was talking with som me coworkers today and the validated my fears about coming out at work. The conversation started with one coworker bringing up time travelers coming from the future to warn us of "the bad times". I mentioned you mean like the writers for the Simpsons, because of the meme. Immediately he brought up how the Simpson predicted Caitlin Jenner. Except he deadnamed her. Then another coworker (cis black woman) goes "oh God you mean 'Bruce'. I don't understand how a white man can feel any sort of discomfort about his body in this country. He had it made and decided to make up a struggle for some sympathy". I tried rebuttaling that "There had been rumors about Caitlin Crossdressing (my mouth felt dirty just saying that) for years, and you can't know how someone feels about thier own body so it's best not to judge". At that point I left the conversation before I said somthing I'd regret later. But that whole conversation just proved that I won't be able to trust them not to say something behind my back when I'm not able to boymode anymore. Like don't get me wrong I very much dislike Caitlin and alot of the things she says and I cannot be counted among her fans or supporters of they even exist, but that's no reason to be so cruel as to misgender and deadname somebody so disrespectfully.