they find them gross, immoral, and sexually degenerate. Homophobia towards lesbians could come from those reasons too, but I think it more often gets expressed as a violation of expectations for women, that it’s just a phase and something they’ll eventually grow out of, that it’s not even real because a penis isn’t involved, and that women should just “naturally” be with men. Nobody is hating lesbians because they are spreading diseases in society or grooming/raping kids.
I hate to imagine what her less loyal and less marriage-minded guy friends are like.