Why are people mean to nice people?

[emptyblu]

You be nice to someone or at least “decent” and people sneer at you, are assholes more liked or is that just a myth?

 

[draggs]

Because it's fun, now shut up you fucking dweeb

 

[Lina Colorado]

Nice people are taken advantaged off. "Oh he's not gonna do anything, he's so nice" so they just sneer at you without fear off being called out.

 

[Knight of the Rope]

are assholes more liked

Yes.

There are Mr. Rogers-style exceptions, but in general your non-sociopathic average person has people they hate, and gets angry when the cafe screws up their latte order, and chimps out when some jackass cuts them off on a highway. So they can relate to assholes, because they can relate to human emotions like rage and envy etc. (Much more readily than they can relate to the suspicious weirdo nice guys that seem to just take all of the assraping that life wants to throw at them with a never-drooping grin.)

 

[Alba gu brath]

Human nature, biggest dick swinger tries to grab it all, kinda backfiring on the traditional dick swingers, could explain all the sudden would-be she-men, arseholes still wanting to have the club.

 

[starborn427614]

I think people using niceness as a shield for their own toxic behaviour has poisoned the well a little for the actual nice people out there.

 

[Prophetic Spirit]

Only people who can be considered "nice" by themselves are a real menace.

 

[IAmNotAlpharius]

Showing one's teeth is a submission signal in primates. When someone smiles at me, all I see is a chimpanzee begging for its life.

 

[Bloitzhole]

Nice is rather intangible and oftentimes more self-perceived than other-perceived. One expression or remark meant to be pleasant might be wrongly interpreted by another.
Or perhaps the other person has had a long day, experienced a recent loss - any heavy weight on a shoulder can bias a person to perceive a nicety as a potential sleight.

What I'm trying to say is

Fuck you OP

 

[Lucario]

People easily confuse kindness with weakness. If you are having trouble with non-assholes not returning the kindness to you, you need to act a bit bratty from time to time, so that they don't take your kindness for granted.

 

[Flavius Claudius Julianus]

'To be kind enough is to be too kind.'

 

[Shig O'nella]

Most people are arseholes.
Most people are also cowards.

Add it up yourself.

 

[No Exit]

People hate unconfident nice people, they're seen as doormats and asskissers. Confident, outgoing nice people are respected since they give off a more positive vibe as well as having some self-respect which makes their nicest all the more meaningful.

 

[IAmNotAlpharius]

Most people are arseholes.
Most people are also cowards.

Add it up yourself.

I’m too lazy to do math so fuck you.

 

[Euler's identity]

Getting a strong incel vibe here.

 

[starborn427614]

People hate unconfident nice people, they're seen as doormats and asskissers. Confident, outgoing nice people are respected since they give off a more positive vibe as well as having some self-respect which makes their nicest all the more meaningful.

It's basically the difference between genuine positivity and the toxic kind. One will try to build you up, the other will knock you down but try to make it seem otherwise.

 

[Underperforming]

Because most people are miserable and niceness usually comes from genuinely happy people and miserable people hate happy people

 

[emptyblu]

Nice is rather intangible and oftentimes more self-perceived than other-perceived. One expression or remark meant to be pleasant might be wrongly interpreted by another.
Or perhaps the other person has had a long day, experienced a recent loss - any heavy weight on a shoulder can bias a person to perceive a nicety as a potential sleight.

What I'm trying to say is

Fuck you OP

go fuck hookers I’m sure they will listen to your personal problems.

 

[emptyblu]

Getting a strong incel vibe here.

quit projecting, the only incel here is you.

 

[Euler's identity]

quit projecting, the only incel here is you.

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