🍗 Deathfat Anna o' Brien / Glitter + Lazers / GlitterandLazers - Fat, drunk, consoomer attention whore who would rather eat and drink herself to death than endure a single negative emotion

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OttoWest dijo:
Have we even seen dad or step mom this year? The last time she documented traveling to Ohio was in December of 2024. I wonder how Tom Sr. feels about the elective lipo arc.
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As far as I can remember, I don’t think we have. And tbh when she went to Chagrin Falls to visit the llama farm and whatever else, did we ever see Tom or was it just stepmom? I honestly don’t remember seeing him in anything since she took him to Buffalo Trace.

Honestly as much as I’m sure the surgery arc is disappointing, I think selling the Princess Castle was the biggest blow to their adult relationship. He worked with her on that to purchase the house under a trust, and those can be complex to open and difficult to close. I don’t know the details of their contracts and such, but if someone really needed my expertise on a topic (and one I love dearly, as I’m sure he does, she’ll always be his daughter), and I extended myself to help them with it, and then they let the project collapse, I’d limit my interactions with them in the future. Like if you have a friend who needs a job, and you tell your manager to hire them, and then they get fired for driving a company vehicle drunk off a bridge, you’re gonna be pissed and cut them off. If that person is a relative, you’ll find a way to make holidays and family gatherings work but you might not extend your help to them ever again.

I’m sure he hates to see his daughter’s destruction, but if he’s got any sense at all, he probably had to mentally write her off a long time ago, and I think that was when she sold the house. He has already lost his first wife and his eldest daughter, this man is no stranger to great loss, and maybe this time he has finally steeled his heart enough to withstand the rapidly approaching inevitable event.
 
No Thank You v 2.0 dijo:
I think selling the Princess Castle was the biggest blow to their adult relationship. He worked with her on that to purchase the house under a trust, and those can be complex to open and difficult to close. I don’t know the details of their contracts and such, but if someone really needed my expertise on a topic (and one I love dearly, as I’m sure he does, she’ll always be his daughter), and I extended myself to help them with it, and then they let the project collapse,
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How is buying a house and selling it for a profit “letting a project collapse?” That’s the entire point of buying a house.

Anna is a pig but these takes are starting to get Reddit-level ridiculous. Jon being employable, the sale of a tax loophole mcmansion in the suburbs being a great betrayal. I blame the slow demise of the ALR channel.
 
FarmVille dijo:
How is buying a house and selling it for a profit “letting a project collapse?” That’s the entire point of buying a house.
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Some people might think the point is to live in it for longer than a year or two barring a forced relocation for work, but I’m just a kiwi farmer.

I know this may seem like a long shot, but hear me out: Tom understands the value of space for the women he loves. Susan was cremated and her ashes were placed in a cremation bench. Kathryn was buried in a traditional casket and vault. Anna is still alive, and he helped her buy a house (I don’t mean to suggest financial help, I am willing to believe she bought it herself, I mean with the advice). Each of these expensive acquisitions of permanent places for his ladies has gotten bigger and taken up more space. It has never made sense to me why Susan was cremated and Katy was buried, but at the end of the day, Tom put his wife’s ashes in a permanent, dedicated place, and his dead daughter is taking up even more room. Anna had a nice big house and we have barely seen him since she sold it. I think he’s the kind of person to take a place personally.

I haven’t put a ton of thought into this before but I think Tom and Forever Boxes are a thing.

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Theyre in the same cemetery and in nearby lots but they’re not side-by-side.
 
I get what you're saying and I agree with you on some of that, but I think the decision to stay away is Anna's, not Papa Firetruck. If I had to guess what happened, when she went back to visit for the holidays a couple of years ago, they had attempted to have an intervention, or at least a serious discussion about her size and health, and possibly her extremely embarrassing (although lucrative), and temporary "career".

You might remember some super salty videos and posts about "toxic family" and avoiding difficult conversations during the holidays she posted, and the abusive childhood she claimed to have.

