why are you still single - and general discussion of the dating game

[Kel1 shi1]

Because i make a good living and I’m getting better at sniffing out guys who are gold diggers. I just started dating a guy who seems pretty responsible and likes me for me, but we shall see.

The real question is, does he earn more than you?

 

[Geoff Capes Vapes Apes]

I'm single because at least 95% of the women I meet are so dim and superficial as to be barely able to be regarded as sapient.

There's also the regrettable trends of fillers, Botox and tattoos that have left a lot of women in their 40s looking like a blow up sex doll fashioned from a vandalised leather sofa.

 

[15 Pounds Uranium-235]

The Rothschilds, the Rockefellers and Soros all work together to keep me single

 

[grimacefetishist]

Unusual proclivities

 

[A-A-AAsssston!]

Does it count if you're technically not single but pretending to be so you can get into another relationship?

 

[HOMO FOR LIFE RETURNS]

Does it count if you're technically not single but pretending to be so you can get into another relationship?

No, that just means you have limitless way to waste your money and time.


I am not super fit or handsome per day but enough charisma and some weird appeal to a lot of women, including ones in relationship.

I used to fuck around at the workplace and got into trouble many times.

Usually, I find that women approach me first befor laying the groundwork. I usually dismiss them unless I give a shit which are so far and few.

I do not use dating sites because I do not excel in the dating world. I find that it's too many games, too little reward.

If I would recommend anyone anything in the world of relationship, try finding someone in places and gatherings where you find yourself most comfortable and most in command of your life. It will be very easy to pick up women or men.

 

[Nique la mere de Macron]

The real question is, does he earn more than you?

God no. I only earn about 3x as much as he does, which by the standards of the men I usually go out with makes him rich.

That said, since I made that post, I dumped him for unrelated reasons.

 

[Party Hat Wurmple]

I got tired of guys only wanting casual sex and nothing else from me.

Stop trying to choose men with options.

At the risk of sounding like a retard, it's extremely shallow. It removes a vital part of human connection, face-to-face communication. It's impossible to get a feel of the person you're talking to. And then you meet up and there's zero chemistry and it's uncomfortable and you feel like you've wasted your time.

Which is hilarious because. Then you get to be mean and nasty.

And all the black men that see me as an easy mark because I'm fat and plain need to fuck off. Bragging about how you miss your kids and your babymama(s) are being "crazy" doesn't make me swoon. It makes me think you'd make a shitty boyfriend and an even shittier dad.

Lose weight and avoid ghettos, especially near the month of April.

Dating app reduces your selection of people to basic stats and pictures, nothing more

Dating apps have become nothing but Sandbox tiers unless you're attractive and pay for it. Some will even sandbox if you're paying for it and not attractive enough and will drain you of money. Dating apps worked back in the day because you could send out dozens of messages to everyone as dating is a numbers game. That wasn't profitable.

Unfortunately you can't really just start conversations with strangers anymore. People are too guarded and too busy with other things. So if you see someone you want to try and meet you'll be seen as a huge creep.

You can, you could, and you should. Just start talking. As long as you're not a weirdo, you'll have luck.

Because i make a good living and I’m getting better at sniffing out guys who are gold diggers. I just started dating a guy who seems pretty responsible and likes me for me, but we shall see.

You should be careful, women who make a lot of money often price themselves out of finding a man solely because your perception changes to having no need for one. It's why so many of these media icons and social media harpies hate men. Wealth can easily leave you lonely. Chelsea Handler is a good example. She's a millionaire. She doesn't need a man unless she wants children.

If I would recommend anyone anything in the world of relationship, try finding someone in places and gatherings where you find yourself most comfortable and most in command of your life. It will be very easy to pick up women or men.

This. Nobody ever puts thought into locations and planning. There's a bit of logistics to those things, but you want it to be where you feel comfortable going up to anyone and talking or know the people there. Make friends with bartenders and their co-workers.

 

[White_N]

Because I can't do mitosis

 

[Nique la mere de Macron]

I understand the pricing out phenomenon. Dating men with less money isn’t an issue—it’s the dating men who only want money that to me, is worse than being alone.

 

[Duke Nukem]

There is nowhere left for normies to meet let alone people who prefer the company of misfits and autists. I'm just glad I got a little bit of dating experience before everything went tumbling downhill.

 

[Flabba Wabba Jabba]

Never had a girlfriend (per se), but girls I went to college with or have worked with have told me that I am deeply obsessive and that's a huge red flag.

