Virginity & Society - how virginity effects the social lives of people

[Gus]

I lost my virginity some time ago, but it was never really something that I thought mattered all too much to begin with. Losing it is an experience for sure, but in the end, it's more about who you're getting in with and what they mean to you. I care whether they'll stay with me in the morning.

Call me sentimental...

 

[Ido]

My bf and I joust penis, the loser has to become female and reproduce.

 

[Vex Overmind]

I feel like I should be posting in r/Incel. Oh wait. Why should I post on a subreddit that doesn't even exist.

ZING

 

[The Demon]

no, i've never been to virginia

 

[gumboman]

going by the Epstein study , virgin couples who get married have the most stable family and life .

downhill trends for increasing sex partners.

 

[AntDX316]

I found.. sex by itself w/o fetish w/ the opposite sex isn't sex to the fullest.

 

[AntDX316]

If you are haven't sex w/o a fetish, your cum drive is a lot less.

To everyone who doesn't know what a fetish is.. you have to probably masterbate that whatever made you like masterbating more you don't stop thinking about. I heard girls that have a hard time "squirting" because they haven't found their "fetish". For some it's BDSM. Basically, if you aren't going cross-eyed during orgasm, you've never experienced full potential.

 

[Scratch This Nut]

If you are haven't sex w/o a fetish, your cum drive is a lot less.

To everyone who doesn't know what a fetish is.. you have to probably masterbate that whatever made you like masterbating more you don't stop thinking about. I heard girls that have a hard time "squirting" because they haven't found their "fetish". For some it's BDSM. Basically, if you aren't going cross-eyed during orgasm, you've never experienced full potential.

Who are you?

 

[Ido]

If you are haven't sex w/o a fetish, your cum drive is a lot less.

To everyone who doesn't know what a fetish is.. you have to probably masterbate that whatever made you like masterbating more you don't stop thinking about. I heard girls that have a hard time "squirting" because they haven't found their "fetish". For some it's BDSM. Basically, if you aren't going cross-eyed during orgasm, you've never experienced full potential.

I've never had a fetish, I've tried but nothing really works. Anything you like and can recommend? And once I see it how do I ago about liking it? How did you?

 

[ICametoLurk]

@AntDX316

Tell us more about your God-like Sex Powers.

 

[vertexwindi]

My fetish is having sex with people I actually care about. When I care more about the person I care more about the fucking.

 

[Scratch This Nut]

My fetish is having sex with people I actually care about. When I care more about the person I care more about the fucking.

You degenerate.

 

[Secret Asshole]

People put way too much stock into virginity. But considering my tendency to find women who are sociopaths and get into relationships with them I might be biased. Better to die a virgin than be in one of those, figuratively and literally. Trust me on that one.

I've never had a fetish, I've tried but nothing really works. Anything you like and can recommend? And once I see it how do I ago about liking it? How did you?

One thing Freud got right was that fetishes are typically formed in childhood. They start out benign but once puberty just, boom. And you can't predict what that will be. I guess you can keep trying but if you don't have one by now, and by your admission nothing works, you probably won't have one.

 

[The Demon]

One thing Freud got right was that fetishes are typically formed in childhood. They start out benign but once puberty just, boom. And you can't predict what that will be. I guess you can keep trying but if you don't have one by now, and by your admission nothing works, you probably won't have one.

why is this so fucking true

 

[Ido]

why is this so fucking true

People put way too much stock into virginity. But considering my tendency to find women who are sociopaths and get into relationships with them I might be biased. Better to die a virgin than be in one of those, figuratively and literally. Trust me on that one.



One thing Freud got right was that fetishes are typically formed in childhood. They start out benign but once puberty just, boom. And you can't predict what that will be. I guess you can keep trying but if you don't have one by now, and by your admission nothing works, you probably won't have one.

So... I'm normie?

Why does my friend think my bf and I got it one while one of us was wearing a horse mask then?

 

[Red Hood]

IMO societal pressure should ease up a bit on the "losing your virginity" part and put some heavier weight on the social skills and self confidence that enable you to successfully pursue a relationship that's not just about screwing, but that's emotionally healthy and beneficial for both partners.

The incels and nice guys (and their vagina-having counterparts) seem clueless that this part of a relationship exists. Sometimes a relationship is indeed an afternoon of spirited sex, and sometimes it's staying up comforting someone in tears because of work stress or a pet passing away or whatever may come up.

Also, dumpy, snarky assholes aren't gonna attract those 10/10s. So shave that neckbeard, do some push ups and don't worry about "Havana" not being as complex as a Rush song, cause I've never met a woman that wants to dance with a fat jerk to "Temples of Syrinx".

 

[jewelry investor]

IMO societal pressure should ease up a bit on the "losing your virginity" part and put some heavier weight on the social skills and self confidence that enable you to successfully pursue a relationship that's not just about screwing, but that's emotionally healthy and beneficial for both partners.

The incels and nice guys (and their vagina-having counterparts) seem clueless that this part of a relationship exists. Sometimes a relationship is indeed an afternoon of spirited sex, and sometimes it's staying up comforting someone in tears because of work stress or a pet passing away or whatever may come up.

Also, dumpy, snarky assholes aren't gonna attract those 10/10s. So shave that neckbeard, do some push ups and don't worry about "Havana" not being as complex as a Rush song, cause I've never met a woman that wants to dance with a fat jerk to "Temples of Syrinx".

The v-card as an insult is getting more and more useful, as millennials are having less and less sex. Possibly as a result, the desire to have sex for selfish over altruistic reasons is on the rise, hence incels and nice guys.

 

[Bassomatic]

IMO societal pressure should ease up a bit on the "losing your virginity" part and put some heavier weight on the social skills and self confidence that enable you to successfully pursue a relationship that's not just about screwing, but that's emotionally healthy and beneficial for both partners.

The incels and nice guys (and their vagina-having counterparts) seem clueless that this part of a relationship exists. Sometimes a relationship is indeed an afternoon of spirited sex, and sometimes it's staying up comforting someone in tears because of work stress or a pet passing away or whatever may come up.

Also, dumpy, snarky assholes aren't gonna attract those 10/10s. So shave that neckbeard, do some push ups and don't worry about "Havana" not being as complex as a Rush song, cause I've never met a woman that wants to dance with a fat jerk to "Temples of Syrinx".

Honestly, it's strange that sex is less with younger people as they are exposed to things like FB where friends are not qualified but quantified.

No one out of your 1200 friends on facebook will help you move but you are seen as more popular than someone who has 10 friends who will help hide a body. I know we as adults would rather be the later any day.

That's what a big part of losing the V card is, it's a check mark. To be frank with how times are (and I'm not being a preachy old man) most of us aren't ready able or willing to be in a stable healthy situation with sex at the age of our first time.

With out being sappy, there was losing vcard and first time sex was something a lot more. I can see the pressure for both sides.

Looking over my life, I can say the first time, the best time and the most important time, that's not the past that's later tonight because Mrs. Bass is someone I deeply care about and with now and makes me happy and we trust each other, it helps she also doesn't gag.

In regards to incels shit like that, there have been and always will be people who just can't hack it socially and that really hampers your chances, more so when you don't feel you fall into your own range. Now they just go online and hug box and make it a show for us to laugh at.

 

[vertexwindi]

The incels and nice guys (and their vagina-having counterparts) seem clueless that this part of a relationship exists. Sometimes a relationship is indeed an afternoon of spirited sex, and sometimes it's staying up comforting someone in tears because of work stress or a pet passing away or whatever may come up.

Sometimes it's both.

 

[A Welsh Cake]

I haven’t had sex in a little over a year and that makes me REALLY CRANKY.