Anna's father has always spoiled her and pampered her, given her every undeserved opportunity and privilege one could give, and she ungratefully pisses away all of them. That $1200 Gucci purse? Anna made a whole video about how her dad never gave her gifts or presents growing up and was always stingy, etc. The same dad that gave her blank checks for the school book fair. He bought her that ugly purse after she whined about how he never gives her gifts.

Anna cuts out *anyone* who says something she doesn't like or doesn't want to hear. It doesn't matter if they're her own flesh and blood, are right, are honestly concerned about her and love her. She has no problem cutting them out. Personally I think all of them are better off without her, but it's still gotta be devastating to watch your daughter/sister/friend self destruct.
 
No Thank You v 2.0 dijo:
it. I think he’s the kind of person to take a place personally.
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What you wrote is so trailer park impoverished even Polissa would donate a few cents your way.

Anna’s family has money. People with money don’t wax poetically about real estate.

And it will never cease to amaze me how many posters on kiwifarms will spend years watching an absolute cow then steadfast, 100% believe the parents who raised and gave their DNA to this cow are completely rational, normal, functional adults. Cows come from cows. It’s likely her family is an entire farm.
 
thejackal2 dijo:
All of her addictions (social media, booze, food, attention) are as bad as they've ever been. I think if she doesn't go home for the holidays and get some real talk from dad she's cooked. She probably is either way, but I'm talking like she's gonna have to go to forced in patient rehab soon the way she's trending the last year.


Jon just got the best news of his life. The reddit theory some of them have that he's bummed is insane. He doesn't want her there. His fiance probably argued with him about even inviting her. A solo Anna at a destination wedding drunk off her ass? Fuck that shit.
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Lol right? How many of them are new and haven’t seen the tantrums Anna has thrown on trips she was paid to go on? Fuck, even during the road trip she did nothing but whine and complain when she voluntarily drove the entire way.

She’d be alone at a wedding in Mexico where the only person she knows is the groom aka her employee who she is used to bossing around. She’d be even more insufferable and whiny than normal.

And considering how fucking awkward she makes any sort of social gathering she goes to in order to draw all the attention to herself…her not going is truly the best gift she could give to Jon and his soon-to-be wife.
 
Poopfart dijo:
Lol right? How many of them are new and haven’t seen the tantrums Anna has thrown on trips she was paid to go on? Fuck, even during the road trip she did nothing but whine and complain when she voluntarily drove the entire way.

She’d be alone at a wedding in Mexico where the only person she knows is the groom aka her employee who she is used to bossing around. She’d be even more insufferable and whiny than normal.

And considering how fucking awkward she makes any sort of social gathering she goes to in order to draw all the attention to herself…her not going is truly the best gift she could give to Jon and his soon-to-be wife.
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I also think she would expect John to work and film shorts/take photo's. She doesn't do anything or go anywhere without turning it in to content
 
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Did this picture make anyone else think of this?

Of course, Chantal was a lot smaller, and having fun with drugs, and actually getting laid, but still. Gives me similar vibes.
 
She made a comment during the lipedema surgeries about being vindicated regarding family who had thought she needed to lose weight. If i find the time and the inclination i’ll look for it. She seemed pretty triumphant about it at the time.
 
Regarding her family - I remember seeing a vid of hers from maybe ten or more years ago wherein she basically said she was estranged from her brother because he kept on at her to lose weight.

Bearing in mind that this was when she was considerably smaller, healthier and generally less fucked up and it's hard to imagine that situation has improved since.

Looking at those family pics and considering the fact two people in that fam basically seem to have eaten themselves to death, it's hard to believe there was ever much functionality there, but what/who it all sources to is hard to pick apart.

I mean to kick off we have Anna as the ultimate unreliable narrator whose version of her family history is going to be dedicated to making herself into a blameless victim/heroine.

Add to that the general unknowability of all private family dynamics - and the weirder they are, the less knowable they tend to be.

