would you be in a relationship with a sex worker? - commitment and loyalty is so old fashioned!

is it ok to whore yourselve out when in a relationship?

  • yes

    Votos: 13 5.4%

  • no

    Votos: 163 67.4%

  • only if they post nudes onlne

    Votos: 9 3.7%

  • only if they are a stripper

    Votos: 14 5.8%

  • get back too the kitchen(female) get a real job(male)

    Votos: 43 17.8%
  • Total de votantes
    242
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kuniqsX dijo:
I would, assuming the relationship would last a hour max. & for a decent rate.
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An interesting thing I learned about how escorts determine their rates; is that it's based on how many drinks (or primo Columbian bang-bang) they'd be bought on a given night at a busy club, plus expenses.

That number can also be based on how much dope a working girl needs to get through a day, though cokewhores & other addicts are pretty obvious with their rate-scales.

Anyways; I used to think it was bullshit, until I really started paying attention to how much club drinking costs, and how many drinks my attractive & unattached female friends would both drink & turn down in a night. So yeah, the average of $250 for an hour is about right for a clean & normal-looking girl who can hit 7/10 in daylight, with makeup. In this respect, the majority of hookers are fairly self-aware; the $20 crackwhore knows that no amount of makeup would get her more than a couple pints at the bar (if any).

The way things went is that I didn't just rescue my guys from the clutches of window-tappers, strippers, and club bottlegirls.... I often moonlighted as armed security & ended up being Father Goose for more than a few girls, at/or between venues, and/or on a personal basis... and holy shit, I learned a lot. AMA.
 
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kuniqsX dijo:
...how much coke can you get as an escort for a classy middle-aged woman?
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That, I don't know. I worked security, made sure they didn't get dopefucked, and drove them around; I didn't score blow or provide anything other than peace-of-mind & transportation.
 
It's hardly a relationship if they're actively seeking the sexual attention of other people. You can talk a big game about 'love' and having an 'emotional connection' all you like however you can have sex without love but you can't have love without sex. It plays a role on some level, as a pastime with a partner or an expression of intimacy. And if they're out pumping some other broad or sucking some other guys cock, that's effectively walking all over your intimacy.

That's even before we get into the ramifications of turning yourself into a commodity to be rented out. The guys who say 'she's not your girlfriend, she's ours' to these cucks are totally right - your gf has turned herself into an item on the public marketplace where yours vs. mine is a question of how deep our pockets are.

Anyone who would get into that relationship or pursue one has some unresolved issues they ought to work out before getting into a relationship.
 
Pocket Dragoon dijo:
An interesting thing I learned about how escorts determine their rates; is that it's based on how many drinks (or primo Columbian bang-bang) they'd be bought on a given night at a busy club, plus expenses.

That number can also be based on how much dope a working girl needs to get through a day, though cokewhores & other addicts are pretty obvious with their rate-scales.

Anyways; I used to think it was bullshit, until I really started paying attention to how much club drinking costs, and how many drinks my attractive & unattached female friends would both drink & turn down in a night. So yeah, the average of $250 for an hour is about right for a clean & normal-looking girl who can hit 7/10 in daylight, with makeup. In this respect, the majority of hookers are fairly self-aware; the $20 crackwhore knows that no amount of makeup would get her more than a couple pints at the bar (if any).

The way things went is that I didn't just rescue my guys from the clutches of window-tappers, strippers, and club bottlegirls.... I often moonlighted as armed security & ended up being Father Goose for more than a few girls, at/or between venues, and/or on a personal basis... and holy shit, I learned a lot. AMA.
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Out of curiosity: what are the surest signs of a future victim, and what kinds of people are the biggest predators? Both in the sense of "hooker fleecing some shitfaced drunk" and "the kind of guy who'd re-enact the first minutes of Unforgiven"?
 
