True & Authentic life advice for Kat

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strandedcastaway dijo:
No, just....no. The goutlord is going to be working at McDonald's in five years. No one will want to support a 40-year-0ld gamer. Do you want to rely on minimum wage alimony for the rest of your life?

Please don't get pregnant Kat. Don't even sleep in the same room as Phil, just to be safe. Or in the same house. Or town.
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You're optimistic enough to think that his delusional paypigs won't stay attached to his hip for the rest of his life?

I actually admire such a positive outlook on life and humanity.
 
Lol at all the people warning Kat to not get pregnant. Phil doesn't want & will never have kids. He views children as nothing more then potential blackholes of his time, money & effort. She's got no worries there. Plus, he's got a micro pené & can't shoot his boys far enough up her dry, cavernous womb.

The only advice I have for Kat is to remember when she's cooking that Phil is a 2 hamburger minimum sort of guy. Also NEVER, EVER enter Phil's office when he's "working" unless you've been personally invited by his majesty. He might put up with it for awhile, that's only cause you're new.

Other than that, I wish you & Phil the best. Hugs & kisses Christopher.
 
HolocaustDenier dijo:
for the sake of humanity, dont get pregnant. thinking about phil being a father makes me uneasy. nobody deserves being the spawn of the pigroach
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This. I cannot imagine the horror of having a selfish money-hungry fuck like Phil for a father. Hell, judging by the way he behaves, children would be nothing but a financial inconvenience to him.
 
Unless you plan on marrying him then divorcing him and taking his two properties, I'd suggest you begin looking for another place to live. Unless you want to go back to wherever you were before, which many of us speds are speculating wasn't a very happy or bright place for you. Your relationship with him will not last, and his ex was lucky enough to have someone else to stay with when it all fell apart.
 
You should say you want to get married, then suggest a prenup "so you won't become liable for his debts" and then change the last page to say you get his CT condo and a few grand in moving expenses.

Then leave him and move back closer to where you lived before.
 
Kosher Dill dijo:
Mine as much cryptocurrency as you can while you're living in the Goutpost. For you it's free since Phil's paypigs are covering the electric bill.
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Eh... the market is kinda bottoming out, do what you can but cryrocurrency is a wild ride that’s even more unpredictable then the stock market.
 
If you think you are a priority to Phil remember this. He claims he did not have enough time to get your driver's licence or get your job set up but he had enough time to take you to the mall to show off to his ex and enough time to go tv shopping at best buy.
 
I've said a couple of times before that Phil is definitely, 100% gaslighting her in a textbook fashion. I have no doubt the relationship is purely transactional for him. He pays for her shit and gets laid every now and then, she cooks, cleans and doesn't get ideas above her station. That doesn't mean Kat isn't aware of that however, and isn't gaming Phil herself. God knows he is an easy mark if you know what you're dealing with. So any advice you give to her is based on the assumption that she doesn't know what she's getting into, and that she does indeed have pure intentions towards Phil.

With that proviso, my main piece of advice would be to do your research. Fact-check everything he says. If he tells you the date, go out and buy a newspaper to make sure. Phil will lie about absolutely anything to get his way. If he insists you can't get a job, or go out with friends when you make them, or says you can't do this and that because you need a new drivers licence, then you check that shit with reputable sources. Keep in touch with any friends you may still have at home and double check everything. One of the key parts of emotional abuse and gaslighting is making the victim doubt themselves, and to convince them that abusive behaviour is normal and they're wrong to be upset by it. Make friends, read up on shit, and always remind yourself your wants and your feelings are valid even as Phil protests they aren't. External support structures will get you through, you just have to trust in them. Easier said than done when this type of abuse means you don't even trust yourself, but still.
 
Dear Kat,
Ask him about the Wolverine action figure, take in his raging response, then pack your bag and leave.

Sincerely,
Someone not angry over a child's toy
 
If, for any reason whatsoever, Phil ever discusses the terms "marriage," "a new beginning," "engagement," "taking our relationship to the next level," and you somehow cannot resist, make sure you prepare a prenuptial agreement.
 
Kat PLEASE, for the love of God, get on birth control! Hopefully Phil is an impotent as he looks, but you can never be sure. You don't want to have his baby! Phil's gouty DNA shouldn't be passed on. Not too mention his broke ass can barely keep his pigpen afloat, let alone the cost of raising a child.
 
tomstone dijo:
marry him, divorce him, get out of the casa del gout and enjoy the rest of your life with 50% of his scam money (and maybe also get half of his properties and savings).
i wish you luck.
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"Hello, everyone. *snort* Well, tax season is over and we managed to successfully Save the House. Next month's fund raising drive will be Save the House: Alimony Edition."
 
Dear Kat,

this guys memory and attention span isn't very good and so he twists informations like fuck. Don't be mad, he's just a child. But whatever information Phil sells you as a fact: Start with disbelief and do a fact-check if possible. But don't hurt his ego in the process if you want to stay there.

Also if you read this forum: Never ever mention Kiwifarms. Just say: "I had read it on the internet", or better if it fits: "I get this impression of you". It will spare you from being called a "detractor" and us from badmouthed Vlogs. Or even better: Swallow the informations and based on that create your own vision of Phil. If so many people don't like Phil there might be something wrong with this guy, right?
 
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Don't be afraid to tell greedy people to fuck off when they cross the line twice, not that you should let them cross one at all.

Being greedy entails that, outside of material nothings, at a personal level nothing is ever good enough and nothing ever makes one happy. A greedy person often acts out if their ever-shifting quota isn't met beyond your own means, and you know exactly how Phil treats his vendors if they don't put out enough during a self-imposed "emergency" status. Don't be surprised if he asks you for a fifty spot just to get out of the house by himself, and throws a shitfit if you say you can't.
 
Última edición:
Stop playing video games
Always make DSP wear protection
Make him get a vasectomy
Stop playing video games
Start dating men with some sort of professional credential (CPA, Lawyer, Licensed psychologist, etc)
Start dating men who lift
Stop dating men who play games into their late 30's
Lose weight
 
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