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Our favorite femcel doesn't seem to take rejection well.
How do you guys handle rejection from Female partners only) including trans women and cis women?Vent (self.FTMStraight)
submitted 1 day ago by Revolutionary-Tie908Trans Man I can’t take rejection well and I get angry and sad no woman wants me. Being a transgender man makes it a whole lot worse! It makes me exstreamly Angry when I’m rejected for just being a trans man. I know every woman has a right to reject me. But for being a trans man fuck no. It feels like she sees me as a freak. Sometimes I get intrusive Thoughts Mabey I should show her how much of a man I am. Mabey I need more muscles to flex or Mabey more cologne. She can see my harry chest. Or Mabey I need to be rougher in bed.
But I know in reality that’s just wrong. It’s not about how manly or strong I am it’s about her preferences.
I’m sure I can’t be the only one that feels this way from
Rejection. I over complicate what I lack as a man. And being trans might be making me have red pill thoughts or incel nature. I feel some trans guys feel this because of how we’re not taken seriously sometimes by cis people. And cis women don’t see us as the men we see. Every time I see a beautiful woman weather a cis woman or trans woman feel like they already hate me because I don’t have a cis penis. Or a big cis penis. Not man enough
While most other pooner's are calling her out for being an incel, but some could relate to her feelings and think any criticism is wrong.
JesseTodoroki 31 points 1 day ago
im sure there is other things they also dont like about you bro
[–]Revolutionary-Tie908Trans Man 2 points 1 day ago
Like what?
[–]throwaway184747271 23 points 1 day ago
probably that you're a crashout and can't accept rejection normally
[–]shadowsinthestars 15 points 1 day ago
And you're full of empathy and understanding /sneed
He's probably not talking to them like he talks in a vent post. If you have no advice why kick him while he's down?
[–]throwaway184747271 5 points 1 day ago
he asked, I just answered. not much to it. if you don't want to be like that, choose not to be like that. you got to recognize that you struggle with that first though and if he's oblivious enough to ask why, he doesn't seem to be aware of it.
[–]Character_Drop_739 1 point 1 day ago
I think it was a great answer. Women can smell out safety and there’s an edge of danger and resentment all throughout the post. Until he unroots this he will likely be an unsafe partner at minimum emotionally since even in healthy relationships, rejection can happen at points.
Op, go to therapy and I hope things get better.
[–]shadowsinthestars -1 points 1 day ago
Come on, someone who is in enough distress to make a vent post about it doesn't need to be told everything is his own fault and reminded how much people just don't care. It's not oblivious to ask for advice on dealing with a situation that is just hard. If you magically don't struggle with dating while trans at all, and it doesn't bother you to get rejected for no reason other than that, you don't represent everyone who is affected by it. But I guess it's too much to ask for any men's suffering to be treated at least like it's real.
[–]Character_Drop_739 1 point 1 day ago
It is real, but we have to take a “both can be true” approach and notice the self fulfilling prophecy we create if we act entitled or sexist. It’s not black and white, dudes in general and trans men have particular struggles, and we can notice the role we play in our own suffering.
Character_Drop_739 2 points 1 day ago
Gently kicking an incel is my god given right as a trans man, even when he’s one of my own. I’m gonna gently nudge him with my boot at minimum because it’s frankly embarrassing to our community. You really think this is acceptable behavior towards women? Even in a vent post, no.
[–]shadowsinthestars 0 points 4 hours ago
I just don't see how the solution to trans men genuinely suffering because they're not even considered acceptable as partners is to label them as "incels" when it all gets too much. Like come on, there has to be a middle ground in recognizing transphobia in dating, without always assuming it's the guy's own fault because he fails to maintain the perfect attitude amongst constant rejection. That's an empathy issue.
It's also really annoying when people always default to "it's not you being trans, it's your ~attitude" when you haven't seen the guy interact with women and don't know why he got rejected. It's just not true that transphobia doesn't play ANY part, if it didn't then we wouldn't have such a high number of posts about it all the time. Including ones where the person was explicitly rejected for being trans.
[–]Character_Drop_739 2 points an hour ago
I’ve been rejected for being trans many times, I’ve never said “I should show her how much of a man I am.” There’s an empathy issue in being rejected by women and acting this way.
