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The Secret Tax on Women’s Time​

“So you’re saying that there’s nothing outside of money, or time, that will make anything better?”

A mother of three from the upper-middle-class neighborhood of Edenvale, located northeast of Downtown Johannesburg, South Africa, paused and then answered: “Yes.”

This exchange is the essence of conversations one of us (Lindsay B. Howe), and her colleagues Alexandra Parker and Margot Rubin held with women in South Africa over the past several years. Across upper-middle class neighborhoods, working-class neighborhoods, and informal settlements, women wanted either more time or more money to manage household burdens in service of increasing control over their own time and personhood.

When studies revealed the so-called pink tax, showing in 2015 that personal hygiene products “for her” cost 13% more than similar products for men, it caused outrage and action. The irony that women, despite generally having fewer financial resources than men, are charged more for everyday goods and services even spurred French policymakers in 2014 to investigate this “secret tax” targeting women, and U.S. Congress in 2016 to introduce a “Pink Tax Repeal Act” prohibiting gender-based pricing discrimination.

But, as interviews and studies across the worldreveal, there is also an unaddressed pink tax on women’s time: A global epidemic of women lacking time to conduct the activities of their everyday lives that men simply do not experience. Though a lack of time can be just as important for women’s well-being as a lack of financial resources, losses of time often go overlooked. To pursue a more gender-equal future, we need to expand the notion of the pink tax to consider time as another vital resource in which women face inequalities.

Why women have less time than men

Women have less objective time than men: more things to do and fewer minutes in which do them. Men have on average 5 hours more of leisure time per week than women—equivalent to 260 hours, or 10.8 full 24-hour days, each year. Why is there this time inequality?

At home, childcare and chores devour women’s time. In interviews with working mothers in informal settlements in Kibera, Kenya, one lamented: “I have so much to do at home and I still have to go to work.” In data collected in rural Uganda, when asked whether men spend more time doing things they enjoy than women, another interviewee said: “Women don’t have a choice. It’s mandatory for them to do these things. A man can go to the garden and then go bathe and go drinking, and they don’t have other responsibilities.”

At work, women–even those who have the security of steady employment–face further unequal time demands. Women are more often asked and expected to take on “office housework”: necessary but non-promotabletasks such as taking notes, helping new hires get up to speed, bringing in cake for colleagues, or getting coffees for the office. Aligned with gender-based stereotypes, one study found that women volunteer up to 50% more than men for these tasks. Women are also less likely to delegate tasks to other employees than men, in part because they feel more guilt about potentially burdening their employees. Finally, women negotiate for time on their work tasks at a lower rate than men—in one study, men were more than twice as likely as women to request an extension when their deadline was adjustable—perpetuating this time poverty trapfurther.

The pink tax on time stems not only from major demands, but also small cuts. Women experience greater time administration, or burdens from managing others’ time. In interviews, organizing household chores—in addition to doing them—emerged as a common struggle. As another South African woman from Edenvale shared, “I actually shouted at my husband a couple of weeks ago. I said, ‘You know, you used to help with the laundry.’ He said, ‘Well, why don’t you remind me?’ And I said, ‘I have to remind you to remind you to do laundry? It’s laundry! It’s there! The basket is overflowing.’ … I think it’s just because I’m a woman. It’s just fallen into my lap.” Paralleling this pressure, at work, women spend more time helping to rethink and revise work practices to help organize others.

This research suggests that time administration does not just reduce women’s objective time. Women also feel a psychological burden from it, experiencing time as more stressful than men— even free time. Research suggests that this tax on subjective time further undermines women’s working lives and well-being.

Why women enjoy their time less than men

As a woman from the working-class South African neighborhood of Bedfordview described, “I judge myself. I expect myself to be ‘that wife.’ The wife that is perfect, that can cook, that can iron, that can look after the husband and the child and clean house all the time. I took my own personality and I buried it.” She felt constantly judged by her relatives, as well as society at large, leading to high levels of stress to “always be busy” doing care work and rarely enjoying the little time she did have for herself.

This is because women experience higher levels of time guilt: a constant pressure to be busy and productive, often complicated by extra guilt when work and family domains collide. Further, women are faced with time judgmentfrom others for how they use their time: for instance, either being judged as bad parents for spending too much time at work, or as bad workers for spending too much time at home.

