I don't know what to say 06/04/20 - "not at the beginning stage"

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Amber Lynn is an interesting character for me. On one hand it’s funny to see her do the things that she does, on the other it’s like watching the Joker; a movie about someone’s descent into madness and a deterioration of their own body and soul. It’s... odd. Like I know I shouldn’t feel sympathetic, but everything she does is self-inflicted (subjectively) and it’s leading to a potentially tragic end. It’s almost like a warning and a message that real addiction and unmitigated delusion just fucks your life up. I know people will disagree with my sentiments, but I just find this more depressing and I feel unwarranted empathy.
 
unfortunate for her, surgery recovery is a bitch, and once she hears "bed rest" there is no getting up from the swamps of sadness
When they do a total abdominal hysterectomy, anything that pulls or puts pressure on the stitches/incision is godawful for the first month. So if your belly is all blubbery and weighs 50 lb all by itself, every motion is going to YANK those sutures. Getting out of bed? You cannot just sit up because the muscles were cut and restitched. You must roll to the side. If you are fat and that blubber sloshes? Oh shit. Even if you are thin and fit you have to press a pillow to the area in order to move without the mere force of gravity acting on the skin and sewn-back abdominal muscles to send you through the ceiling. It's gonna be brutal, man.
 
Frankly I think chantal deserves death more than amber does. Still, I'm not pleased by this.

May Chantal live to be 600lb, in this time of crisis the Canadian fast food industry needs Chantal.

unfortunate for her, surgery recovery is a bitch, and once she hears "bed rest" there is no getting up from the swamps of sadness

Their street has a funeral home on both sides, one for the dead and one for the "living".
 
Amber's way of navigating the world has always been to seek attention and get others to do things for her. Regardless of what the explicit topic of a video is, it's a tool for attention. She never had any interest in following through with weight loss and past medical visits because she had already gotten what she was actually looking for through the video (attention). The ambabies who always get upset at her lack of follow-through are making the mistake of taking her words literally. Furthermore our gorl's not interested in any kind of introspective or deep thinking, it's irrelevant to how she lives her life, as a result she's had no practice using analytical and problem solving skills. She's also impulsive, the constant eating might be the drug that acts as a buffer to the negative effects her dysfunctional way of living is causing her. Amber's never received any kind of therapy for these issues, as a matter of fact therapists are just another topic she brings up for views - she never took it seriously.

The real danger of the cancer diagnosis is that she'll keep going with the pattern. The big C is a powerful tool to put in the hands of an attention-seeker. There will be a huge pull for her to act as usual, as per the pattern. If she continues making superficial videos but doesn't follow through and take the implementation seriously, she's toast. For her to properly book appointments, follow instructions, budget the costs, seriously and diligently implement the pre-surgery diet... these behaviors would all be world firsts for her. There would also need to be no impulsivity, no running to food as usual. For someone who was less dysfunctional, I could see cancer being the wake-up call. But Amber's personality is very warped, I don't see any tools or strengths within her that she could use to bring herself on the correct path. She also has no insight on her own mind and personal issues, she only recognizes "psychologist" as a word people bring up and have interest in. I don't expect she'll seriously consult a therapist and commit to introspection and change, that would be a world first as well, she doesn't have it in her. Her immediate environment doesn't have anyone who truly cares about her or acts in a mature way, to compensate for the internal deficiencies. Cancer saga is looking pretty dark, and it will be televised - it's her only source of revenue.
 
Amber Lynn is an interesting character for me. On one hand it’s funny to see her do the things that she does, on the other it’s like watching the Joker; a movie about someone’s descent into madness and a deterioration of their own body and soul. It’s... odd. Like I know I shouldn’t feel sympathetic, but everything she does is self-inflicted (subjectively) and it’s leading to a potentially tragic end. It’s almost like a warning and a message that real addiction and unmitigated delusion just fucks your life up. I know people will disagree with my sentiments, but I just find this more depressing and I feel unwarranted empathy.

