The racist history behind conjugal visits - From the practice's inception to two recent murders of prison visitors, conjugal visits are nothing to laugh at.

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Conjugal visits, like so many practices and institutions in the so-called land of the free United States, have a racist history behind their inception.

The phrase "conjugal visit" has recently been on the minds of many true crime followers, not just prisoners, since news broke of David Brinson, 54, allegedly strangling his wife Stephanie Dowells, 62, in November of 2024 at Mule Creek State Prison in Northern California, during one of the controversial visits. Brinson was serving a life sentence for quadruple murder. A pattern seems to be setting up at Mule Creek State Prison, as Anthony Curry, another inmate serving a life sentence, was charged for murder in the strangulation death of his domestic partner, Tania Thomas, 47, during a conjugal visit months earlier, reports USA TODAY. Dowells's death has gained nationwide attention as many, including her loved ones, question how prison officials could leave anyone alone with a convicted murderer for hours at a time with no surveillance.

But what exactly is a "conjugal visit"? Called family visits in New York and California, conjugal visits allow inmates to spend hours or sometimes days with a visitor in a trailer or an apartment outfitted with a bed and often a kitchen, that is usually located on prison grounds. The practice is meant to facilitate bonding between a prisoner and their partner, children, and/or parents. Proponents of family visit programs argue that they reduce sexual violence incidents between inmates and help preserve the inmate's connection to their family, according to USA TODAY. Washington and Connecticut also allow conjugal visits.

While some conjugal visits nowadays can include children and other family members, pop culture is generally correct in its depiction as an opportunity for inmates to have sex with their spouses. However, the prisoner's race is no longer a determining factor like it was at the practice's inception in the US.

You see, the notion of permitting inmates to have sex was borne from the racist hyper-sexualization of Black men stereotype. The Mississippi State Penitentiary, which was segregated under Jim Crow, instituted conjugal visits in the early 1900s as a means of controlling Black prisoners. The Parchman Farm, which opened in 1903 as a series of work camps on 1,600 acres of farmland, used the Black inmates for free labor, reports The Columbus Dispatch. The arrangement was akin to enslavement and the warden at the time reportedly thought sex was an appropriate incentive to encourage Black men to work harder in the Parchman fields. As a result, Black prisoners were afforded time with spouses or, more often, prostitutes on Sundays.

The murders of Dowells and Thomas, allegedly, at the hands of their imprisoned lovers has no doubt added to the scrutiny of conjugal visits, but let's be honest, this practice has been controversial since its racist inception at the Mississippi State Penitentiary.
 
It's raciss to let a man have sex with his wife. Castrate all niggers, that'll solve the problem.

No seriously just castrate all niggers.
 
As a result, Black prisoners were afforded time with spouses or, more often, prostitutes on Sundays.
Okay, so it's not racist anymore.

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Gonna guess there's not a diverse range of opinions on historical issues.
 
Yeah what is up with TWO women being strangled during overnight visits by inmates? Almost like violent criminals aren’t safe to be around.

Anyone who commits a quadruple murder can't be trusted alone in a room with another person.
Everything is racist. Let black male prisoners have conjugal visits? It's racist. Don't let black male prisoners have conjugal visits? Also racist.

This was awesome read in the voice of Murderface.
 
I really fucking doubt that this was the first case in USA history where criminals, especially ones imprisoned for non violent offenses, have been allowed to have time with their wives. At best it would be where the term came up.
 
Bold of you to think people like this use logic. NPCs are simple state machines that don't reason but, rather, use a simple lookup table that they've been programmed with.
 
The Mississippi State Penitentiary, which was segregated under Jim Crow, instituted conjugal visits in the early 1900s as a means of controlling Black prisoners. The Parchman Farm, which opened in 1903 as a series of work camps on 1,600 acres of farmland, used the Black inmates for free labor, reports The Columbus Dispatch. The arrangement was akin to enslavement and the warden at the time reportedly thought sex was an appropriate incentive to encourage Black men to work harder in the Parchman fields. As a result, Black prisoners were afforded time with spouses or, more often, prostitutes on Sundays.
A few things...
  • How is this racist? It seems like a great reward regardless of race.
  • If the labor is free then how are they hiring the prostitute?
  • Are we sure the warden didn't just want to watch black people fuck?
 
Conjugal visits, like so many practices and institutions in the so-called land of the free United States, have a racist history behind their inception.
I know the article is shit when it starts like this, not because it can't be true (many things do in fact have dark origins), but because the "truth" here is something like "they don't want us to wear cornrows because we used to make maps with our hair to escape slavery!" and that's absolute bs.
 
So, if I'm understanding this right, 120 years ago Nigger-Americans were allowed to see their families in prison while unhyphenated Americans were not, and this not only was an example of discrimination against the dark race, but continues to be such to this day when they are no longer the only race to face the horror of having sex?
 
Articles like this warm my heart. Totally pointless, total nonsense, relies on social outrage. No one actually cares about it. One step closer to total journo death.

If this is what you are bringing to the table, no one wants to eat it.
 
If you choose to give comfort to monsters it’s not exactly an unspeakable injustice when your pet murderer murders you.

0 worthwhile humans have been killed during conjugal visits.
 
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