Narcissism.
Why isn't reality the way I want it just because I want it that way? Obviously, it's an elaborate conspiracy against me. There couldn't possible be a rational reason it is, because I can't see what it is, I mean, I want it to be different. And yet it's not.
Communism/Marxism/Queer Studies/Twitter/Fascism/etc. all tell the same message: It's true, an evil conspiracy has imposed every flaw of reality onto you. You can defeat this conspiracy if you simply will it hard enough. And if the Good Guys (which is you, plus everyone who thinks exactly like you so they're not like real disgusting people with flaws just extensions of your perfect self) just will it hard enough they will defeat the Bad Guys and the endless utopia will begin as reality is refashioned in the Good Guys flawless image.
Being a victim in real life is terrible, it's very traumatic and you want it over and your every natural desire is to escape and overcome it. But they twist the "victim" role into one of angelic purity and thus imbedded with absolute moral authority. Since there are only two allowed classes (Rule of the Sith), the powerful class is the class which claims victim status. The narcissist turn often expresses the victim class as the center of attention of the oppressor. All Nazis are thus "obsessed" with the Jew, all TERFs with the trans women, etc. They even invert dehumanization to where the "hate" is now that the person is
too human and the oppressor can't stand it. In reality, historically, the oppressor classes don't even think of the oppressed, they're a feature of the world not an obsession that drives every thought until the object of hatred is finally gone. (Let's turn to the Nazis again since they're the ur example, yes, they hated the Jews but it wasn't just because they hated them randomly instead they constructed an elaborate story to create a utilitarian reason the community needed to be "defended" from the Jews. Pure random hate doesn't get you very far beyond sociopaths.) Look at how often they're unable to resist claiming that their haters really are just sexually obsessed with them, the purest form of narcissism.
The idea some things simply are is not allowed because reality exists purely to serve me and my desires. You say it's nature and nature is more powerful than me? I say I shall change it, nature has never seen anything like me. (Also nature most likely shares my intent and will agree to do as I wish.)
The narcissism even extends to how they "learn" these ideologies, in that they don't. The queer/Twitter Marxists don't read Marxist works let alone the history of it because they feel they already
know it innately. So they are never confronted with the idea that Marx/communism demands forced labor by all for the collectives goals not your own. If they are, then they simply "improve" on it by writing that stuff out or simply "find" that the collectives goals are always their own and never opposed to them. Sure, that collapses an already flimsy structure even more but you're again making a mistake, you forget they can will the structure to stand and bear the weight of the entire utopia.
To slightly reword Hayek in a Socratic direction:
"The curious task of [learning] is to demonstrate to men how little they really know about what they imagine they can design."
"If man is not to do more harm than good in his efforts to improve the social order, he will have to learn that in this, as in all other fields where essential complexity of an organized kind prevails, he cannot acquire the full knowledge which would make mastery of the events possible. He will therefore have to use what knowledge he can achieve, not to shape the results as the craftsman shapes his handiwork, but rather to cultivate a growth by providing the appropriate environment, in the manner in which the gardener does this for his plants. There is danger in the exuberant feeling of ever growing power which the advance of the physical sciences has engendered and which tempts man to try, “dizzy with success”, to use a characteristic phrase of early communism, to subject not only our natural but also our human environment to the control of a human will. The recognition of the insuperable limits to his knowledge ought indeed to teach the student of society a lesson of humility which should guard him against becoming an accomplice in men’s fatal striving to control society – a striving which makes him not only a tyrant over his fellows, but which may well make him the destroyer of a civilization which no brain has designed but which has grown from the free efforts of millions of individuals." - also Hayek.