This is a common thread among all the LolCows documented here. It's almost always watching their Narcissistic Deterioration into Madness, Depravity and Gluttony. Their slow but ever accelerating spiral into self destruction via the internet at its worst.
 
It would be very stupid to start a GFM because Amber‘s only hope at this point is to get Medicaid coverage for treatment. If she gets a bunch of free money from a GFM it puts her farther away from being poor enough to qualify for Medicaid. No GFM is going to cover the six figures a hysterectomy and treatments she will probably need. It would be far to painful for Amber to spend money on healthcare than on orange chicken and hauls - so she will just go broke and try to get the govt to pay for it.

I predicted Ambers only future was a homebound KY trailer dweller on HUD, SSI and medicaid...it’s just going to happen at warp speed now.

Exactly. She is screwed financially no matter how this plays out.

Sure, she could try a “cancer journey” vlog, but she’ll never get her subscribers high enough. She just isn’t very likable. Plus she’ll piss off her new viewers eventually by ignoring her doctor’s advice and/or doing a McDonald’s mukbang (and we all know she will...screw chemo, she’ll just throw up in a bucket and continue forcing down 20 nuggets).

Let’s not forget she already pays rent/utilities for her and Becky, gas and insurance for the car, clothing & toiletries for both of them, and food. I know there was some debate over Becky getting food stamps, but if she does, that doesn’t put a dent into the food bill for these massive behemoths.

Not to mention she admitted paying $80 for pizza and $200 for alcohol for her totally “real” friends who can’t even be bothered to chip in 10 bucks for a bottle of alcohol (seriously, fuck Dana and Destiny).
 
Not sure if it's been said. But when Big AL kicks the bucket, do you think the hospital will record it as a death due to Covid complications, just so the hospital isn't out all of the money they waste on her. We all know she's not going to be paying those medical bills after all
 
Amberlynn is #10 on Youtube Trending, (already pointed out, just adding a few receipts)

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This video could reach over half a million views before the week is out. It is her fastest-rising video in almost 7 years on the platform. This would be a dream come true for Amberlynn under any other circumstances. She's likely too busy shitting herself and ruminating on her impending doom to enjoy any of it.
 
This is the kind of bullshit used to justify shitty behavior.

No, it's a basic understanding of developmental psychology that is backed up by a wealth of empirical evidence. You can acknowledge shitty behaviour and the roots of it. The two aren't mutually exclusive.

She is lazy, we know this just by watching her. And she refuses to help herself AT ALL.

Is Amber lazy? Yes. Do I think that's the only reason she hasn't sought therapuetic help? No.

Trauma is often extremely painful to relive and the difficult part about it is the only way to work on it is to work through it. All of those feelings, all of those memories you've been spent years trying to push to the side, trying to numb, trying to distract from because you find it hard to cope otherwise. You have to throw all of that away and focus your attention directly on them.

It's hard shit.

No, fuck this "My parents were terrible" crap. Lots of people grow up in an unstable environment. They don't eat themselves to 600 pounds and film it for the world to see while blowing huge chunks of money on shit they'll never use or wear and constantly lying about things easily checked. She just doesn't want to change, because it landed her in a cushy fucking job with no work and a big paycheck.

Remove the filming aspect and yes, they do. You just don't see it.

A lot of people who go through the level of trauma Amber has will end up with unhealthy coping mechanisms and behaviours. A lot of addicts of all different kinds, including shopping, have experienced trauma. In terms of eating, watch My 600lb Life. Almost all of them describe something traumatic having happened to them.
 
Is Amber lazy? Yes. Do I think that's the only reason she hasn't sought therapuetic help? No.

Trauma is often extremely painful to relive and the difficult part about it is the only way to work on it is to work through it. All of those feelings, all of those memories you've been spent years trying to push to the side, trying to numb, trying to distract from because you find it hard to cope otherwise. You have to throw all of that away and focus your attention directly on them.

