Everything coming to light lately about grooming and EPI has totally recontextualized my interactions with Person of Gender autists I've known. They get mad when you tell them you don't want to hear about their sex lives or masturbation habits because they want to normalize you thinking about them in a sexual situation, they get off on making you uncomfortable, or both. Needed a shower anyway.
The former friend I keep complaining about left all our shared group texts, discords, etc., and he's now posting on Reddit about how his ex "abused and betrayed" him. With the amount of oversharing he's done, I'm almost totally sure that this betrayal he keeps referring to is her finding someone quicker. What a surprise that the person in that relationship who wasn't a big fat balding fuck with no dreams or goals, who can't go an hour without whining about his exes, has an easier time finding companionship!