The things I was taught that I have discarded or am currently wrestling with, in addition to positions I have recently been exposed to:
The Genesis story is a bit complicated because its actually two stories in one. You have the creation story and then you have the Adam and Eve story. Both are derived from different texts and oral traditions, and understanding them requires less then literal interpretation.
That the serpent was a literal snake and the curse is why snakes crawl on their bellies. There are many other animals that crawl on their bellies and weren't in the curse. "The serpent" instead of "a serpent" also implies that it was a specific entity - Satan. But then what does the curse mean when it says he will "crawl on his belly?" That he will be cursed to roam the earth? What does "eating dust" mean?
The English translation for this part really sucks ass, but the Serpent IS Satan. The actual phrase is "Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made". The text doesn't say that the Serpent IS a wild animal. More that he was more intelligent then them. Up to this point however Adam and Eve had not encountered other entities beyond God himself and the Animals. So there is no context for a fallen Angel like Lucifer.
"Crawl on his Belly" is pejorative. In traditional societies, you bow and scrape before superiors when being humbled as a crime. Saying the Devil will "Crawl on His Belly" is allegorical to this, and is done to illustrate the fallen nature of Satan. As for "Eating Dust", in agriculture societies you either have a productive farm and food, or you don't and you eat dirt. Like Haitians incidentally. This statement means that the Devil and his Works will lead to bad outcomes like famine.
That Eve tricked Adam. This is clearly not the case, because Adam was right next to her. Did the serpent also deceive him, and he just blamed Eve? Or did he knowingly let her sin?
Adam just blamed Eve, which God did not appreciate. Though Eve got the short end of the stick because she sinned first.
That Adam's sin was listening to his wife. This is just sexism. Adam's sin was following Eve's suggestion to sin, not just listening to her.
No, Adam's Sin was eating the fruit and then trying to deflect blame from himself. Eve's sin was tempting him with the fruit. Culpability for different reasons, but to God all sins are equally bad. There is no such thing as context or mitigating factors.
That Eve's deception by the serpent shows women are more prone to being seduced by sin or confused by the enemy; this is used to justify the position that women shouldn't be spiritual teachers/need to be spiritually led by men.
Now this is an entirely different ball of wax and is not necessarily based on scripture. Its more that women CANNOT spiritually lead men. This is more a product of social function and necessity. Women can absolutely be spiritual examples and participate in spirituality. But when it comes to instructing and commanding men as is the role of a Priest, its not possible simply due to how the Genders work in biological function and abstract social organization.
Was Adam's sin worse than Eve's because he had a personal relationship with God?
All sins are equally bad. Any sin leads to eternal damnation due to the absolute nature of Gods justice. It is why we need the intercession of Jesus Christ to take the Punishment on himself so that we can be able to assume the Grace of God's absolute mercy. (
John 3:16)
That Adam's punishment is worse than Eve's. I do believe this to be the case; his punishment includes mortality. This is also used to justify the stance that men are wiser than women and hold more responsibility. But couldn't you also say Adam's punishment was worse because he had a personal relationship with God, whereas it doesn't seem like Eve had even spoken to God yet?
I would not say that his punishment was greater or lesser, it was just different.