On the one hand, I can sort of understand Mander's frustration with the situation and Adi's constant digs at their character. Trish went out of her way to fuck his partner (although with them being poly there can definitely be some arguments about lack of adequate boundaries), but then she went so far as to try and get their kids taken away purely out of spite, something that even the most lenient person on the planet would probably consider going nuclear over even years after the fact.
I would argue that what she did to Mander is well beyond the pale for what she typically does to others. She took her usual slander antics and tried to use legal force to fuck him over, and unlike people like FFI and Meg or any of her other orbiters it wasn't even because Mander walked into Trish dick first; he got dragged into her drama by association via his ex.
That said, I definitely agree that the shit-flinging between the two was totally not becoming. Mander has watched this ongoing rodeo for years without any real resolution and there comes a time when you really need to block and move on regardless of what the other person says. Stooping to their level and peacocking over whose completely self-determinative success is "real" or not degrades everyone, especially when both parties make a business of drawing furry porn for money.
As disappointing as it was to witness, I will still give Mander a mediocrum of credit; he has acknowledged that he was being an ass clown.
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While there is some deflection because muh mental illness in there, Mander seems to've come out of this scrap with a sliver of self-awareness. Meanwhile, I suspect that Trish is probably still talking shit about him on her Twitter and in her server, and will most likely continue to do so for some time.