UK In London's pubs, love gets a PowerPoint makeover - Rather than swiping on apps, zoomers are getting their friends to do a PowerPoint presentation on why you should date them, essentially recreating the quaint tradition of "meeting someone through friends". Also they're doing it in quite a good pub

Fed up of swiping left or right on dating apps, young London singles are returning to a classic British way of meeting people - the pub - with a modern twist: a ‌PowerPoint presentation by a close friend pitching them as dating material.

Putting together a slide deck is second nature for many younger millennials and older Gen Zers. Now, they're using that skill to enhance their mates' love lives, just as dating apps are losing their appeal. "I hate the swiping," said Annie, 27, adding she was keen to see if her friend's two-minute pitch at a 'Date my Mate' event could land her a boyfriend--or at least ⁠a first date.
Organisers said all 150 tickets for the event, held at a north London pub, were sold in less than five minutes. And they're planning to roll out more, aiming for one a week across the country.

DATING APPS LOSE SHINE​

Dating apps are fading in popularity in the UK, with usage across the 10 biggest platforms falling 16% between 2023 and 2024, according to Global Dating Insights. Polling shows nearly half of users have had negative experiences on apps like Tinder and Hinge.

At the event, friends crowded around tables with glasses of wine, wearing "Date" or "Mate" stickers, as presenters clicked through slides of flattering holiday snaps and fun facts. "A bit more about Lauren. She's 30. She's a structural engineer, so even ‌though ⁠she will stop walls from falling down, she'll always be there to support you," said one friend.

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People react as they watch a presentation during “Date My Mate”, a live dating night where friends pitch their single friends, in north London, Britain, March 25, 2026.

"Interesting fact, she's just about to submit her sexy fantasy romance book to publishers."

Having seen similar events in Australia and the U.S. on social media, Emily Churchill, head of marketing at wine company Nice who helped arrange the event, said she knew she had to bring the concept to London. "It's ⁠just so much fun," she said, adding it gave coupled-up friends a way to help their single mates find love and escape "horrible dating stories."

'VINTAGE' WAY OF MEETING PEOPLE​

Those hunting for a match said it was easier for a friend to sell their best qualities--and ⁠poke fun at their flaws--with humour and honesty.

"It's quite retro. It's a vintage way of meeting people," said Jonny, 28, a journalist, joking about how he tried to steer his own presentation. His friend Patrick said the preparation involved "hundreds of photos ⁠over WhatsApp, hundreds, and him being incredibly specific about the ones that make him look good."

Laughing about whether the friendship would survive the pitch, Patrick said he was confident the slides were good enough to lead to a wedding some day.

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"Buy our tickets!"
No, how about you buy an ad.

Probably the worst example these birds are giving was "Interesting fact, she's just about to submit her sexy fantasy romance book to publishers." This is not a selling point. Tell me when you've actually submitted it, or when you've gotten printed or how many publishers have actually shot you down. Would you accept a guy saying "I'm about to submit a job application"? No, you expect him to be already employed, and it has to be a good job. Holy fuck.
 

'VINTAGE' WAY OF MEETING PEOPLE​

Those hunting for a match said it was easier for a friend to sell their best qualities--and ⁠poke fun at their flaws--with humour and honesty.

"It's quite retro. It's a vintage way of meeting people," said Jonny, 28, a journalist, joking about how he tried to steer his own presentation. His friend Patrick said the preparation involved "hundreds of photos ⁠over WhatsApp, hundreds, and him being incredibly specific about the ones that make him look good."
Have these NPC's been so mindraped that they think going to a bar and..... meeting people is vintage? Also nothing says vintage like paying to go meet people lmfao.
 
This sounds like a thing that's fun if everyone in the crowd is someone you know, but a paid event in a crowd of strangers sounds like the same kind of public humiliation of the singles' nights discussed here a while ago.
Have these NPC's been so mindraped that they think going to a bar and..... meeting people is vintage? Also nothing says vintage like paying to go meet people lmfao.
It sort of is, bars and alcoholism aren't that popular among the youth any more (and they were never good places to meet lifelong partners at any point).
 
Have these NPC's been so mindraped that they think going to a bar and..... meeting people is vintage? Also nothing says vintage like paying to go meet people lmfao.
He's 28. This chart's for the US, but the point is for his entire adult life (and a good chunk of his older teenage years), meeting via an app was the main way people his age dated
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There was an article recently about that JFK Jr TV show that's caught on massively among Gen Z/Alpha - they're fixated on the world it shows before phones.
 
He's 28. This chart's for the US, but the point is for his entire adult life (and a good chunk of his older teenage years), meeting via an app was the main way people his age dated
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There was an article recently about that JFK Jr TV show that's caught on massively among Gen Z/Alpha - they're fixated on the world it shows before phones.
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Who could be responsible for these events?
 
I find dating apps deeply satanic, I remain a strong online personal communication and through friends guy even if it lessens my chances. This is kinda corny but fathomlessly better than exposing yourself to the flesh market.
Of course you know it's a british pub when every woman there has a fivehead.
Domestic abuse physiognomy. Irish Lassies have it even worse. I say this as a five header myself.
 
I find dating apps deeply satanic, I remain a strong online personal communication and through friends guy even if it lessens my chances. This is kinda corny but fathomlessly better than exposing yourself to the flesh market.
Dating is always a flesh market.
What makes apps evil is the same reason the global market is evil.
Before apps you only had to compete with the men or women in the vicinity of your would be paramour.
Apps makes every Joe schmoe and betty brown just attempt to seek the 10/10 way out of their league thst will at best scam them
 
Its going to end up like those singles events, only women attending
 
There's a video at the linked article. For those wondering "Lauren" is not a theoretical example.

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The cynic in me wants to mock but given it requires everyone there to be dated has a friend fond of them enough to do a pitch for them is a sign of the dateless not being complete nuts. Hope it works out for some people.
 
There's a video at the linked article. For those wondering "Lauren" is not a theoretical example.

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The cynic in me wants to mock but given it requires everyone there to be dated has a friend fond of them enough to do a pitch for them is a sign of the dateless not being complete nuts. Hope it works out for some people.
Uhhh they are white and living in London, they are apologists for their own rape and murder lol
 
"Interesting Fact: She's OVULATING right NOW! *wink**wink**nudge**nudge*"

What happened to the vintage method of...just asking someone out in person? Is everyone so deathly afraid of rejection that they need the barrier of a screen to soften the blow nowadays?
 
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