I didn't get "triggered" at the girl power scene in Endgame ... It came across as a curtain call to the badass women in the MCU before Captain Marvel, which I'm fine with (mostly). However ... The scene doesn't completely work because Black Widow isn't there for that curtain call.
Apparently on the day of filming that girl power scene, RDJ hosted a "MCU Women's Luncheon," where all the ladies had a fun lunch together. Everyone was there except for ScarJo because she wasn't there filming on that day (obviously). Pretty damn insulting to celebrate the women in the MCU without Black Widow, I say!
Now, I don't mind Black Widow dying in Endgame. She went out like a goddamn hero. However ... The scene itself doesn't completely work for me because they essentially re-created Gamora's death scene in Infinity War. They even had the same damn music playing. The execution felt "off" because Gamora's death and Natasha's death are two ENTIRELY DIFFERENT situations. Nat at least needed her own music for her death, for god's sake. ScarJo's acting in that scene was fantastic, though (she was great in ALL of Endgame, for that matter).
I know that some fangirls have bitched and moaned about how Tony's death wasn't satisfying because "he needed a happy ending where he retires!" Yeah, no. Tony's arc was fucking perfect, in my eyes. Black Widow's death is the one that left me not completely satisfied. And I am completely in agreement that a Black Widow movie should have happened before Infinity War.
Still love Endgame as a whole, and I still maintain that the highs of that movie greatly outweigh the lows of the movie. I certainly have my nitpicks about it though. And I feel like Black Widow has gotten the short end of the stick compared to the original six Avengers in the MCU, even Hawkeye.