Boris Blank's glass eye dijo:
Out of curiosity: what are the surest signs of a future victim, and what kinds of people are the biggest predators? Both in the sense of "hooker fleecing some shitfaced drunk" and "the kind of guy who'd re-enact the first minutes of Unforgiven"?
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Bad habits; and dead eyes, or the 1000yd stare at someone.

Turned out there's a look you see from hajis before they turn themselves into explosive greasespots, or intend to later; one that's shared by all who intend on doing something very nasty to someone.

It's the spontaneous acts of violence that are most dangerous, and those almost entirely come from drunks.

Hence, smart working girls have the same rules as tattoo parlors; drunks & filthy fucks who show up promptly get the boot, no matter how much cash they wave around.

Also, in regards to clubs/venues; bouncers & security are very different jobs, even though bouncers wear shirts that say "Security". Good establishments retain armed plainclothes. The majority of bouncers are off-duty cops, or on-duty officers contracted through the city; therefore, neither are in a position to do much other than arrest/detain violent patrons, or show them the street. To put it a different way; bouncers/doormen are allowed to suplex & hogtie those that need it, but security is there to make someone pay.

However, this also means that bouncers are bound to one location; some dancers will work a couple different venues in a night (for different DJ sets/shows). Even if the joints are owned by the same establishment, the girls were either responsible for their own transportation, or they rode with someone like me. The girls I worked for outside of venue gigs either paid my rate directly, or I did it gratis because I made friends in a lot of places.
 
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I can't get over how faggy most of the internet is about this. "Can I haz marriage and kids?" "Don't dress provocatively. Be modest"

Total fucking faggotty. I want a slut. I want an orgy with her whore friends. I don't want a gay marriage. Have a good time in Leave It To Beaver land faggots.
 
Banworld dijo:
That's even before we get into the ramifications of turning yourself into a commodity to be rented out. The guys who say 'she's not your girlfriend, she's ours' to these cucks are totally right - your gf has turned herself into an item on the public marketplace where yours vs. mine is a question of how deep our pockets are.
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That's the weird thing. They label this sort of behavior "progressive" but in actuality, the woman is still being objectified and used as a commodity rather than being treated as a person. As opposed to when women were used as a way to acquire land or form alliances with kingdoms and the like.

People say women who don't support this sort of thing and actually prefer more traditional kind of relationships or roles suffer from "internalized misogyny" when this sort of thing is both misogynistic and misandrist in nature.

Women still end up selling their bodies and men are left feeling too worthless to have somebody they can call their own.
 
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We've argued this elsewhere before. Bottom line, relationships with promiscuous partners are more likely to be unhappy, their marriages fall apart about as you'd expect, and love doesn't matter as much as you hope it does.

If you're going to define "relationship" down to something extremely casual like "friend with benefits", then just make up a different name for it already. You are not in a relationship if your partner bangs 5 other people but only watches Netflix with you. You're just the equivalent of a comfortable blanket, the time-killing hobby they have during the downtime from giving other people the illusion of companionship.
 
ApatheticViewer dijo:
I can't get over how faggy most of the internet is about this. "Can I haz marriage and kids?" "Don't dress provocatively. Be modest"

Total fucking faggotty. I want a slut. I want an orgy with her whore friends. I don't want a gay marriage. Have a good time in Leave It To Beaver land faggots.
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This about sums up my take on it, Id only really be going for something casual anyways so i wouldn't really be that bothered. Sluts aren't that bad depending on their reasoning for doing it, just wouldn't want a serious relationship with one
 
Pocket Dragoon dijo:
At least vaginas are self-cleaning.(optimistically).
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every woman I've met who genuinely believes this bullshit had some of the worst hygiene out there. It's like believing that you don't need to brush your teeth after drinking something acidic because your spit is alkaline so it neutralises the reaction.
 
All the people here are saying “no“ but if any of you were married and started getting bored of you’re own wives you wouldn’t mind paying for these so called “whores“ to keep you company for a night.
 
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