It's hard shit.

yes, it's hard. She's too lazy to do something that is difficult and challenges her for the betterment of her life in many different facets. It's because she's too lazy to give a shit about herself.
 
I do know someone who died of endometrial (uterine) cancer. She was overweight but not nearly as much as AL. Unfortunately many of her complaints line up exactly with what this friend experienced and she was at an advanced stage by the time it was discovered. Chemo did not help much as it had already spread, but it did buy her some time. She survived about two years after diagnosis.

An otherwise healthy woman might have a better outcome, but this is AL. She's anything but healthy.
 
Is Amber lazy? Yes. Do I think that's the only reason she hasn't sought therapuetic help? No.

No, the latter would be because she's a narcissist who thinks she knows better than medical professionals.

Trauma is often extremely painful to relive and the difficult part about it is the only way to work on it is to work through it.

She's allergic to work. And not like "allergic to ayyygs" allergic, either.

The rest, meh. Even according to her, her foster stay wasn't highly traumatic. Her parents were shit, but she wasn't beaten or anything like that. I guess I'm just not in favor of making excuses and using "childhood trauma" or "muh mentalz" as a shield against any and all criticism when those things can be addressed. She just wants the freedom todo anything she wants, whenever she wants, and play VictimLynn when it's convenient to do so.
 
i mean, i can kind of understand where she’s coming from when she brings up her traumas.
do i think it’s a valid excuse to be a shit? absolutely not. but i mean, i get it.

like, nobody in her family wanted her. they were all drug addicts who valued their fix over their daughter. she’s never had a stable home. she’s had to mooch off others her entire life.

she needs to talk that shit out!! she’ll never heal.
not sure she can really afford therapy anymore, though. dump it on becky.
 
I do know someone who died of endometrial (uterine) cancer. She was overweight but not nearly as much as AL. Unfortunately many of her complaints line up exactly with what this friend experienced and she was at an advanced stage by the time it was discovered. Chemo did not help much as it had already spread, but it did buy her some time. She survived about two years after diagnosis.

An otherwise healthy woman might have a better outcome, but this is AL. She's anything but healthy.

was she as young as AL? AL mentioned she had some bloodwork with numbers all over the place and we know she'd never admit to having an obesity-related health problem (skinny people get cancer too, skinny people need to go to the gyno). She's had alot going on though, bleeding in Eric's shower, bleeding belly button, the UTIs, the recent weight loss, high blood sugar, cancer eating up that sugar. Everyone is cheering her on saying they survived cancer but I'm not sure if they know her whole history.
 
This video could reach over half a million views before the week is out. It is her fastest-rising video in almost 7 years on the platform. This would be a dream come true for Amberlynn under any other circumstances. She's likely too busy shitting herself and ruminating on her impending doom to enjoy any of it.

Once all these new viewers get a better taste of her over the next few weeks there is going to be a glorious shitshow in her comment section. She made that "It's Cancer" video with little detail and a whole lot of freakout. More tests will be needed, she's an idiot on a good day, and she might only have a few precancerous cells that can be easily overcome. She's going to have a lot of walking-back if that happens. And we all know gorl don't like ta walk.

Her new viewers who expect a cancer journey are going to shit bricks the first time she deepthroats a kebab while muttering how 'she knows her body,' but then obfuscates her medical issues.


She's too lazy to do something that is difficult and challenges her for the betterment of her life in many different facets. It's because she's too lazy to give a shit about herself.

She might not give a shit about herself enough to change her health, but her narcissism is omnipresent. One of the things Amber does that makes me MOTI is her propensity to say "I'm proud of myself..." for inane, stupid actions full of failure. I nearly lost an eye cringing last summer during her 100 days challenge when she almost daily failed at something, but was able to tard-toddler glitter-bomb it with "I'm proud."

"I'm proud I ate one serving bowl full of macaroni, and not the entire kettle full I prepared."
 
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