I started reading that Part 1 post, and then my brain started shutting off at all the self-pitying drivel, so I started skimming past it until it hits the note about SaltedXIV leaving a goddamned suicide note, downing an entire bottle of pills, and taking the police on a long-term, slow car chase while having a drug-addled phone call with her ex-boyfriend where she doesn't even remember most of the details that happened.
I have to say, the response she got from the Balance Discord seems more than fitting, as she posted here:
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Imagine fucking your entire life over with police fines and an indefinitely suspended driver's license just because of an MMO community and a relationship turned sour.
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Except the Discord logs she posted on her Twitter makes it sound more like a situation of dubious consent, not out and out rape. Plus, she did commit a couple of legitimate, actionable offenses what with her antics and got appropriately fined for them.
This is some real goofball shit right here. I mean, XIV's community is cancer and I've bitched about it plenty ITT myself, and someone like this is symptomatic of that cancer – not necessarily a victim of it.
EDIT: I'm reading a bit further and Part 2 is very easily chalked up to community-driven bullshit and nepotism, nothing really new in the XIV sphere. I will slightly fault her for being so driven to maintain some sort of passive-aggressive "professionalism" stance because that shit was never going to work once the bad blood was established and it was plain stupid of her to think otherwise, even if she claims to have had altruistic intentions. And I can guarantee you that once you have an entire group predisposed against you, even if you're completely justified in calling someone out on some blatant bullshit, that group will take it as their golden opportunity to bring the fucking hammer down on you like the wrath of Thor, if just because you've become the common denominator among more than one person as a cause of trouble. It's about having the wisdom to keep your peace and, maybe, to find greener pastures if you're finding that your contributions are being continually disregarded.
Part 3, though, I'm already taking heavy exception with because she out and out states she's operating with a chip on her shoulder about some perceived discrimination against her gender. Which, yes, does happen because some groups are leery and operate on the old adage that "women always ruin groups in MMOs", but she also goes on to describe a situation where she was discriminated against... By another woman. Which, yes, also happens, because, as I've noticed from my own playtime in XIV, a lot of women tend to be VERY tribalistic against each other once one of them has established their place in a group. It happened among my group of friends too. A lot of the issues she ran into with Heavensward raiding happened to me too, and I'm a guy. It tends to boil less down to sexism and more towards something like nepotism.
That, and it sure as shit didn't help things that she proved outspoken against the personal conduct, sense of humor, and "moralistic" dealings of the server. Levi sure likes to bitch up a storm about how she always has a target on her back and attributes it to sexism, but her testimony seriously gives the vibe that it's because she paints that target about as huge as she can make it on her own back. You tend to compound a problem of bias against yourself when you continue to start shit out of a misguided sense of defending yourself, and blaming it on "sexism" is just an easy way to avoid any self-reflection on your own actions, which is going to make itself manifest in how you conduct yourself going forward. There are times, unfortunately, when shutting up is the best move you can do, and it seems like she consistently failed to do that on account of that old "sexism" chip on her shoulder.