UK In London's pubs, love gets a PowerPoint makeover - Rather than swiping on apps, zoomers are getting their friends to do a PowerPoint presentation on why you should date them, essentially recreating the quaint tradition of "meeting someone through friends". Also they're doing it in quite a good pub

Fed up of swiping left or right on dating apps, young London singles are returning to a classic British way of meeting people - the pub - with a modern twist: a ‌PowerPoint presentation by a close friend pitching them as dating material.

Putting together a slide deck is second nature for many younger millennials and older Gen Zers. Now, they're using that skill to enhance their mates' love lives, just as dating apps are losing their appeal. "I hate the swiping," said Annie, 27, adding she was keen to see if her friend's two-minute pitch at a 'Date my Mate' event could land her a boyfriend--or at least ⁠a first date.
Organisers said all 150 tickets for the event, held at a north London pub, were sold in less than five minutes. And they're planning to roll out more, aiming for one a week across the country.

DATING APPS LOSE SHINE​

Dating apps are fading in popularity in the UK, with usage across the 10 biggest platforms falling 16% between 2023 and 2024, according to Global Dating Insights. Polling shows nearly half of users have had negative experiences on apps like Tinder and Hinge.

At the event, friends crowded around tables with glasses of wine, wearing "Date" or "Mate" stickers, as presenters clicked through slides of flattering holiday snaps and fun facts. "A bit more about Lauren. She's 30. She's a structural engineer, so even ‌though ⁠she will stop walls from falling down, she'll always be there to support you," said one friend.

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People react as they watch a presentation during “Date My Mate”, a live dating night where friends pitch their single friends, in north London, Britain, March 25, 2026.

"Interesting fact, she's just about to submit her sexy fantasy romance book to publishers."

Having seen similar events in Australia and the U.S. on social media, Emily Churchill, head of marketing at wine company Nice who helped arrange the event, said she knew she had to bring the concept to London. "It's ⁠just so much fun," she said, adding it gave coupled-up friends a way to help their single mates find love and escape "horrible dating stories."

'VINTAGE' WAY OF MEETING PEOPLE​

Those hunting for a match said it was easier for a friend to sell their best qualities--and ⁠poke fun at their flaws--with humour and honesty.

"It's quite retro. It's a vintage way of meeting people," said Jonny, 28, a journalist, joking about how he tried to steer his own presentation. His friend Patrick said the preparation involved "hundreds of photos ⁠over WhatsApp, hundreds, and him being incredibly specific about the ones that make him look good."

Laughing about whether the friendship would survive the pitch, Patrick said he was confident the slides were good enough to lead to a wedding some day.

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Obama phones. Not even once.
"Interesting Fact: She's OVULATING right NOW! *wink**wink**nudge**nudge*"

What happened to the vintage method of...just asking someone out in person? Is everyone so deathly afraid of rejection that they need the barrier of a screen to soften the blow nowadays?
Yes.
On the other hand, women\young ladies are on the edge finding a man. After being exposed to too much Lifetime movies ( yep, I've got a theme this month), I recommend keeping a bank account to just do background checks on dudes.
God forbid you're the gal that rejects a dude and he stalks, rapes, and kills you. Probably not in that exact order either. (A LA the pokemon center in japan.)
 
If the person doing the presentation (or, worse, the presentation subject) is a dullard, then it'll just be painful, but this seems like a good opportunity for people who have a lot going on for them to put themselves out there. I bet there'd be a lot of ribbing by the friend in most cases, and then that's a good test for if the presentation subject has a good sense of humor and can take being the butt of a joke.

Considering how dire things are out there, I can't see this as a bad thing (although it won't surprise me if it's short lived).
 
I'll give the brits credit, at least they're willing to do something about the loneliness epidemic on the way to birthrates, unlike Japan or South Korea.
 
In the vintage method of dating these women would all be considered old maids who had missed out on their chance.

This is just another way of women extracting effort and attention to themselves without having to put out.

Men figured out that they'll get nothing online and are just being used by bored women who need an ego boost. Now they need a new way to make men grovel for their amusement.

If they actually wanted to be with a man they would have no problem finding one. Online or by any other method.

Dating has become a hobby for them, rather than a means to an end.
 
This legitimately sounds like the sort of event the wern would show up to and inevitably get kicked out of and end up on the news for again
 
Well, at least they're trying, which is a lot more than can be said of most.
This is the sort of thing people do for a laugh.
Guy makes a presentation that makes the lads laugh, woman thought he was funny and decides to chat with him. She has an excuse of just being interested in the presentation if nothing happens. And if a woman takes it serious, but she seems cool to you, why wouldnt you hazard a try? She 1) signals shes okay to being approached, 2) already provided talking points. The first meeting is rarely glamourous but if it gets two people that match together talking it will work out.
 
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