Debate user The_Cowcel about incels.

We're never going to get better, are we. There's always going to be a new snake oil being hawked and people will always fall for it.
Probably not, really. There really isn't a good answer for mental illness. There isn't ever going to be a magic solution that works for a majority of people, and the years and years of pharmaceutical and illicit drug use that's proliferated among western populations has led to a large swath of people who are going to need some sort of serious intervention in order to integrate into society(or even be functional tugboaters that can like drive and take care of themselves and shit) - and that's not even touching on vaxx injuries and people who've just made themselves retarded with weed or alcohol.

Even anti-psychiatry is snake oil and leads to weird holistic pipelines propped up by hoteps and scientologists. Chemicals are going to work for some people, "just work out and go outside dude" is going to work for others, some will find solace in Christ or other (imo invalid) religions, and some are just straight fucked and need to be in a padded cell forever. It is what it is, Hell World shit. Our society created a bunch of non-functional freaks and it's going to be our problem for the next four decades. Thanks, Reagan and Obama!
 
Hey, following solid advice and making lifestyle changes to achieve your goals is HARD. You need something that is actually doable.

Have you considered getting castrated? Without your natural urge to mate and breed you’ll stop obsessing over getting laid and start enjoying the things in life you can actually obtain.

Long-Term Behavioral Changes (After 6–8 Weeks)
  • Less Spraying & Marking: Up to 90% of male cats stop or drastically reduce urine spraying in the house once testosterone leaves the body.
  • Decreased Roaming: The strong hormonal drive to search for a mate fades, making your cat much more content staying close to home.
  • Reduced Aggression: Hormone-driven aggression and territorial fighting—especially if other cats are present—typically diminish.
  • Calmer Demeanor: Many owners report their cat seems more relaxed and affectionate once they are no longer agitated by mating urges
There are probably natural remedies to lower your libido, and as a bonus you’ll stop pissing everywhere.
 
I think SSRI's suck and make you an emotionless raped husk fwiw but if you get a good shrink they aren't going to put you on them right out the gate
Imo SSRI's suck for most people cause most people don't rlly need them, they're more so for people who fail at functioning day to day repeatedly. I only stopped trying to kill myself when I got on them, GENUINE lifesavers. But someone who's a lot more stable and in reality than me probably doesn't need them. Like how someone who just has a broken leg doesn't need a full body cast, but full body casts aren't bad.

Also I guess I have to read this thread now.
 
Imo SSRI's suck for most people cause most people don't rlly need them, they're more so for people who fail at functioning day to day repeatedly. I only stopped trying to kill myself when I got on them, GENUINE lifesavers. But someone who's a lot more stable and in reality than me probably doesn't need them. Like how someone who just has a broken leg doesn't need a full body cast, but full body casts aren't bad.

Also I guess I have to read this thread now.
Sometimes depression can be caused by a different underlying issue too, like I was depressed because i was struggling with adhd executive dysfunction, so ssris didn't do much to help. Once I started on adhd meds, I was able to get my shit together and my depressive symptoms went away
 
Sometimes depression can be caused by a different underlying issue too, like I was depressed because i was struggling with adhd executive dysfunction, so ssris didn't do much to help. Once I started on adhd meds, I was able to get my shit together and my depressive symptoms went away
Sometimes people have to take medications because if they're off it, they're worse. I've said it before. Some people have no choice. For example, Bipolar, other serious mental illnesses like that where you can end up doing something dangerous because you end up on some manic high.

The point of antipsychotics is that it levels moods and lessens the chance of those problems.
 
I was homeschooled
I am shocked. What a twist.

Were you ever physically abused as a child? It would track with your issues.
Fair point. You'd think from 5 years on this site I'd know that autism, depending on variety, often contains an impenetrable, fixed stubbornness. But I have a non-autistic stubbornness that has a deep rose-colored tint.
Forsaken Wanderer still hasn't vacuumed his room.
The longer I stay on here, the more I realize that certain people here are way too autistic to the point that I wonder how they even function daily.
They don't. They just sit in their room reading Kiwi Farms and laughing at people even worse off than them.
 
He doesn't have to. He already won't breed.
Well that’s the problem innit. He’s evolutionarily programmed to want to breed, it’s encoded in his DNA. But being how he is, he will never satisfy that primal instinct and that makes him a whiny bitch.

Remove the urge to breed and bring harmony into your life mn. SSRI’s are great libido killers so that’s a great start.
 
putting young people on permanently-altering drugs is probably going to create a lifetime of mental illness, and in many cases the way to treat mental illness is more drugs.
"The opium trade produced a rationale for the Christian presence in China, turning the country into a depraved mass of opium sots to be disciplined and improved by salvation-hungry missionaries."