And last but not least the Mormon factor.

I have some personal experience of seeing inside Mormon culture and how it can mindfuck even reasonably well-adjusted and well-meaning people, so its impact on a family already burdened with "other issues" would potentially be exponentially ghastly.

All we know is she's an almost psychotically delusional, malignantly manipulative attention and substance addict with seemingly zero personal or inner life. How she got there? Who can tell?
 
No Thank You v 2.0 dijo:
It has never made sense to me why Susan was cremated and Katy was buried, but at the end of the day, Tom put his wife’s ashes in a permanent, dedicated place, and his dead daughter is taking up even more room.
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It was probably just personal preference. Some people are really particular about what they want to happen to their body after they're dead.
Also maybe larger caskets were more readily available in 2011 vs. 2003.
 
Allie GoPro dijo:
Looking at those family pics and considering the fact two people in that fam basically seem to have eaten themselves to death, it's hard to believe there was ever much functionality there, but what/who it all sources to is hard to pick apart.
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I think it’s fascinating Anna never mentions her mother, ever.

Usually having a dead mom is a huge bonus for sympathy and woe is me points. She could post on her mother’s birthday and death anniversary for guaranteed social media interaction but she just won’t. It’s bizarre.
 
FarmVille dijo:
I think it’s fascinating Anna never mentions her mother, ever.
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She briefly mentions her mom's death once in her self-help book ("I’ve also experienced trauma like losing my mother and sister..."), and any reference to her mom was usually with her being angry at her or giving Anna a bowl cut. Her mom dressed her like a dyke and sent her to a school for kids with behavioral problems. Overall, Anna doesn't seem to be thrilled with her childhood; it wouldn't surprise me if she just didn't give a fuck about using her mom for sympathy.

She gets enough internet points for being brave about her body, surgeries, chronic illnesses, and whatever arc she's currently on.
 
FarmVille dijo:
I think it’s fascinating Anna never mentions her mother, ever.

Usually having a dead mom is a huge bonus for sympathy and woe is me points. She could post on her mother’s birthday and death anniversary for guaranteed social media interaction but she just won’t. It’s bizarre.
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Conversely she could paint mom as the source of all her trauma and use that for pity points from the “I hate my mom” millennials. She’s attempted it without coming outright and saying as much such as around the time of her maternal grandfather’s death.
 
I always thought it was out of "respect" for her step mom, who Anna seemed closer with than her dad in the videos from prior get togethers. I'm sure the step mom plays the "good cop" with dad the bad whenever they are in a room together. I think both things are true, the O'Briens are a fucked up family that has some wealth and influence. Not the first, not the last.
 
head lamb dijo:
Overall, Anna doesn't seem to be thrilled with her childhood; it wouldn't surprise me if she just didn't give a fuck about using her mom for sympathy.
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I don’t buy that it’s that simple. For someone who craves attention, sympathy, and validation not using her mom’s death for ass pats is insane.

Especially considering how every deathfat makes excuse after excuse about their families and various traumas.
 
xivnuhranx dijo:
She keeps using the .5x lens on the iPhone to make herself look thinner. It stretches out anything near the edge of the lens, like her feet. She still has huge hooves even when I try to fix the photo a bit to simulate what it possibly looked liked. I'm not an expert photo editor, so take my version with a grain of salt.


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Sultry and sexy! What red blooded male wouldn’t want to tap that?

Barf. 🤢
 
FarmVille dijo:
I don’t buy that it’s that simple. For someone who craves attention, sympathy, and validation not using her mom’s death for ass pats is insane.

Especially considering how every deathfat makes excuse after excuse about their families and various traumas.
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Bear in mind we are talking about the same woman that cried on camera when she accidentally grabbed the wrong order—an oat bagel—instead of a pumpernickel with Kalamata olive cream cheese.

She’d rather cry over the small stuff and get validation than confront her deep-seated emotions.
 
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