I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

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Amberlynn is gonna grow the fuck up, and fast if it's as bad as I think it is, and so is everyone around her.

Without PLing too hard, one of my parents was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer when I was a teenager. You grow up very fast when you juggle a job, school, and having to take care of your own parent while they suffer through chemo and all of the magical things that come with it. My parent's survival rate at their age for 5 years is less than 20%, with treatment. Shit happening to me means nothing in comparison to the thought that my parent won't see me graduate college, marry, meet their grandkids, etc. We've gotten past one year of the cancer being at bay, but there's still that ever looming dread of them going to a routine scan and coming back to set up their will and everything else for their other half.

I think this spells the end of the Queens and Beggy being perpetual children. Especially if Amber has no health insurance and will be too weak to make videos for the cash money. Beggy will need to choose between her snapbacks and being able to pay rent soon.

SPEED EDIT: Also no, they we not told this over a phone call. They had at least three different doctors appointments: one at the normal practitioners, and two at speciality centers once they noticed shit was up. Though we aren't exactly sure what stage it's in (though with all of the signs and shit we know from ALR's previous vids, probably stage 3 or 4) so idk how that works In my family I've only ever dealt with my parent's somewhat treatable stage 4, and another close family member having pancreatic cancer so bad they didn't even bother with treatment and they died less than a month after diagnosis.
 
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Amberlynn is gonna grow the fuck up, and fast if it's as bad as I think it is, and so is everyone around her.

Without PLing too hard, one of my parents was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer when I was a teenager. You grow up very fast when you juggle a job, school, and having to take care of your own parent while they suffer through chemo and all of the magical things that come with it. My parent's survival rate at their age for 5 years is less than 20%, with treatment. Shit happening to me means nothing in comparison to the thought that my parent won't see me graduate college, marry, meet their grandkids, etc. We've gotten past one year of the cancer being at bay, but there's still that ever looming dread of them going to a routine scan and coming back to set up their will and everything else for their other half.

I think this spells the end of the Queens and Beggy being perpetual children. Especially if Amber has no health insurance and will be too weak to make videos for the cash money. Beggy will need to choose between her snapbacks and being able to pay rent soon.

SPEED EDIT: Also no, they we not told this over a phone call. They had at least three different doctors appointments: one at the normal practitioners, and two at speciality centers once they noticed shit was up. Though we aren't exactly sure what stage it's in (though with all of the signs and shit we know from ALR's previous vids, probably stage 3 or 4) so idk how that works
In my family I've only ever dealt with my parent's somewhat treatable stage 4, and another close family member having pancreatic cancer so bad they didn't even bother with treatment and they died less than a month after diagnosis.

Yeah, not to PL/piggyback off of what you're saying but I lost a parent to cancer when I was barely 20, and then I myself was diagnosed with ovarian cancer a year after that. With her host of personality disorders and general lackadaisical outlook on her health and life in general I literally see no way of this ending well for anybody involved.
 
Yikes. Looks like this is one problem she can't eat her way out of. Ngl cancer is probably less likely to kill her than her obesity complications during the treatment, assuming that options like radiation could even work on a small cetacean.
 
I had a loved one who had cancer. Saying 'I wouldn't wish cancer on anybody' is an understatement.
The chemo turned them into a living corpse. They went from 77 kg to 65 kg.
They were frail and weak and constantly crying in pain. Watching this in real time was traumatizing.
To make it worse, it took them almost a year to become 'normal'.
Only saving grace is that my country has universal care. I can only imagine what she'll have to pay afterwards.

Not to be morbid, but are funeral cost expensive in america?

EDIT: forgot to ask. If she where to die, would her next of kin have to pay the medical bill?

1. She's a retard and has no insurance. I gave middle of the road insurance and spent 12 days in the hospital and paid a total of $840 out of pocket. The medical expenses meme in the US is grossly overstated

2. It is wholly dependent on what kind of funeral. A simple cremation is very cheap. A full on burial in a nice casket is several thousand. Most people have reasonable life insurance policies to cover these expenses.

3. No. Medical debt, like most debt, dies with the debtor, unless it's a secured loan like a car or house, then obviously someone has to take over payments or the creditor will repossess or foreclose.
 
Why do u say stage 4....

she’s had uterine cancer symptoms for years. over november/december she cried about horrible pain in her kidneys as well as a uti that wouldn’t heal. then followed her miraculous 75lbs weight loss.
fast forward to today, she’s bleeding so profusely out her cooch that she finally goes to the doctor and they find cancer.
doesn’t seem like stage one to me..
 
my bet is stage four. i think it’s spread to her bladder / lymph nodes / kidneys.
she fukked

While ive admittedly had only a dozen or so experiences with super morbidly obese patients in a gynecologic oncology setting: If it’s Uterine/Endometrial Cancer, isn’t histologically papillary, and is stage two: she’s more-than-likely going to be alive long enough for the obesity to kill her first. She would be more likely to survive for 5 more years than not if it was stage 3A or 3B as well. Stage 3C1 likely has slightly lower than half chances at her size, but her age is on her side. Also, Stage 3 metastatic doesn’t necessarily mean it has lymphatically metastasized. Additionally, strangely enough, Stage 3C2 is an oddity where the cancer is metastatic and it spreads to distant lymph nodes but not any of the local pelvic lymph nodes. Even more interesting, theres many patients with Stage 4A uterine cancer that haven’t lympathically metastasized at all.

