Do women actually think differently

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One thing I've noticed lately is there's a large number of women who lack morals and will just say both sides. This might explain the feminist politicians with hijabs, but they will get upset when stuff like the rescue dogs being shot in Australia is brought up, or will have a hissy fit when someone like Yaniv is mentioned because they don't have the values to be angered by those things and don't know how to react.
 
Women with a problem to solve externalize and yap about it until something gets done. Men with a problem to solve internalize everything about it and won't talk until it's resolved. That dumb meme with the girl thinking the husband is thinking of other girls but really he's imagining how fast a racecar with square wheels would go is highly accurate.

Boys are hands-on and will run into things headfirst without reasoning with it. Women will think about something so hard that it stops making sense anymore instead of committing to acting.

Yes, men and women think differently, and the idea that men and women are the same and equal is a troublesome one that was only a precursor to what we see today. It's entirely delusional to think a man could live in a woman's world and vice versa.
 
Osmosis Jones dijo:
Women with a problem to solve externalize and yap about it until something gets done. Men with a problem to solve internalize everything about it and won't talk until it's resolved. That dumb meme with the girl thinking the husband is thinking of other girls but really he's imagining how fast a racecar with square wheels would go is highly accurate.

Boys are hands-on and will run into things headfirst without reasoning with it. Women will think about something so hard that it stops making sense anymore instead of committing to acting.

Yes, men and women think differently, and the idea that men and women are the same and equal is a troublesome one that was only a precursor to what we see today. It's entirely delusional to think a man could live in a woman's world and vice versa.
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This is probably the norm, but I’m a big internalizer and never bring people into my shit.

The main difference I’ve noticed consistently in male v female processes is empathic intuition. Like I can look at someone and judge how to approach them. Men don’t have this. I’ve seen them tactlessly barrel on through a point that makes someone obviously uncomfortable. It’s always like watching a horrific car wreck you are unable to stop.
 
Exigent Circumcisions dijo:
Men only want one thing and it makes perfect sense.
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In all seriousness yes, it's part of nature, because we have to nurture and cater to our future children and fend for ourselves in different ways. That's basically why we're hardwired differently per-sex.
 
Of course. Merely by reading what people write online, how they structure their sentences and what they choose to talk about or emphasize, I can usually correctly guess whether they're a man or a woman.

We've evolved concurrently and influenced each other throughout our history as humans. The behaviours and thoughts and traits that work for a genetically successful man do not work for women and vice versa. The idea evolution would abitrarily stop from the neck up is just daft.
 
Rusty Crab dijo:
Yeah, I'm aware there are exceptions to the rule and those exceptions probably have the ability to get to better schools then man since the administrators from every university are quite literally begging for women to apply.

Out of curiosity, were these women exceptionally autistic? The two good ones I knew were very eccentric.
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I know one like that but in engineering. Interesting enough she played the male role model for her kids since she decided to marry an effemminate dude, somehow the kids came out semi-sane. Ironically her husband started acting like a BPD whore at one point and she divorced him.

I wonder if it had to do with her upbringing? No mother, father was some sort of hard science PHD.

@deso2y You lie. There are no women on the internet.
 
Rusty Crab dijo:
As a male programmer who has worked with women in school and (tried to) at an actual job... women cannot code. I do not know why. Most of them were very intelligent and put together, but for whatever reason they just could not bring themselves to turn chains of logic into text on the screen. I've known probably 2 female coders from my computer science classes that were actually competent, and the rest ended up being pretty faces on diversity hire pamphlets.

I'm not even sure it's that they CAN'T do it, but for whatever reason, they just rapidly give up. No, nobody was sexist to them or gave them a hard time. They got along just fine with all the male students. Despite literally being paid to take these classes from scholarships, they just consistently fell behind in everything once it got to a certain level.

Maybe it's an intellectual curiosity thing. Maybe women are just more content with what they already know.
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I know there are Women like this, but it's as you have observed it's incredibly rare. By in large Women do think differently, it's why Shades of Grey was a bestseller and most Men never read it. It's why a Woman falls for the bad boy with no future, versus the nice guy with a good job. Women don't usually operate on the field of logic. They operate on the field of feelings. What feels right. Which is usually something that speaks to them biologically. A guy whos a giant asshole and wears the latest brand stuff is a good bet to them. They often can't tell you why they acted the way they did, like a child with chocolate all over their face that can't say why the candy is missing.

