No, it's the FTMs who have contempt for femininity, by and large. Have you ever interacted with any serious feminists (such as, for instance, anyone who works in a rape crisis centre or domestic violence shelter? Most female social workers are also feminists. Ask them what they think about femininity.)
I've seen enough of their bullshit online for ten solid years to know the vast majority of feminists fucking despise femininity, any "serious" feminists who feel differently probably are not as quick to use that label or they simply don't know what it's turned into in the last decade (but I think it always was this at it's core).
I wish my
pink-collar field paid enough that I could afford to have a child without living paycheck to paycheck.
I might even have one anyway if there weren't so many people screaming at women to 1. have babies!!!, 2. DON'T have them if you (list of unreasonable expectations) because we will blame you for anything that goes wrong, 3. DON'T get an abortion.
It's so difficult to have a child in today's society thanks to feminism and it's demonization of childbirth.
It says it all that every feminist's worst nightmare is The Handmaid's Tale, a world where *gasp* women are FORCED to have babies!
So does capitalism, so it only synchronizes with it. Feminine values, traits, and the like are not as rewarded as masculine. And since we're a capitalist society....
This is a fair point to make, one of the things that has gone wrong with the world is we've forgotten that there are some things more important than money, like ensuring our species continued survival for one thing, we'll be extinct at this rate if this bullshit continues.
1st wave feminism had a point when it came to political and property rights. It was unjust that married women could own nothing in their own name, or transact business without male approval. People forget about that one and focus solely that they also could not vote.
Things started going off the rails when the push came for women to start rebelling against biology itself. Sure it's unfair that pregnancy takes 9 months, and human children are helpless as infants. But life ain't fair sweetheart. That is why society created male social obligations to be the provider. Not because it wanted to keep women down, but because women and jnfants needed a provider to bring home the bacon.
This is another thing that's gone wrong is people have forgotten that life simply ain't fucking fair, we're trying to either artificially force fairness or just nihilistically going "fuck it" and ensuring our extinction but we just can't deal with the unfairness at the core of life.
We can probably trace most of the illogical facets of our current society back to the bra burning feminists of the 60s.
Literally everything that's wrong with the world today we can trace back to the 60s, people literally ruined fucking everything in the 60s, even if it took another half a century for the effects to be fully felt.
I'd say the fundamental difference between pre and post 60s is civilization shifted from "here's the truth, now let's act accordingly" to "here's what we WANT to be the truth, now let's construct everything around what we want to be true", ten thousand fucking years of mankind simply calling a spade a spade and then all of a sudden we changed our mind on that?
We need a reversal on most if not all the social changes of the 60s.
I like how all we have to do is take a LOOK at what things looked like in the 30s,40s and 50s and compare them to how butt ugly most everything was in the 70s and how ugly they are today, the cars, the clothes, the buildings, the appliances, aesthetics are a reflection of the soul of society and society has been soul sick for a long time.