History repeats in a gayer and less justified way
 
Men without the ability to reproduce have no reason to contribute and every reason to burn down the world around us.
Maybe you are not mature enough for this yet.
Military recruitment and support for war would probably spike massively if they started promising war brides.
This is not the Middle East you islamic fag.
I don't see why people dismiss the importance of men having a reason to contribute instead of killing ourselves in suicidal attacks.
Maybe you should become someone before you can expect someone else to give you companionship.
Why contribute to a society that has denied us the ability to fulfil one of our most powerful biological desires?
Lmao nigga. Nobody is promised the prospect of breeding. Society also isn't responsible for you being an eunuch. Notice how you have no agency in this; society is supposed to give you a girlfriend, society is also responsible for denying you that. How about you rely on yourself to get what you want?
I'm only failing because society has removed all incentives that used to force women to settle. They have no financial need of men so they only chase the ones they find hot meanwhile average men like me are left slaving away our entire lives slaving away in vain in hopes of getting a crumb of pussy. Society is fucked and the denial of this problem will only make things worse.
Adapt and change then.
The only thing that will help OP is realizing the beautiful woman he is. @The_Cowcel ever watched silence of the lambs?
 
I remember when I was younger and dumber, I tried to start whining about something, and one kind soul laughed in my face and suggested "ending it all" so to say.
Everyone needs a friend in their lifes that can put a mirror to your dumb face and show you exactly how retarded you are.

But I am not an OP's friend. Everything is gonna be all right, dude.
 
Sometimes people have to take medications because if they're off it, they're worse. I've said it before. Some people have no choice. For example, Bipolar, other serious mental illnesses like that where you can end up doing something dangerous because you end up on some manic high.
This is why my unpopular opinion is that genuinely some of the anti-psych shit said on here is legitimately dangerous. Obviously it's fine to state your opinion, but I've definitely seen some farmers try to get other farmers off their meds. You don't know why someone is on them.
 
I'm only failing because society has removed all incentives that used to force women to settle. They have no financial need of men so they only chase the ones they find hot meanwhile average men like me are left slaving away our entire lives slaving away in vain in hopes of getting a crumb of pussy. Society is fucked and the denial of this problem will only make things worse.
Motherfucker it's THE WOMEN THAT HAVE CONDEMNED ME TO THIS FUCKING LIFE. NOTHING TO DO WITH FORUMS, I WAS LIKE THIS BEFORE THE FUCKING FORUMS. I NEED A WOMAN AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU ARE TERRORISTS FOR DENYING THAT TO MEN LIKE ME.
Alright, I'm gonna be honest, I fucking hate women. Not even in a self-hate way, cause I'm fine with myself being a woman, it's just that nearly all women I meet are genuinely evil. So maybe this thread isn't for me cause I've read too many of your comments and thought "True, based". But I can offer you this bit of advice;
You ARE on the right track that women suck, stay on that track. You don't need to date a woman, you don't need to fuck a woman, you don't need to hold a woman. Watch some "Boyfriend catches girlfriend cheating" compilations. women suck. Even when you're fucking them, women suck. Even when you're holding them, women suck. Even when you're dating them, women suck. You're acknowledging that lions are dangerous, whilst complaining about not being able to get locked in a cage with one. Nigga, you're free! The best thing a man can be nowadays is without a woman.

You're right that it wasn't meant to be this way, God did say that it was not good for man to be alone. But I feel like humans have to adapt when they're faced with a threat, that threat being assault, rape, and abuse (physical or emotional) from women. And that adaptation for many people is chastity, though for some people that's hard cause they keep falling back into dating. You're lucky, you've just always been away from that noise.

Don't spend your time trying to love a woman who (atp) fundamentally hates, fall in love with yourself. Life is literally so much more joyous when you forget about women and they become a secondary force in your life, focus on hobbies, focus on how you're feeling, focus on what you wanna do with yourself. DO NOT gym cope (Gym coping is men's version of women makeup coping. "I'm doing it for myself!" no you aren't lmao.). I can't even list it all cause there's literally so much you could do with your life, dude. The solution isn't to find a woman, it's to forget women and see yourself as the sexiest thing alive. I agree with the people telling you to log off, go live life with yourself as your spouse.
 
You ARE on the right track that women suck, stay on that track. You don't need to date a woman, you don't need to fuck a woman, you don't need to hold a woman. Watch some "Boyfriend catches girlfriend cheating" compilations. women suck. Even when you're fucking them, women suck. Even when you're holding them, women suck. Even when you're dating them, women suck.
What zero pussy does to a mf.

Women are amazing, don't be silly.
 
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