Realizing that most of my racism really stems from male behaviors that get enabled by cultures is the biggest red pill of them all.
that's more confirmation bias
the problems are unisex, and if we treat women as equal agents (as we should, not saying otherwise), the blunt truth is the third world *inferior, not equal* cultures that are NOT equal, that violate women and children, are supported by the women. the reality is 90% of say, jeet women aren't suffering and seeking any way out and desiring radical change, and crying into their pillows at night, they would watch a woman from another culture or even their own be abused or worse and they would accept it like just another tuesday or even smile at it.
muslim women would gladly burn heretical women alive alongside men. they also support it's perpetuation, because if their partner/husband jeet decided to "wake up" one day, suddenly want to actually be respectable, treat her and the kids super nicely, the vast majority of women would just consider him a pussy and/or leave. if the muslim man doesn't chuck gays off the roof and kick their heads in, he's an undesirable bitch who's also likely officially a heretic since the quran unironically says to beat your wife and is very literally supported by mohammad, who refused to say anything even when his wife begged him to step in when one of their neighbors' wives faces began to turn green.
you can make arguments that they were forced into it by men 1000s of years ago, but they've actively supported it for centuries. the race issues are also not just a gender issue, swimming in shit, eating said shit, and rinsing off said shit in a river, then drinking from said river is not a classical male behavior, and even if man has inherently bad qualities, men and women both are shown to be able to choose to or not to do them.
the biggest problem is having a flawed, but best available country for men and also women's/children's rights and free speech and debate leading to new ideas in a good culture, decide to get fucked up morals that are anti victim and actively allow and support the shittiest possible cultures coming in, with never a hope of assimilation, which if blackpilled will eventually lead to the ladder being pulled up after muslims run the ship and horrors being done to women and children that have been previously unknown to them due to the safety of not living in new iraq 2 or 3, and men and women both cry and vote for it anyway because a troon said you were evil unless you unanimously support (x), all the way til the troon is thrown off a roof.