Ladies Gym Thread - Don't skip arm days.

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I'm just getting back to the point where I'm able to exercise again, and I can't really push myself but I do what I can. For cardio, I find time during walking my dog to do quick cardio sessions; running up hills (GET OUT OF MY HEAD KATE BUSh), up and down steps, jogging. For my arms I do push ups, reverse push ups and roll outs with an ab wheel. I love to swim laps but unfortunately it pushes my body too far. I really work on my core strength because it's important.
 
Do any of you use ClassPass or OnePass? Are they worth it?
I do not, and I have not, but a friend of mine who has says it's only worth it to learn what you like. Once you have a preference, you don't need to keep it, and should just focus on the things you like and try to get a better deal that way.
 
I would like to get my strength back. I’m middle aged, and I’ve lost loads of my strength and I want it back. Goal: become a little stronger and more toned, age gracefully.
Anyone advise me on a beginner at home workout, and what I’d need? I have some dumbbells but kettlebells look fun.
Complicating factors: I am small, middle aged and have dodgy joints, and my hips are borked (I suspect I have diastasis still.) otherwise just where do I start with all this? I used to jus go round the weight machine circuit at the gym as a young ‘un but I need something I can do at home with minimal kit.
I did have a peek in the chaps thread but they’re all lifting stuff that’s 2/3x what I weigh so that’s a no go,
 
I would like to get my strength back. I’m middle aged, and I’ve lost loads of my strength and I want it back. Goal: become a little stronger and more toned, age gracefully.
Anyone advise me on a beginner at home workout, and what I’d need? I have some dumbbells but kettlebells look fun.
Complicating factors: I am small, middle aged and have dodgy joints, and my hips are borked (I suspect I have diastasis still.) otherwise just where do I start with all this? I used to jus go round the weight machine circuit at the gym as a young ‘un but I need something I can do at home with minimal kit.
I did have a peek in the chaps thread but they’re all lifting stuff that’s 2/3x what I weigh so that’s a no go,
Stability and core strength! Start there!
Focus on flexibility and strength in the bendy bits: wrists, shoulders, knees, and hips with body weight.
Core: Abdomen, back, and posterior chain.

Even very basic things like dropping a cloth on the floor and then picking it up with your toes and handing it to your hand can help you work on balance. Tai Chi (you can find beginner routines on youtube) is also good because it helps you identify where you have unknown weaknesses.
 
I did have a peek in the chaps thread but they’re all lifting stuff that’s 2/3x what I weigh so that’s a no go,
You can still do the same lifts as them, just using bodyweight or the dumbbells you already own instead of their bigass barbells. My lifting routine includes the "big four" compound lifts (deadlift, bench press*, squat, overhead press) all done with dumbbells, plus some extra exercises for muscles I want to target specifically.

I would also suggest doing more reps, less sets than what the 20-year-old men are doing. Like 3 sets of 8-10 reps or 8-12 reps. Feel free to start with just bodyweight and do a progressive overload from there. I don't think anything HIIT (high intensity interval training) like the kids do is going to be helpful, you're looking for long slow lifts to help with muscle and bone density while minimizing risk of injury.

ChatGPT or other LLMs are actually pretty great at designing lifting routines, the lifting autists must have fed them a ton of data. Another option is to search for "X minute beginner lifting/bodyweight routine" on youtube and you'll have someone to walk you through all the lifts in real time.

*Actually floor press instead of bench press because it's recommended for people prone to shoulder injury
 
How do you girls deal with exercising when you are dead during your period? I don't mean in the physical sense, more in the mental sense: tired beyond belief, brain fog, feeling like absolute garbage, not wanting to deal with constantly rearranging your pad etc. Thankfully I don't often skip training because of my period but when I do I feel terribly guilty about it. Should I just rest or should I just find a way to push through it?

Also I'm absolutely SHIT at push-ups, like I can barely do one, even if I try to do them on my knees, hands outwards etc. Anyone else had this problem? Do you recommend any particular exercise?
 
How do you girls deal with exercising when you are dead during your period? I don't mean in the physical sense, more in the mental sense: tired beyond belief, brain fog, feeling like absolute garbage, not wanting to deal with constantly rearranging your pad etc. Thankfully I don't often skip training because of my period but when I do I feel terribly guilty about it. Should I just rest or should I just find a way to push through it?
Are you on hormonal birth control? If not, start phase-hacking.
Don't "Push through" and try to do the same routine as always. Flip it around and use different times of the month for different activities.
e.g. During your period, you're more likely to get things like ACL tears, but the tradeoff is that you're more stretchy. So I use period days for LISS + intense stretching, dead hangs, etc.

Also I'm absolutely SHIT at push-ups, like I can barely do one, even if I try to do them on my knees, hands outwards etc. Anyone else had this problem? Do you recommend any particular exercise?
What angle are you pushing at and what is your goal in doing push-ups?
I ask the first because how wide your shoulders are and the length of your arms affects what "proper form" is for your body.


The second is because push-ups are a good "general" exercise, sure, but they aren't always the best for targeting specific muscle groups or for functional fitness.

 
Are you on hormonal birth control?
I am on birth control yeah, I take the pill. I also don't go to the gym, I do pilates + krav maga + walk as much as I can (unfortunately very little these last few months because life gets in the way).
As an aside, the last few months it's not even the period itself the issue, it's the PMS that I struggle with mentally.