If you behave like an incel yes you will be treated like an incel. Not only is sexism stupid and wrong morally but it nerfs your chances of dating. And no, I don’t want to be associated with men in general who are sexist towards women trans or not. Instead of giving him a pass bc “woo woo being trans is hard” it is indeed fine to call someone out for sexism.
EchoNB 6 points 1 day ago Do you have rejection dysphoria? It is common for people with ADHD. Also, what helps is understanding that just because one people I was attracted to isn't into me, that doesn't mean that everyone won't be into me. Basically, just understanding that just because you aren't attractive to this person, it doesn't mean you won't be attractive to someone else.
We all know the only reason she's getting some sympathy is that she's a tif.
And boy are they coming up with more stupidity like rejection dysphoria, because apparently anything negative is just dysphoria for them.
I'm saying this with all love to myself and my body, but jesus christ I cannot turn sideways without causing a hurricane on the other side of the world. It's like I'm carrying and entire bread factory on my lower back. I'm not talking dump truck, I'm talking international cargo ship. I need it GONE!
Every single pair of pants I've ever owned have ripped down the middle from my massive caboose, I can't escape it. Now with summer upon the horizon and shorts season coming into full swing, it looks as if I'm walking around with two giant bean bags stuffed into my jorts. Pants have the same effect too, I have to buy them three sizes bigger from what I SHOULD be wearing. They always end up hugging me so tightly in the back, it looks like I am more blessed in the keister than Megan Thee Stallion.
I do fitness regularly, have lost weight and have more muscle than I did last year, BUT MY ASS CIRCUMFERENCE IS CEMENTED INTO PLACE AND WON'T BUDGE! Be it genetics or just my inability to target that specific area of muscle/fat, I don't know. Ass dysphoria is a bitch and I cannot look at myself in the mirror sideways, I feel like the "Lois, spin around" meme but in real life. If I had a euro for every time someone commented on my fat ass, I'd be eating coins for breakfast, lunch, dinner and a snack.
I'd say I pass pretty good in daily life, getting called 'young man' from old ladies and kids asking me if I'm a boy or a girl, it's just my gluteus maximus that is the problem.
Is there a butt binder that exists??? Or something close to it?? Is ozempic the only thing that will help me deflate my ginormous derriere? I can't risk another pair of pants or shorts.
Edit:
Break from the humor for something tragic. Who allowed these obviously very unwell girls to continue to harm themselves but now with the backing of the medical industry? Seriously heartbreaking to me.
I'm saying this with all love to myself and my body, but jesus christ I cannot turn sideways without causing a hurricane on the other side of the world. It's like I'm carrying and entire bread factory on my lower back. I'm not talking dump truck, I'm talking international cargo ship. I need it GONE!
Every single pair of pants I've ever owned have ripped down the middle from my massive caboose, I can't escape it. Now with summer upon the horizon and shorts season coming into full swing, it looks as if I'm walking around with two giant bean bags stuffed into my jorts. Pants have the same effect too, I have to buy them three sizes bigger from what I SHOULD be wearing. They always end up hugging me so tightly in the back, it looks like I am more blessed in the keister than Megan Thee Stallion.
I do fitness regularly, have lost weight and have more muscle than I did last year, BUT MY ASS CIRCUMFERENCE IS CEMENTED INTO PLACE AND WON'T BUDGE! Be it genetics or just my inability to target that specific area of muscle/fat, I don't know. Ass dysphoria is a bitch and I cannot look at myself in the mirror sideways, I feel like the "Lois, spin around" meme but in real life. If I had a euro for every time someone commented on my fat ass, I'd be eating coins for breakfast, lunch, dinner and a snack.
I'd say I pass pretty good in daily life, getting called 'young man' from old ladies and kids asking me if I'm a boy or a girl, it's just my gluteus maximus that is the problem.
Is there a butt binder that exists??? Or something close to it?? Is ozempic the only thing that will help me deflate my ginormous derriere? I can't risk another pair of pants or shorts.