Research also vividly illustrates how men do not as readily experience these feelings of time guilt and judgment. For instance, when asking one husband from Edenvale if he ever felt judged as a father, he responded saying, “That’s never something that bothered me. I’m aware of it, but it’s a bit like water off a duck’s back for me, and my wife gets very frustrated that it doesn’t bother me. Because it bothers her a lot, when she feels judged.”

Concomitantly, juggling more tasks results in women experiencing greater time fragmentation, meaning strain resulting from switching rapidly between competing demands or multiple activities interfering with one another. Moreover, women are more likely than men to be interrupted. In ongoing researchinto knowledge workers in the United States, Denmark, Brazil, and Spain, women were asked to report on what interrupts them at work. Initial results of one survey find that women were 33% more likely than men to report that it was their significant other.

Addressing the pink tax on time

How can we repeal the pink tax on time? First, we can address the objective pink tax with strategies to give women more free time overall.

Time-saving incentives are one solution: Giving women money or vouchers to pay someone else to complete daily tasks that erode their free time—cooking, shopping, laundry, bringing children to school, household maintenance—or to shorten the time spent on tasks, like providing money to take a taxi instead of a bus. Buying time in this way buffers people from time-related stress. Likewise, time-saving services, such as on-site, backup childcare, or prepared takeaway meals can reduce time burdens. Research suggests that time-saving services buffer both higherand lower-income working women from time-related stress.

Given that buying time is a luxury that few can afford, policy innovations are needed—and could be particularly impactful if they could be expanded and adapted to reach those with the lowest incomes around the globe. Time-saving policies should fit to the local context and tested for effectiveness. For example, in field research in Kibera, Kenya, women in informal settlements reported that meal and laundry services would be most helpful in saving time. The research team then worked with a local community center to study the effects of offering these time-saving services, finding that they reduced women’s perceived burden of unpaid labor by 7% and resulted in a 5% increase in well-being over the course of the study.

On a broader level, women could be encouraged to prioritize time. Most people—even time-stressed women—do not choose time over money. When given a choice of participation rewards, only 15% of working moms in Canadachose a housecleaning voucher over a cash prize in a lottery. Even those who clearly have the means to buy time often don’t: 40% of Dutch millionaires did not spend any money on outsourcing activities they disliked.

What would it take for women to use time-saving services? This highlights the second hurdle to repealing the pink tax on time: the factors that underlie the subjective pink tax on time.

This means overturning social norms that pressure women, while also supporting men to equalize the way time is spent. For example, 60% of women find workplace flexibility key to future jobs. But flexibility is not enough. It remains stereotyped as something “for women,” and there is a risk that with more flexible work, any time women gain will be consumed by domestic responsibilities. At the same time, men get criticized at work and are stereotyped as less masculine when taking on childcare responsibilities, even resulting in workplace penalties like being demoted.

Workplaces need to explicitly empower both women and men to use flexible work for family responsibilities. Clearer workplace policies like mandatory “no-meeting” or “no-work email” after 5 p.m. could help ensure that employees, regardless of gender, can pick up children from school or complete other household obligations, and can further help to break the cycle of busyness as a status symbol. In adopting such policies that can reduce negative perceptions of employees who take up flexible work, it is important for workplaces to consider how when they offer a blanket policy (e.g., parental leave for both women and men), women still might not benefit to the same extent as men because of the additional household demands they take on.

Furthermore, free time needs to be reframed as essential, rather than as unproductive and wasteful. Spending time on activities such as exercising, volunteering, or socializing predicts happiness, and valuing leisure over work is related to greater fulfillment. Mindsets must shift to view leisure as necessary rather than nice-to-have, to empower both women and men to make time for life outside of work and to encourage managers not to penalize people who do.

Finally, the meaning of work needs to be redefined from a limited set of glorified professional activities to incorporate the important unpaid labor women—and to a lesser extent men—conduct both at work and at home. Counting these often-invisible acts formally as work, having employees track it, and managers reward it (or, taking the onus off employees by tasking managers with tracking these acts) could represent a first step toward rectifying unequal time demands at work. Solutions like counting years of childcare towards social security—as is common in countries like Germany—could also help offset the time inequalities that compound over women’s lifetimes.

