Honestly I see that Toby is not entirely the one at fault here for having Deltarune, his dream project, being "TRANSGENDER HIJACK LOL" by his dev team, but he definitely is a coward and very easily swayed by them to get away with the shit they did, like triple downing Kris' non-binaryness, the flanderizarion of characters, lack of concrete lore in favor of whimsy and joy, the deflowering metaphor being erased due to rape allegories on a teenage deer girl (big no no...unless they are male then its perfectly reasonable I guess) and all of chapter 5.