💬 Off-Topic I'm Michael Sandell- Ask me almost anything about ADF

[TrippinKahlua]

Not a whole lot. They were the one that picked me up from the Greyhound station when I first got to Philadelphia. I had spoken to them multiple times on my trip across the country and they seemed like they were genuinely concerned for Ahuviya's safety. They were paranoid and thought that I was like a double agent of the people who were making fun of them. Until I got there and wasn't. They let us stay at their house a couple times and I remember the bathroom being really filthy. They claimed to have dissociative identity disorder, and would "dissociate" in public frequently. Pretending to be like the crow from that one movie in the 90s. They would dress in all black and put on ridiculous eye makeup.

They...

 

[MMX]

Inside the cave. It was wide enough for two people, but not tall enough.

Holy shit phil expected u to live in a crack.
Whilst i may be laughing my ass off right now i assure u that u my deepest sympathies.

 

[HG 400]

@tweaker the cat

Just out of curiosity, what's with the singular they? I noticed you've gone from 'she' to 'they' since you first arrived here. Are you misinterpreting Katsu's decree of chris-tranny-pronoun-guidelines-apply?

 

[tweaker the cat]

It's still one of their preferred pronouns. I'm scared if I use male pronouns they'll smear my name in the spaces we mutually visit.

 

[HG 400]

It's still one of their preferred pronouns. I'm scared if I use male pronouns they'll smear my name in the spaces we mutually visit.

You can still use female pronouns if that's what you're comfortable with.

 

[tweaker the cat]

You can still use female pronouns if that's what you're comfortable with.

I use they because I don't know what to believe regarding their gender identity.

 

[VLAD]

It's still one of their preferred pronouns. I'm scared if I use male pronouns they'll smear my name in the spaces we mutually visit.

Based on everything he's posted on Facebook, I'd say it's a bit too late for that.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

I use they because I don't know what to believe regarding their gender identity.

Every other part of him is a either a lie or self-inflicted misery, brought about for the express purpose of making people pay attention to him.
Why should this be an exception?
I understand the position you're in, but Phil tries to screw over everyone who is even tangentially connected to him. Respecting him isn't going to fix that. The important thing to realize here is that he is easily discredited, rapidly losing support, and has an established history as an unreliable source. I think you believe him to possess a lot more agency that he actually does.

 

[tweaker the cat]

Every other part of him is a either a lie or self-inflicted misery, brought about for the express purpose of making people pay attention to him.
Why should this be an exception?
I understand the position you're in, but Phil tries to screw over everyone who is even tangentially connected to him. Respecting him isn't going to fix that. The important thing to realize here is that he is easily discredited, rapidly losing support, and has an established history as an unreliable source. I think you believe him to possess a lot more agency that he actually does.

The only thing is, I've seen first hand their dysphoria. Like pants down, knife in hand, wanting to cut off their penis.

What was the most interesting thing that ADF wanted you to shove up his ass?

We played with their police baton at one point.

 

[Iamthatis]

The only thing is, I've seen first hand their dysphoria. Like pants down, knife in hand, wanting to cut off their penis.


We played with their police baton at one point.

Are you sure that was not for show? When he threatened to cut off his penis what was his motivation?

 

[DangerousGas]

When he threatened to cut off his penis what was his motivation?

As a wild guess; "Look at me!"

 

[tweaker the cat]

Are you sure that was not for show? When he threatened to cut off his penis what was his motivation?

Dysphoria, I assume.

 

[AnOminous]

The only thing is, I've seen first hand their dysphoria. Like pants down, knife in hand, wanting to cut off their penis.

Please, even his photographs of his "self-harm" showed things you could have done with a fingernail.

 

[TremendousBoredom]

It's more likely @tweaker the cat that you saw controlling behavior by a serial abuser. I'm not discounting dysphoria, because it is fucking awful.

However, given the other information you've shared about Phil, my guess is that he feared he was losing control over you. And knowing that you're actually a decent human being and capable of concern for others, he threatened to chop off his junk knowing/theorizing that you'd stick around to stop him.

Because knowing that Phil was bleeding to death from his dickstump isn't something you'd want on your concience.

I'm willing to bet that if you looked back to the "I'll totally cut it off!" days, either they were days where things were strained between you, or days where you asserted yourself against Phil's bullshit.

 

[Weeping With Pity]

It's more likely @tweaker the cat that you saw controlling behavior by a serial abuser.

Compare it to the recent suicide threat spree. Phil uses threats of self harm as punishment for other people, not an expression of actual self-loathing.

 

[AnOminous]

Compare it to the recent suicide threat spree. Phil uses threats of self harm as punishment for other people, not an expression of actual self-loathing.

And of course, he doesn't actually do it. He actually posted pictures of so-called "self-harm" that would embarrass a 12 year old girl.

What's funny is he does all kinds of incredibly self-destructive and stupid stuff without even knowing it, though, and has basically ruined any chance he ever had of a future.

 

[Roger Rabbit]

Was he as bad during his Charman Mao phase?

 

[tweaker the cat]

Was he as bad during his Charman Mao phase?

Nah they're much worse now.

 

[Pillow]

It's still one of their preferred pronouns. I'm scared if I use male pronouns they'll smear my name in the spaces we mutually visit.

Shit, I've never seen it that way; sorry for pissing you off about not using male pronouns.

 

[Count groudon]

Now while I'm certainly no trained professional, but as someone who is friends with a few trans people and has taken high school psychology, I think I can safely say that most people suffering from gender dysphoria wouldn't rip their pants off and threaten to mutilate their personal bits no matter how bad it is. See, from my basic understading while it's certainly not pleasant to go through, gender dysphoria doesn't make you some raging nutcase that would rip off their own dick with their bare hands, it simply makes you feel as though you'd be more comfortable being the opposite gender. If he really was so bad he'd cut his own dick off he would've done it a long time ago, if he waited until he was in front of someone he thought would pity him when he did it it's not dysphoria it's being an attention whore.