Do You Want Kids? - General "Have Kids!" Sperging Thread [for or against that sentiment]

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I’ve always known I’ve wanted kids. Ever since I was one myself. They are tiny little miracles. I often think about things I would do as a dad. Such as making spaghetti with untraditional pasta. Nothing gives me more hope for the future than those unaware of the evils of the world. It really shows how little power people truly have over your happiness. I have the overwhelming urge to protect them.
 
No, like my namesake, I absolutely refuse to reproduce, my bloodline will end with me. Also most women are feminist bitches that refuse to submit or disgusting whores that have been the cock carousel since high school.

>inb4 incel
Don't Care you stupid hags.
 
Shidoen dijo:
I really want to see and hope not that the mistakes my parents made aren’t hereditary.
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It is baffling to me how common this sentiment is. Half the people you talk to will say something along the lines of "I'm going to have kids and right all the wrongs that were done to me by my parents".

I just can't imagine giving a fuck. My parents weren't perfect, but any imperfections they had aren't changed in the slightest by how I treat my hypothetical children. It's gotta be the most popular and self-evident example of magical thinking out there.
 
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Matt Damon dijo:
It is baffling to me how common this sentiment is. Half the people you talk to will say something along the lines of "I'm going to have kids and right all the wrongs that were done to me by my parents".

I just can't imagine giving a fuck. My parents weren't perfect, but any imperfections they had aren't changed in the slightest by how I treat my hypothetical children. It's gotta be the most popular and self-evident example of magical thinking out there.
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Well it’s not like I don’t recognize the hood my parents did and of course they are t perfect. I’ve always just felt over-spoiled and never having to deal with consequences. At the very least they could’ve beaten me for the right reasons.
 
Paul Lives! dijo:
I find myself wanting kids very badly from time to time, for entirely monkey brained and selfish reasons. I love my wife very much, and having often kids just feels like the instinctual and natural thing to do to express that. I just feel like this fucked up world has very little to offer a child, though. Then again I think you have to be a bit selfish to have kids, and maybe that selfishness isn't such a bad thing.
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there is no shame in raising dragon slayers in a world where dragons exist. You're life is not your own but all that come before you. Even their mistakes culminate into the miracle of your existence. The strife the world places on your shoulders is unique in its strange pain, but you are not the first find new horrors of the world. It is simply your turn to face them. Continue the miracle.
 
Not even going to read the thread, going to PL and lay it all out because I feel like it. Female farmer here, just past child bearing age. Never wanted children. Never questioned if I wanted children. Tried to get tubal ligation in my 20's, but had my wishes denied by doctors. I also asked for an IUD. Also denied. I used various methods of birth control throughout my life. I eventually married a man who was controllling, abusive and lied to me and said that he was infertile. He demanded that I stop taking birth control. Of course I became pregnant. I aborted the pregnancy at 12 weeks. Do I feel guilty? Not in the slightest. I feel stupid because I knew deep down that it was one of his games. He was always aware that children were never part of my plans for my life. I'm angry that my choices as far as tubal ligation and IUD were not respected when I was young. I eventually did get my IUD, but not until after I had a stroke at 39. I was on hormonal birth control from 14 to 39. Go ahead and look up the blood clot risk for that shit.
I asked for an IUD or a tubal ligation at 20. And I was told no. Not until I had gotten older or gotten married or had children.
Because these procedures could make me infertile.
THAT WAS THE POINT.
Obviously the ex husband is long gone, so very gone. Happy child free lady with beloved nieces and nephews. Wee Charlotte was just born.
 
No. Don't want to pass on my inheritable health issues. Otherwise, for personal reasons, I'm aware I'd be unable to be a good parent. I am aware if all my paternal family with my last name dies of old age, I'd be the last. I am well aware my family name/line dies with me, but I'm okay with that.
 
CrippleThreat dijo:
The short of this: "You're likely to be a nothing, so why subject yourself to the function of reproduction in what is literally an actual irl lottery?"
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It strikes me as retarded to set the binary as “you have to be the greatest person in human history or your life is worthless”


You can still live a meaningful life without being a historical figure, that said not all lives are meaningful.
 
Deadwaste dijo:
too much doomer mindset going on here. you think the romans stopped having children when they thought the world they knew was ending?
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This nigger here knows what's up. When life throws lemons, make lemonade. When life throws steel bars at you, smelt them and rage against life itself. As long as God's got your back, nothing can stop you. Thankfully, He always has your back. It's just a matter of realizing it.
 
Corpun dijo:
Yes but I'm worried about the world they will grow into. Not the global warming dooming stuff, but the society they will be part of. You can't insulate kids forever from their surroundings.
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If you raise your children to be resilient, value themselves and recognise that their views might not always be popular but they can’t please everyone then that goes a long way towards insulating them even when you’re not around. I think a lot of people underestimate the importance of building appropriate self-esteem and resilience in young people.
 
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