Wait, is Dave(? I think that's the manlet's name but I don't remember) even a confirmed pooner? I've come across Sellsword Arts videos more than a couple times and he never set off my troondar. His phenotype isn't even super feminine, I just checked in the mirror and I have a vaguely comparable facial structure and am a true and honest male.
This one is almost as ridiculous as the Reddit post with the pooner who cried at the gay orgy because no one wanted to fuck her. This pooner wore a jockstrap and a pronoun pin but those mean old gay men told her to *GASP* use the women's room, which caused her to break down crying about it afterward. So masc, dood!
This one is almost as ridiculous as the Reddit post with the pooner who cried at the gay orgy because no one wanted to fuck her. This pooner wore a jockstrap and a pronoun pin but those mean old gay men told her to *GASP* use the women's room, which caused her to break down crying about it afterward. So masc, dood!
This one is almost as ridiculous as the Reddit post with the pooner who cried at the gay orgy because no one wanted to fuck her. This pooner wore a jockstrap and a pronoun pin but those mean old gay men told her to *GASP* use the women's room, which caused her to break down crying about it afterward. So masc, dood!
This one is almost as ridiculous as the Reddit post with the pooner who cried at the gay orgy because no one wanted to fuck her. This pooner wore a jockstrap and a pronoun pin but those mean old gay men told her to *GASP* use the women's room, which caused her to break down crying about it afterward. So masc, dood!
I have not been on facebook 15 years, but I'm assuming the group's photo is the cartoon man and her photo is the very obvious woman wearing jewelry, lipstick, with a woman's hairstyle, and wearing a tubetop.
Lmao most TERFs are more "masc" than these pooners. It wouldn't surprise me if the gay men thought she was a normal soft butch lesbian, if they haven't had the misfortune to encounter pooners before.
This one is almost as ridiculous as the Reddit post with the pooner who cried at the gay orgy because no one wanted to fuck her. This pooner wore a jockstrap and a pronoun pin but those mean old gay men told her to *GASP* use the women's room, which caused her to break down crying about it afterward. So masc, dood!
I like how she points out she had no makeup on. This has always been my bugbear. But women don't need makeup to be more feminine or "perform" as women at all! There are a shitload of women, myself included, who don't wear it everyday.
The main reason people wear makeup day to day isn't to look more like a woman but to cover uneven complexion and breakouts. I rarely ever see women in the thick, instathot style makeup in person hardly ever, and it looks really out of place in person. Most women are normal and do only subtle stuff because again the main purpose is to appear to have an even complexion. Also, because depending on what you're using it can be more effective and longer lasting as sun protection than having to reapply sun screen throughout the day.
I like how she points out she had no makeup on. This has always been my bugbear. But women don't need makeup to be more feminine or "perform" as women at all! There are a shitload of women, myself included, who don't wear it everyday.
The main reason people wear makeup day to day isn't to look more like a woman but to cover uneven complexion and breakouts. I rarely ever see women in the thick, instathot style makeup in person hardly ever, and it looks really out of place in person. Most women are normal and do only subtle stuff because again the main purpose is to appear to have an even complexion. Also, because depending on what you're using it can be more effective and longer lasting as sun protection than having to reapply sun screen throughout the day.
She either never goes outside and only sees other women on the Internet made up and filtered to all hell, or she doesn't notice or think about normie women who don't wear makeup.
I like how she points out she had no makeup on. This has always been my bugbear. But women don't need makeup to be more feminine or "perform" as women at all! There are a shitload of women, myself included, who don't wear it everyday.
I would use the point to make her even more dysphoric. Gay men sometimes wear makeup when they go out (not just drag queens), and they're never worried about being mistaken for non-men.
Do you know why, li'l dood? Because gay men are men, and you are a woman.
Yep. I can totally envision going to a game station to get my deer tagged and seeing these ladies in the parking lot shooting the shit. Just guys being guys.
“Only couples can get married” WHAT ARE WE EVEN TALKING ABOUT?!!?? I know that the beef is about not having polycule marriages but that statement by itself is so retarded and asinine I’m MATI. I made the prediction years ago that the LMNOP+ community’s next venture to tackle was poly marriages but there is a small part of me that’s devastated I was right.
feel like they already hate me because I don’t have a cis penis. Or a big cis penis. Not man enough 