Until we act, women will continue to pay the pink tax on time: doing more chores and childcare, more administrative and non-promotable tasks, worrying more about time, and falling further into exhaustion and burnout.
 
Women live 7 years longer than men, this is just taxing the rich.


Now as for whether or not the tax is high enough...
Men have on average 5 hours more of leisure time per week than women—equivalent to 260 hours, or 10.8 full 24-hour days, each year. Why is there this time inequality?
For the first 61 years of life, women lose about 2 years of time. That's without accounting for childhood years and with rounding up.

Women still profit by 5 years, even after tax.

Oh, and the 7 years are locked to South Africa. I see Kenya is also mentioned in the article. The exact numbers will vary by region.

The 5 hours number is from Pew, so it's likely comparing apples to oranges.
 
This article is such BS I had to stop reading halfway through. It's riddled with fallacies and conveniently ignores any counterpoint.

I pay less for my hygiene products because I don't get UTIs on the regular and I don't care what I smell like. I don't do face masks, I don't use make up and I don't have to pay for products to take it off.

And women do have a choice when it comes to being at home. They don't need me to give them money so they can pay someone else to look after the kids because they need me time. They could work, then we would both be paying for the black nanny who throws our toddler across the leaving room. Family movies for when he grows up retarded.

The job thing is bs as well. If you are good, people don't ask you for coffee or to take notes. And if they do, you are a fucking moron if you don't do something about it.

You are valueless, that's why people treat you like this. This is not what people generally treat women like. It's about you you dumb bitch.

Also, women clothes are super cheap compared to men's. I can't stand the oppression anymore. I want choice, I want colors, I want cheap prices and I want it now bigot! The fashion industry is mainly made up of women and faggots, coincidence?
 
(Reads label.)

Hey, this stuff that's twice as expensive has an ingredients list that's twice as long.

This is clearly bigotry.
 
Mixed up in all the hysterical gender crap about pink razors there are a few things in there that I think are correct.
1. Women have less leisure time becasue they still work and do more housework.
From experience, as someone married for decades and with female and male friends married for decades, is that this is true. It’s especially true for the kind of personality that wants everything pristine and showhome, (not me) but I think it’s true for most, even those of us with lax standards. Men say they do equal, but in my experience, they don’t. Not the little things like the kids need new shoes and make sure they’ve got gym kit for Monday and pick that pile of laundry up.
That’s a disparity. I think this is a big driver of divorce as well - twenty five years of being treated like a skivvy will kill any affection. If you’re a stay at home mum you have time to do this, but if both work and one is doing more it’s a recipe for resentment.
So what’s the cure for this? Women staying home to be housewives? Of course not!! Can’t have that now can we? Just work more and lobby for the razors to be cheaper. They won’t be cheaper by the way, the mens ones will just get more expensive. See: car insurance
The job thing is bs as well. If you are good, people don't ask you for coffee or to take notes.
This actually happened to me about 15 years ago.
I was setting up a meeting room at work, the client came in, I’d only ever emailed them (pre zoom/teams era) and they told me very brusquely to get them coffee. I did, and they asked me to bring more coffee/ tea and biccies while they waited for their meeting with Dr. otterly.
I kind of lost the moment to defuse it, and of course the kind of SnapBack of ‘then everyjne clapped’ is forbidden at work so I got a cup of tea and politely introduced myself. That was a little awkward. I don’t think that would happen nowadays maybe, with zoom and more women around but it used to.
I've been told for decades that women are strong and empowered and can have it all. Now "having it all" is discriminatory because it takes up too much of their free time.
Are we learning yet that no one has it all? I don’t think we are. You can work, but then you’re away from your family. The exec level all have nannies, and staff, and almost everyone I know has a cleaner (I am too much of an autist to let some random in my home.) no one is having it all, it just doesn’t work.
I’d much rather stay home and look after my kids and house and husband than stress about batch QCs and regulatory submissions and run multi million dollar budgets. It sucks. But I can’t, because wages are too low to have one earner these days. So I try as best I can, but I resent it. Every working mum I know just feels stressed at work and guilty they’re not there as much as they want to be with their kids.
It’s a crap situation we’ve all made for ourselves.
 