 

[Geddy Lee's Fee and See]

Never had a girlfriend (per se), but girls I went to college with or have worked with have told me that I am deeply obsessive and that's a huge red flag.

As in you have interests you are deeply interested in? That's so fucking vapid and idiotic, it kinda makes me glad I didn't bother to get a gf after a typicsl middle school one if all women are this stultifying. I'm trying not to call all women retarded, but a good deal of them are and a most men are seeing that they see them as worthy of their time.

 

[Flabba Wabba Jabba]

As in you have interests you are deeply interested in? That's so fucking vapid and idiotic, it kinda makes me glad I didn't bother to get a gf after a typicsl middle school one if all women are this stultifying. I'm trying not to call all women retarded, but a good deal of them are and a most men are seeing that they see them as worthy of their time.

I have never had an intellectual conversation with a woman that hasn't eventually erupted into an argument or them not understanding what I'm talking about. I just don't even try with politics unless I'm trying to be inflammatory lol.

 

[Duke Nukem]

I understand the pricing out phenomenon. Dating men with less money isn’t an issue—it’s the dating men who only want money that to me, is worse than being alone.

The problem with money is that some people see it as the end in itself rather than a tool to use to get the things you need or want. The same for sex, it's seen as a goal rather than an activity that two people who are already attracted to each other would engage in.

I have never had an intellectual conversation with a woman that hasn't eventually erupted into an argument or them not understanding what I'm talking about. I just don't even try with politics unless I'm trying to be inflammatory lol.

The few times I've dated I've found them to have very basic bitch surface level interests. You could get a more educational experience watching Saturday morning cartoon shows.

 

[Geddy Lee's Fee and See]

I have never had an intellectual conversation with a woman that hasn't eventually erupted into an argument or them not understanding what I'm talking about. I just don't even try with politics unless I'm trying to be inflammatory lol.

Same here. I refuse to deal with that shit in my life. I only date women with some degree on real interests in something cool. Doesn't even have to be something I necessarily share a passion for. Just something allows for a lot more meaningful conversation than basic bitch questions: those are the ones that help you learn more about a person and who they are rather than just what they present to you. Unfortunately, such women are a rarity.

The problem with money is that some people see it as the end in itself rather than a tool to use to get the things you need or want. The same for sex, it's seen as a goal rather than an activity that two people who are already attracted to each other would engage in.

A lot of the problem with the current dating environment is that people aren't told what to look for in a potential spouse, so people just use the most obvious criteria to decide, which leads to a lot of problems and a lot of unnecessarily broken hearts. Sex and money are easy to obtain and to some degree necessary to have a successful relationship, but they don't make for a successful on if they become the focus instead of the means.

The few times I've dated I've found them to have very basic bitch surface level interests. You could get a more educational experience watching Saturday morning cartoon shows.

This really makes me realize most men are unambitious simps tbqh. How do you have so little self-respect you out up with this shit for pussy?

 

[Murun Buchstansangur]

I'm not sure exactly why I'm single but it probably has something to do with me being poor, ugly, and having a terrible personality.

 

[Flabba Wabba Jabba]

The few times I've dated I've found them to have very basic bitch surface level interests. You could get a more educational experience watching Saturday morning cartoon shows.

It really shocked me growing up because my sister and mother are both very intelligent (my sister is about to get her PhD and my mother is a special needs teacher), but all the girls I know (except for maybe one) know barely nothing outside of pop culture stuff. It's crazy to me that they have the same voting power as me.

 

[Duke Nukem]

It really shocked me growing up because my sister and mother are both very intelligent (my sister is about to get her PhD and my mother is a special needs teacher), but all the girls I know (except for maybe one) know barely nothing outside of pop culture stuff. It's crazy to me that they have the same voting power as me.

The male equivalent of these types watches little more than mass marketed comic book movies and Daily Show reruns. And "supports the current thing."

I'd sooner support a dope habit (my own or someone else's) than any so-called"current thing."

 

[Voracious]

The dating app burnout has set in again. I'm in a weird death spiral lately, where I think I want to meet new people, but then I meet them and immediately start craving the freedom of being single.

I have this issue except it goes well beyond dating. I start seeing someone even as just a friend? Well it doesn't take long for them to feel like a burden that I'm having to make time/energy for and for me to start resenting them. I've ghosted so many people for this reason and I think my brain is just broken.

This is only amplified with dating. I think my "honeymoon period" lasts about two weeks.