When you interact with Women, you are largely interacting with children.
 
0Chance dijo:
When you interact with Women, you are largely interacting with children.
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Amen. You can really tell sometimes, too.

Slagatha dijo:
This is probably the norm, but I’m a big internalizer and never bring people into my shit.

The main difference I’ve noticed consistently in male v female processes is empathic intuition. Like I can look at someone and judge how to approach them. Men don’t have this. I’ve seen them tactlessly barrel on through a point that makes someone obviously uncomfortable. It’s always like watching a horrific car wreck you are unable to stop.
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I notice the same thing, but from a different perspective. To me it seems like women can't get to the point, where men will get right down to brass tacks. IMO men don't really care what you think or feel about the presentation of an idea or plan, they only care that you're going to hear it in the first place. Women will often beat around the bush and feel their way out with others, but this can result in the point getting lost.

So many conversations with women can be reduced to a 5 second yes/no question that it's unreal. It's like pulling teeth. I may lack tact but at least we can move on faster :story:
 
PaleTay dijo:
One thing I've noticed lately is there's a large number of women who lack morals and will just say both sides. This might explain the feminist politicians with hijabs, but they will get upset when stuff like the rescue dogs being shot in Australia is brought up, or will have a hissy fit when someone like Yaniv is mentioned because they don't have the values to be angered by those things and don't know how to react.
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Women run everything through a social consensus filter which is why you will get them saying "muh both sides" and appearing to lack consistent morals. If they aren't sure what the socially safe position is they'll just say muh both sides. If there are two positions which are completely incoherent and make no sense logically, but are both the socially "correct" opinions to have (i.e. men can get pregnant, but also abortion is a women's issue), they'll go with it.

Osmosis Jones dijo:
Amen. You can really tell sometimes, too.


I notice the same thing, but from a different perspective. To me it seems like women can't get to the point, where men will get right down to brass tacks. IMO men don't really care what you think or feel about the presentation of an idea or plan, they only care that you're going to hear it in the first place. Women will often beat around the bush and feel their way out with others, but this can result in the point getting lost.

So many conversations with women can be reduced to a 5 second yes/no question that it's unreal. It's like pulling teeth. I may lack tact but at least we can move on faster :story:
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Definitely observed this in the professional setting. Female managers will ramble on endlessly in meetings about inane bullshit never getting to the actual point (I've listened to them do this spontaneously for 10+ minutes straight many times), and it has to be dragged out of them by subordinates asking questions to clarify what the hell they are actually trying to get across or what they want people to actually do. I compare it to pulling teeth. Not every woman is like this, but I've yet to see a single man that was.

Rusty Crab dijo:
As a male programmer who has worked with women in school and (tried to) at an actual job... women cannot code. I do not know why. Most of them were very intelligent and put together, but for whatever reason they just could not bring themselves to turn chains of logic into text on the screen. I've known probably 2 female coders from my computer science classes that were actually competent, and the rest ended up being pretty faces on diversity hire pamphlets.

I'm not even sure it's that they CAN'T do it, but for whatever reason, they just rapidly give up. No, nobody was sexist to them or gave them a hard time. They got along just fine with all the male students. Despite literally being paid to take these classes from scholarships, they just consistently fell behind in everything once it got to a certain level.

Maybe it's an intellectual curiosity thing. Maybe women are just more content with what they already know.
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I observed something similar with statistics courses in university programs. Most of the women struggled mightily, taking hours to get through problems that would take me 15-20 minutes, or just being completely unable to do them at all without someone holding their hand and showing them how to do it. A couple had histrionic breakdowns over the course and their inability to complete it, and were ultimately given pity passes. None of the men in the courses showed anything like this. If they did badly, it was because they were lazy and didn't try, not because they couldn't do it.

Now to be fair there were a few exceptions who made it through without such issues, and one woman in particular excelled: She was a lesbian with a very distinctive "male leaning" personality, laid back and emotionally even-keeled, no drama, had some stereotypically male interests like being really into cars, etc. She had no trouble keeping up with any of the men, and probably did better than most. I thought that was pretty notable.
 
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