When studies revealed the so-called pink tax, showing in 2015 that personal hygiene products “for her” cost 13% more than similar products for men, it caused outrage and action.
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But, as interviews and studies across the worldreveal, there is also an unaddressed pink tax on women’s time:
From the authors study:
Despite the fact that mothers still do more housework and child care than fathers, fathers’ overall work time (including unpaid work at home) is actually two hours more than that of mothers. Fathers also enjoy more leisure time than mothers; the gap is close to three hours per week.
Here is what I envision happening.

Dad get off his job and drives home through traffic or has to commute on a crowded / vagrant riddled train. They get home and close the front door.

They let out a sigh...after a hard day at work knowing his family relies on his performance at his job. He doesn't do his job as a side gig but as the primary breadwinner for his family.

The wife sees the tiredness in the father's eyes and puts on a Spongebob episode on the tablet the kids watch while providing them a sippy cup of apple juice.

The husband relaxes for 36 minutes in the den watching TV and drinking a beer

After an episode and a half, the wife announces dinner is ready both the husband and kids sit down to eat.

That is where your fucking three hours came from.
 
Mixed up in all the hysterical gender crap about pink razors there are a few things in there that I think are correct.
1. Women have less leisure time becasue they still work and do more housework.
From experience, as someone married for decades and with female and male friends married for decades, is that this is true. It’s especially true for the kind of personality that wants everything pristine and showhome, (not me) but I think it’s true for most, even those of us with lax standards. Men say they do equal, but in my experience, they don’t. Not the little things like the kids need new shoes and make sure they’ve got gym kit for Monday and pick that pile of laundry up.
That’s a disparity. I think this is a big driver of divorce as well - twenty five years of being treated like a skivvy will kill any affection. If you’re a stay at home mum you have time to do this, but if both work and one is doing more it’s a recipe for resentment.
So what’s the cure for this? Women staying home to be housewives? Of course not!! Can’t have that now can we? Just work more and lobby for the razors to be cheaper. They won’t be cheaper by the way, the mens ones will just get more expensive. See: car insurance

This actually happened to me about 15 years ago.
I was setting up a meeting room at work, the client came in, I’d only ever emailed them (pre zoom/teams era) and they told me very brusquely to get them coffee. I did, and they asked me to bring more coffee/ tea and biccies while they waited for their meeting with Dr. otterly.
I kind of lost the moment to defuse it, and of course the kind of SnapBack of ‘then everyjne clapped’ is forbidden at work so I got a cup of tea and politely introduced myself. That was a little awkward. I don’t think that would happen nowadays maybe, with zoom and more women around but it used to.

Are we learning yet that no one has it all? I don’t think we are. You can work, but then you’re away from your family. The exec level all have nannies, and staff, and almost everyone I know has a cleaner (I am too much of an autist to let some random in my home.) no one is having it all, it just doesn’t work.
I’d much rather stay home and look after my kids and house and husband than stress about batch QCs and regulatory submissions and run multi million dollar budgets. It sucks. But I can’t, because wages are too low to have one earner these days. So I try as best I can, but I resent it. Every working mum I know just feels stressed at work and guilty they’re not there as much as they want to be with their kids.
It’s a crap situation we’ve all made for ourselves.
I don't know all the stay-at-home moms I know are pretty fucking happy staying at home being mom's.
 
I don't know all the stay-at-home moms I know are pretty fucking happy staying at home being mom's.
Yeah that’s my point. It’s much better being a stay at home mum. I want to be one. It’s just nigh on impossible in the UK with our crap wages and ridiculous house prices.
Women are told we can have it all. But we can’t - no one can. Men who get to the high levels have a wife at home or a fleet of staff and women who get to high levels barely see their kids. It’s all a con. Let us be housewives
Edited to avoid double post.
@Matt Damon nowhere particularly posh, but I’d say 70% have a cleaner. They don’t advertise it though. I was really surprised when I started asking.
I don’t understand how people maintain the lifestyles they have. People who live around us have multiple cars, cleaner, i gadgets, nails done, hair done, holidays all the time etc. we do none of that, and we aren’t rich at all. I am curious as to how. Credit maybe? Never saving?
 