What is your goal in doing push-ups?
The goal is simply I want to be able to do them lol. I think my main issue is that I have weak arms, chest and shoulders, I want to focus on them more and I thought push-ups are a good "simple" way to do that. Turns out I'm shit at them and I get frustrated when I don't see the results I want.

Most of the times I do the hands out variation like in the second video you posted and it does help a little. The third video seems very helpful so I think I'll try those exercises.
 
Do any of you use ClassPass or OnePass? Are they worth it?
With my insurance, Onepass costs more than my PF membership so it’s not worth it for me. I have heard other people who have different insurance companies that find it to be cost effective.

Also I just want to rant that every time I start making real progress in the gym, I wind up getting sick or injured and can’t work out for a week to ten days. Got up to 290 on standing calf extensions, 200 on leg press…got a horrible bug and had to take ten days off, can’t seem to catch up 😭
 
Anyone advise me on a beginner at home workout, and what I’d need?
Look up workouts on YouTube and try everything and commit to something you think is fun.

Yoga might be your jam. Mobility, maybe, probably not plyometrics, maybe kickboxing.

I do Olympic Weightlifting, but I have a cable resistance machine (think Tonal but not wall-mounted), because the weight is not only adjustable, but it has safety features to make sure I don't hurt myself.
 
Don't know if I should start a meal prep/meal plan thread but I wanted to know if anyone here has tips. About a month ago I chatted with this girl that was talking about how she couldn't exercise too much out of fear of ending looking like a guy (read, train like a guy and end up looking like a guy) and it did tilt me a little tbh.

I encountered a chanko nabe recipe I want to try and modified it because it was too lean for the goals of my experiment (granted, the recipe was to reduce body fat on guys but I liked the philosophy behind it). My goal is cut, not hyper lean, no bluff and still readable as feminine. Trying to cover through diet having to go for those beauty oriented protein blends that compromise density. Would appreciate any suggestions or comments.
 
Don't know if I should start a meal prep/meal plan thread but I wanted to know if anyone here has tips. About a month ago I chatted with this girl that was talking about how she couldn't exercise too much out of fear of ending looking like a guy (read, train like a guy and end up looking like a guy) and it did tilt me a little tbh.
I've noticed a lot of women have this weird idea that they could "get too big", but it's harder for us to build muscle than men, so it's a bizarre concern.


I encountered a chanko nabe recipe I want to try and modified it because it was too lean for the goals of my experiment (granted, the recipe was to reduce body fat on guys but I liked the philosophy behind it). My goal is cut, not hyper lean, no bluff and still readable as feminine. Trying to cover through diet having to go for those beauty oriented protein blends that compromise density. Would appreciate any suggestions or comments.
When you say "No bluff" do you mean not buff, no visible muscle?
 
I've noticed a lot of women have this weird idea that they could "get too big", but it's harder for us to build muscle than men, so it's a bizarre concern.
It is but I think that it is only a problem if you train upper body too much and you go at it like a gym bro would. Most of dem muscle mommies are clearly on PEDs or are legit built like dudes.

When you say "No bluff" do you mean not buff, no visible muscle?
Should've been more specific. I meant it as in not using creatine or trying to go big for bigness sake. I'm all for visible muscle and to be more specific on my body goal is clear muscle, physically and mentally strong but without trying to antagonise the fat per se. Know too many people that practically snort that shit.
 
Should've been more specific. I meant it as in not using creatine or trying to go big for bigness sake. I'm all for visible muscle and to be more specific on my body goal is clear muscle, physically and mentally strong but without trying to antagonise the fat per se. Know too many people that practically snort that shit.
That makes more sense. Like, below the level of Pudgy Stockton, right?
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What's your base activity level in a day?
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I chatted with this girl that was talking about how she couldn't exercise too much out of fear of ending looking like a guy
The only way that will ever happen is if she started taking steroids (and you end up looking more like a tranny than a man, tbh)
My goal is cut, not hyper lean, no bluff and still readable as feminine.
Focus on meats and vegetables, some carb, but not too much, like rice, and good fats like olive oil and butter, but just watch how much because fats are still high in calories, but fats are good for hormones and brain function. I'll add low calorie volume foods to my meals, like mixing cauliflower rice and rice, or adding lettuce, because then I can add a bit more meat for the extra protein intake. I'll also mix Plain Greek yogurt and Oikos protein yogurt (I like the vanilla flavor) and add some type of fruit like blueberries for breakfast or as a snack/dessert. I also weigh everything with a food scale in grams and log it in my food app, honestly has help tremendously in losing weight.
 
How do you girls deal with exercising when you are dead during your period? I don't mean in the physical sense, more in the mental sense: tired beyond belief, brain fog, feeling like absolute garbage, not wanting to deal with constantly rearranging your pad etc. Thankfully I don't often skip training because of my period but when I do I feel terribly guilty about it. Should I just rest or should I just find a way to push through it?

Could you arrange rest days for the first couple days of your period?

If it makes you that ill your body is already dealing with a lot. I personally would not push through it.
 
That makes more sense. Like, below the level of Pudgy Stockton, right?
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Pretty much goals.

What's your base activity level in a day?
Morning's home office but otherwise I'm very active. Home gym cuz poor but I've a gameplan when I can get back to using machines. Good stamina. I've been running at a caloric deficit that I want to solve hyper efficiently with the chanko nabe as my main dish.
 
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