Honestly I think it's two things.
First, wokeism is a very inconsistent ideology with many contradictory stances, or at least, contradictory if you don't buy into the ideological framework they utilize. One example I regularly use is gender abolitionists and transgenders are diametrically opposed. If gender doesn't matter and you can be whatever at any time with no baggage, then the "trans experience" loses any weight. Similarly, if you want to transition from MtF or FtM, then that necessarily requires accepting at least the existence of gender as a concept. Though in many cases, it goes further than that and many trans believe in the gender binary, they simply believe that they should be on the other side of said binary. Another one I've heard recently is the phrase "Islam is right about women".
Second, wokeism is an ideology that is extremely intolerant, while also being extremely prone to purity testing it's members. The intolerant sects will throw out those they oppose with until they are in turn thrown out by an even more intolerant sect. Purity spiralling really is just part of the identity of the ideology by now.
The two of these work together and you end up with what you have now. You have a movement that is so internally inconsistent and nonsensical that falling afowl of the current dogma is pretty easy, and when you do, the ideology is extremely intolerant and either ejects you out, or forces you to prove yourself once again by castrating yourself in front of them.