Abnormal bleeding is a very early indicator of uterine cancer. It is usually what catches it on most patients. From from what I’ve seen in her videos: I’d say Ambers ECOG is either 0 or 1.. Without pain or a mass then it’s likely stage one or two. Stage 3 (grade B or C especially) is very likely to cause frequent pain. Stage 3A, 3B, or 3C all qualify for emergency hysterectomy even in super morbidly obese patients. A hysterectomy is pretty much guaranteed. Contrary to the common belief, hysterectomies are performed on BMI >35 patients, but a minimally invasive/laparoscopic hysterectomy is highly recommended to prevent long term hospitalization and perioperative complications.


As a final word I also want to say that uterine cancer at stages 1 and 2 has the rarity of being cured rather than put in remission if a hysterectomy is performed.
 
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Why do u say stage 4....

She's had alot going on the last couple of years, going to the ERs. Some were mentioned I forgot about back pain, some leg pain she thought was a blood clot, She had a bleeding belly button for a couple of months, periods lasting months, gushing out blood in the shower, the recent UTIs. There's probably more I'm forgetting. Someone said uterine cancer grows slow but I think if AL has uncontrolled diabetes it might grow faster. I don't know though- AL said it's beginning stages, some say it's grade 2 and she's confusing it with stage 2. It's hard to tell because these could just be fat problems or cancer.
 
she’s had uterine cancer symptoms for years. over november/december she cried about horrible pain in her kidneys as well as a uti that wouldn’t heal. then followed her miraculous 75lbs weight loss.
fast forward to today, she’s bleeding so profusely out her cooch that she finally goes to the doctor and they find cancer.
doesn’t seem like stage one to me..

Yeah. Both my grandparents died of cancer (a long, long time ago now) and they weren't diagnosed until they began losing weight at a prodigious rate. If she's dropped that much, she's dead. I give her a year, maybe six months if she's unlucky. Entirely her own stupid fault; no sympathy from me.
 
Please stop abusing spoiler tags. Spoiler tags are for NSFW images/video, or for when you dump a huge batch of thumbnailed images that are a set, gigantic news articles stuff like that.

Spoiler tags are not for off-topic, rants/spergouts, or powerleveling (btw most of you are not powerleveling, you are using that term incorrectly but even if you were powerleveling, apologizing for it and then proceeding to do it is not acceptable, not even under a spoiler tag). If you feel the need to spoiler tag something you have written, that is usually a good indication that you should not be posting it.

I realize that what I'm saying is going to comes off as insensitive given the subject matter, but we're just going to rip the band-aid off here. Because I'm tired of immaterial spoiler tags, and this is only going to get worse as more people come in here to talk about cancer.

And hello newbies, welcome to Kiwi Farms check out the newbie thread
 
she’s had uterine cancer symptoms for years. over november/december she cried about horrible pain in her kidneys as well as a uti that wouldn’t heal. then followed her miraculous 75lbs weight loss.
fast forward to today, she’s bleeding so profusely out her cooch that she finally goes to the doctor and they find cancer.
doesn’t seem like stage one to me..
Do you or anyone think that bleeding out of her belly button or admittedly only peeing twice a day would rate? I've always been curious about those.
 
Why do u say stage 4....

I wouldn’t be surprised if it’s a high stage like 3 or 4 only because of how she had always dodged the doctors unless she absolutely had to go.

I started watching Amberlynn in very late 2017 and early 2018. I can’t remember what video but back in 2018 he had her period and she said she bleed so much that she just stood (probably sat) in the shower. This was when she was on the tipping point of hitting the big 500. She also has said she never has her periods but when she does she bleeds profusely.

Just my two thoughts but this ‘cancer’ has been here for years.


I got you, gorl. It was July 2 of 2018. This is the post with the video--she mentions it at 5 min in.

https://kiwifarms.net/threads/health-update-weigh-in.44970/
Yes, this is it!

Edit: sorry I wrote my post before looking at the last few responses
 
Do you or anyone think that bleeding out of her belly button or admittedly only peeing twice a day would rate? I've always been curious about those.

the peeing thing, i think, is mostly laziness/dehydration.

belly button, my hypothesis is lack of proper hygiene. i think skipping one too many showers caused it to create a nice, dark, moist cesspool for bacteria to grow, and it grew into a nasty infection. she never really admitted to what it really was. she said it was “too embarrassing”, so my mind automatically says lack of personal hygiene - something she’d never admit to.

EDIT: here’s some info on bleeding belly buttons
 
Wouldn't wish cancer on anyone. It'll be miraculous if she beats this given how long she's had symptoms. I hope she does, she's still a person and at the very least her videos and story have been entertaining. This ain't the note I wanna see the story go out on. :feels:
 
Cancer staging is dependent on what type of cancer you have; so endo cancer stage 3 doesn't have the same prognosis as glioblastoma stage 3. If you want to sperg about your experiences with "x stage cancer" at least keep it to uterine cancer... otherwise it's like comparing oranges to grapefruits.
 
Do you or anyone think that bleeding out of her belly button or admittedly only peeing twice a day would rate? I've always been curious about those.

She said once in one of the winter era uti videos that she purposely doesn't pee unless she absolutely has to. I'm hazy on the reason she gave. It either hurt or she was too lazy to get up an actually pee. The bleeding belly button thing is surprisingly common among both fats and non fats. I do wonder if her holding her pee for so long had any effect
 
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