Mixed up in all the hysterical gender crap about pink razors there are a few things in there that I think are correct.
1. Women have less leisure time becasue they still work and do more housework.
From experience, as someone married for decades and with female and male friends married for decades, is that this is true. It’s especially true for the kind of personality that wants everything pristine and showhome, (not me) but I think it’s true for most, even those of us with lax standards. Men say they do equal, but in my experience, they don’t. Not the little things like the kids need new shoes and make sure they’ve got gym kit for Monday and pick that pile of laundry up.
That’s a disparity. I think this is a big driver of divorce as well - twenty five years of being treated like a skivvy will kill any affection. If you’re a stay at home mum you have time to do this, but if both work and one is doing more it’s a recipe for resentment.
So what’s the cure for this? Women staying home to be housewives? Of course not!! Can’t have that now can we? Just work more and lobby for the razors to be cheaper. They won’t be cheaper by the way, the mens ones will just get more expensive. See: car insurance
Of course, if both work, you need to find a balance. I did not read the whole thing, but the feeling I got was more along the lines of "I have to be stay at home mother, because otherwise I am a coffee girl, I need more money and time too".


This actually happened to me about 15 years ago.
I was setting up a meeting room at work, the client came in, I’d only ever emailed them (pre zoom/teams era) and they told me very brusquely to get them coffee. I did, and they asked me to bring more coffee/ tea and biccies while they waited for their meeting with Dr. otterly.
I kind of lost the moment to defuse it, and of course the kind of SnapBack of ‘then everyjne clapped’ is forbidden at work so I got a cup of tea and politely introduced myself. That was a little awkward. I don’t think that would happen nowadays maybe, with zoom and more women around but it used to.

What I meant when I said after "And if they do, you are a fucking moron if you don't do something about it." is obviously subject to many interpretation, but I certainly did not mean this to say fly of the handle.

For a customer, there is not much you can do.
With a colleague, you can just tell them that this was a one off and you did not want to offend them by reacting harshly, but you do not believe it to be a good use of your time. You will never hear about it again.
 
You know what'd help women get more time back; being a stay at home wife/mother, and not thinking she needs to have a job while being a single mother. Also, what they try to present as a case study just seems to be women's paranoia about what other people think of them; and how it mentally stresses them. That's not a tax, that's a psycho being psycho.
 
Yeah that’s my point. It’s much better being a stay at home mum. I want to be one. It’s just nigh on impossible in the UK with our crap wages and ridiculous house prices.
Women are told we can have it all. But we can’t - no one can. Men who get to the high levels have a wife at home or a fleet of staff and women who get to high levels barely see their kids. It’s all a con. Let us be housewives
Oh, I understood your point. I wanted to continue the conversation . Being a stay at home mom is considered a luxury even in the United States. It's almost a symbol of status and wealth. Throw in a fully loaded suburban fresh off the lot and you got it made.
Stay at home moms tend to from my experience I know. they seem happier and healthier and so do their kids for the most part
 
With a colleague, you can just tell them that this was a one off and you did not want to offend them by reacting harshly, but you do not believe it to be a good use of your time. You will never hear about it again.
Or give them the ol' Costanza scoff and walk away.

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Life is infinitely better when you don't care whether people like you.
 
Or give them the ol' Costanza scoff and walk away.

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Life is infinitely better when you don't care whether people like you.
I think I would personally be extremely dismissive and sarcastic if that were to happen to me.

But then again, this is a scenario I can only imagine in my wildest dreams. I actually probably would just burst in laughter. If you have any job that does not involve service, it's a very weird occurrence when you think about it.
 
Of course, if both work, you need to find a balance. I did not read the whole thing, but the feeling I got was more along the lines of "I have to be stay at home mother, because otherwise I am a coffee girl, I need more money and time too".




What I meant when I said after "And if they do, you are a fucking moron if you don't do something about it." is obviously subject to many interpretation, but I certainly did not mean this to say fly of the handle.

