Oh, boy, something for me to sperg about... As far as intelligent life existing somewhere else in the universe, it is a virtual certainty that it either does at the present time, or did at some point in the past. There are roughly 1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000 stars in the observable universe, and that's to say nothing of galaxies that may be beyond what we can observe with scientific instruments.
Given that, on average, a main sequence star like our Sun lasts about 10 billion years, with a useful lifetime before expanding into a red giant of ~9 billion years, you end up with a total number of productive years for every main sequence star combined that is absolutely staggering. Considering that red dwarves last even longer, on the order of 80 billion years or so, that number only increases.
What we now know, which Frank Drake and Carl Sagan didn't, is that planets are very common. In fact, it seems likely that for most stars, with the exception of the largest hypergiants which tend to accrete all of their mass into the star itself, planets are the rule rather than the exception. So given all of those planets around all of those stars, and how many years each has for nature to do its thing (or not), it would be more ridiculous to believe that intelligent life hasn't originated at least once on one of them for a period of time.
That being said, the real questions are:
Are any of these intelligent lifeforms in our galaxy?
Do any of them exist now, contemporaneously with our species?
Cutting the vastness of the universe down to our galaxy certainly reduces the odds quite a bit, and limiting our investigation further to a pretty narrow period of time, i.e. the time since human beings of one sort or another have existed, trims it even further. Taking the next step and reducing it to the amount of time that we have had a technological civilization capable of being detected from deep space really starts cutting it down.
The shitty thing is that we have only ourselves as an example. If our experience is typical, then most technological civilizations that might arise probably destroy themselves after a few hundred, maybe a few thousand years before they ever develop interstellar travel (if that's even possible) which seems to me to be a prerequisite for any species longevity. A few thousand years isn't a very long time for technological civilizations to discover one another.
On the other hand, maybe we're just unnaturally war-like, and short sighted, and thus an aberration. Problem is with a sample size of one, you can't make any inferences. I can say this though, should we ever find evidence of life, either current or former on Mars or another location in the solar system, the odds of there being other intelligent life in the galaxy go way, way up. If the development of organic life is so common that it happened twice (or more) in one solar system, then it would be arrogant and foolish for us to think that the only place and time intelligent beings developed in our galaxy was here.
I'll happily take those autistic ratings now...