For a customer, there is not much you can do.
With a colleague, you can just tell them that this was a one off and you did not want to offend them by reacting harshly, but you do not believe it to be a good use of your time. You will never hear about it again.
It was, honestly quite embarrassing. I should have introduced myself the minute they walked in, I didn’t, and so this happened. There was some awkward laughter and apologies and I introduced myself and waved it off. Im small and do look young for my age (and 15 years ago I looked very young.) these things happen.
Lol they’d get the full blast of WokeScorn these days maybe even as a client? I do t know.
Being a stay at home mom is considered a luxury even in the United States. It's almost a symbol of status and wealth.
Yeah, that’s just so weird isn’t it? Something we took for granted as normal a few decades ago is now a luxury for the few. I’ve had a few longer stints at home for maternity leaves and was far happier, and I think the family was too.
There are much deeper issues here which are being diverted into daft stuff like pink taxes. As always, the real issue, which is class and wealth inequality is not allowed to be discussed. Instead it’s diverted to arguments about gender. Occupy Wall Street really scared them. Let’s do that again
 
There are much deeper issues here which are being diverted into daft stuff like pink taxes. As always, the real issue, which is class and wealth inequality is not allowed to be discussed. Instead it’s diverted to arguments about gender. Occupy Wall Street really scared them. Let’s do that again
Even if it were to happen again, and there were strong leaders and group to tell the progressives and retards to fuck off with their progressive stack and Native American Rain Dance Rights and other bullshit; the media would still field a retard/controlled opposition like Ketchup instead of someone who's actually legitimate. Because that's the easiest way to distort the message; especially if you can get them on Steward or Colbert or whoever it is to make the whole thing a laughing stock. The hard part is keeping the retards out, because even if their heart is in the right place, they're a poison. I mean hell, even if you were to agree with the CHAZ in Seattle; the moment they started the "Black/Bipoc Garden" which was just some soil and shit atop some cardboard... ask yourself if you're supposed to take these people seriously. Even if there was a legitimate message, it gets polluted from all the freaks.
 
I don’t understand how people maintain the lifestyles they have. People who live around us have multiple cars, cleaner, i gadgets, nails done, hair done, holidays all the time etc. we do none of that, and we aren’t rich at all. I am curious as to how. Credit maybe? Never saving?

Credit and no savings is it right there. There's a lot of conspicuous consumption and penny-wise-pound-foolish thinking I've seen in other professionals at my level, and a lot of them gain no benefit from it. They hate gardening so they pay for professionals. They want the newest Internet of Shit gadgets without being able to install or maintain them. Love neat, clean nails but can't be assed to do it themselves. Lots of little time/labor saving treats that become the expected standard and wow, why is our credit so awful and we're always broke?!!!

Though the pink tax can be a real thing when it weaves in with professional requirements (Makeup is highly discouraged where I work so at least I have that going for me), mostly it's just about image and is entirely self inflicted. I will say there is a qualitative difference sometimes but even there, the generic store brand soaps are typically the same price regardless of whether they smell like flowers or spice. There's no real male equivalent to tampons which is always going to be a sore point, unfortunately.
 
Dad get off his job and drives home through traffic or has to commute on a crowded / vagrant riddled train. They get home and close the front door.

They let out a sigh...after a hard day at work knowing his family relies on his performance at his job. He doesn't do his job as a side gig but as the primary breadwinner for his family.

The wife sees the tiredness in the father's eyes and puts on a Spongebob episode on the tablet the kids watch while providing them a sippy cup of apple juice.

The husband relaxes for 36 minutes in the den watching TV and drinking a beer

After an episode and a half, the wife announces dinner is ready both the husband and kids sit down to eat.

That is where your fucking three hours came from.

Not too far off. 10 mins for a quick smoke before the kids realize I'm home. Bluey instead of SpongeBob. Watch and play with the kids for a couple hours before bedtime to give the missus a break. By break I mean a chance to clean dishes/kitchen without the kids being in the way.

Hate how much the view of parenting in news media comes off as though the mother and father are working against each other to see who can watch the kids less.

It's fucking exhausting all around, no matter if you are the mother or father. Your team mates to fill in each other's gaps, not coworkers to fulfill your individual title and not a duty more.
 
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